Feelings
It´s being a while since I tried writing something deep and meaningful in English and it comforts me that not a lot of people read this blog of mine which usually just contains pictures and silly gifs.
No one said marriage was easy but I am positively sure that most of the people that like me walked the aisle a while ago had this idea on their minds that their marriage was going to be different and not alike those marriages that crumble and fall apart months or years after they professed true love in front of god and oh boy how wrong was I.
I love my husband very much do not get me wrong, every single one of his annoying little details that make him unique I have learned over 4 years of relationship that I would not be able to live without them.
I guess nobody was born knowing how to cope with other people´s dreams and routines. Every once in a while you need to step back, look at the big picture and just take a deep breath. Relax and take it easy just as Mika said in his song. Do not take things personally with your partner as I bet you have flaws as well.
Try to stay positive and everytime you hit a negative spot in your life as a couple sit down and type all of what affects you, let it out and try again.
Marriage should be a happy roadtrip (ups and downs included) not a rollercoaster ride, those are joyful, exciting and full of adreline yes but they end after a couple of seconds.