Any advice for what to do when the guy you like is actively talking to you about people he has crushes on, leaving you feeling pain and sadness?
Thank you for your question, @teeth-consumer-san
When I was no more than a disciple to my incredible sensei Saitama, I was in much the same position. Whilst he did not talk a lot about his crushes - be they past or present crushes - he did talk about them from time to time, and it was difficult to bear.
I desperately wanted to know whether he was interested in men, so I foolishly asked for more information whilst I tried to ascertain the answer, which only led to further confusion and heartache. He seldom mentioned ‘guys’ and either referred to his crushes as ‘she’ or ‘they’. There was never any mention of ‘he’.
To cope with this, and not to mention the rest of my feelings for him, which I felt would never be realised or reciprocated, I started this blog.
At time of writing I have been chronicling my sensei and fiance Saitama’s incredible actions (and my feelings for him) here for 4 years, 6 months and 2 weeks.
My Saitama and I are getting married in 3 months and 2 days.
It is sometimes unbelievable that things have changed so much.
But they may have changed sooner, had I had the courage to speak up sooner.
Had I spoken up sooner, my Saitama and I might be married now. We might be celebrating our first anniversary, or our second, or our third.
But I didn’t, because I didn’t think I had a chance with my incredible sensei. Even though as it turned out, he talked about his crushes because he wanted to figure out if I was interested in him.
Therefore if the person you like is single, it’s worth confessing to them. They might be waiting for you to make the first move.
If they aren’t interested, then at least you know and can move on. It is with that thought that I decided to try and confess to my Saitama, even though it ended up not going at all to plan.
On second thought, I’m not the best person to ask about these things.
