"The right person will never leave your side ":
Idk what other people think about this saying that "the right person for you won't leave your side " ,but to me yeah ,even the right person can leave you if you treat them like nothing ,if you continually discard their concerns in the relationship,if you continuously fails to change yourself to be a better person when they are trying to be a better person for you ,if you know how to take everything from others but not to give anything to others ,if you are abusive ,toxic ,a big liar ,cheater and manipulative and have really disturbing tendencies to go to every length for your own benefit,and if you are always a victim in your own eyes ,then yeah ,even the right person will leave you
I had met these kinds of people in my life many times who always have abnormal level of selfishness ,have inflated egos ,and ridiculously nothing is there to back up the level of entitlement those people had ,who told me that their partner or family or friends have to be submissive to them to prove that they are the right person for them ,have to tolerate their pathetic behaviour,otherwise they can find anyone for them because everyone is willing to be in relationship with them ,it's concerning and disturbing that if you want others to be submissive and never questions anything you do in a relationship,or whatever you do to your family/friends /lovers ,what rights do the other person have and yeah ,for these kind of people,there is no right person for them because for them ,you are only right if you are beneficial to them in any way , if you are fulfilling their needs ,if you make their life easy ,otherwise you are just a normal person or wrong person/lesson and they are always on their journey to find the right person for them while treating everyone in a wrong way and being a wrong person for everyone
So ,to everyone who ever feel like they need to go to extra lengths to make their parents ,siblings , friends,lovers , partner happy and make relationship work ,you are not wrong ,if you are doing everything and nothing is working you don't need to change yourself,or you don't need to dim your light to make them happy ,to make them shine ,to not let their ego hurt ,or to not do anything which can make them question anything ,deep down they know that they are wrong ,you are just not that important for them to change and be a better person,so dont waste your life , happiness,and peace for people who are with you because its convenient for them