#yoda's corner

[gg-astrology]

Does having Saturn in the 8th makes one have intimacy issues?? Sometimes I feel weird and bad because all my friends would be hugging or shaking hands while I'll just wave awkwardly or just be standing there with a smile. Sometimes I wish I can just hug them cuz it's just a hug. It simple. But Idk why I just can't bring myself to do that to my friends or even family. Being affectionate is so hard and awkward to me😭😭

Hey it’s ok ❤️💕💗  I think it’s important to talk about boundaries as well? Love language is different, and you don’t have to feel obligated to hug or touch personally to just about anyone. Everyone has different preference or tolerance and you know this. Don’t bring it down on yourself for what others may perceive as the norm for them or what their standard is, you have yours. 

It’s one thing to just not prefer it, that’s completely fine. You know yourself best and thats what good for you. It is another thing if there’s an underlying reason if you think you’d be much happier (for yourself) if you prefer to be touched or want to touch others. You can - always - give it a go, and if you find that ‘yeah no i’m perfectly happy not getting physical’ then that’s the end of it ! it’s fine! know your boundaries! ❤️💕💗 

A hug is still an act of intimacy, one you don’t have to give to just about anyone or share if you don’t want to. Don’t let anyone (or yourself) pressure you into it. Especially since you know yourself best, set your boundaries. That comes with knowing your boundaries as well, and what you want for yourself too. 

I think... if it’s bothering you, talking about this with someone and just communicating with them/letting out your thoughts help. If it helps if you think that this doesn’t-- require action from others, or if you feel guilty or something, let them know that they don’t have to accommodate you, just let them know you don’t want that and it’s just you letting some thoughts out. 

I think talking as a form of self-expression helps a lot with this, if you feel like physical touch is a form of self-expression for someone else, talking about it and what you think, how you think, may be helpful as well. Just to reaffirm that you have your own form of self-expression too and that it doesn’t all (all self-expression) doesn’t have to be physical. I think its also much better to understand yourself as you say it aloud as well, learning about you as you go, so yeah ❤️💕💗  I hope this helps ❤️💕💗 

[gg-astrology]

hi!!! I rly love ur blog and I’ve been religiously reading ur stuff since November!!! they got me through my finals n ❤️❤️❤️❤️ sending all my lov ur way!!!! so,, I’m a leo sun/merc cap moon gem Venus and sag rising/mars,.., and I’m still hung up over a guy I was friends w 6 years ago cause of the what if,, and I feel it’s preventing me from being capable of legit relationships rn - theyre all for fun/ attention, do u think my chart makes me predisposed to this? guy’s a taurus sun leo moon! -🍓

Hey there!!! 💕💓❤️ Woah I’m!!! So glad you like the blog and the things we have on here!! ;v; 💕💓❤️ It’s been a while!! 💕💓❤️ There’s also.. alot of stuff to go through so I hope my inactivity haven’t affected this much ;; !! 💕💓❤️I’m really happy to hear it got you through finals, that’s like, a High Praise because finals are really really dreadful and if I helped alleviate the stress in any way.. that’s a High Compliment and I’m so so touched... thank you.. 💕💓❤️

Oh my god..what a feel. And possibly, but that’s also why you got to meet a better guy y know? Like I can see why this guy would be impactful even when he left. That’s exactly why you’re left to find someone who would fit you better and in a different way y know? 

It could be good in a different way. But what you know is what you had from experience, so while dreaming of other possibilities is nice- it’s also not something you’ve found/experienced with yet. I don’t think you’re preventing yourself from other relationships as much as you just haven’t found it (something worth investing more in) yet. 

I actually had little useful advice for this other than something like ‘you’re a gemini venus it’ll be ok’ so I had to ask my other friends for advice. One of my leo/cap suggest that maybe you’re the type who has to live through the stages to get over someone, and I think that’s pretty good advice? perhaps you could try talking it out or going through the stages, in order to truly get over this person? 💕💓❤️ My other leo/cap also said experience; such as meeting new people, more stimulating and worthwhile hobbies, investing in work/self now that you can focus. I guess both of them would suggest investing in something else - since it seems you’ve invested more of yourself into this possibility with this person, then it should be said that perhaps something equally stimulating should compensate for it in other areas. I think that makes sense? 💕💓❤️ 

In anycase, these are very practical advice. if you were to ask me, I’d probably say to sit someone down and go through healing process of opening up to them (the terrifying ordeal) in order to heal from this/focus on budding trust through intimacy/vulnerability with this person instead. I hope these are! good suggestions to consider! 💕💓❤️

[gg-astrology]

hey I really love your blog and it’s helped me learn a lot about astrology um also I’m a leo sun cap moon sag rising and gem Venus and I just... wanna know if these placements r responsible for me really craving attention n love but also feeling simultaneously very incapable of loving someone and being in love and feeling strongly for anyone at all and idk :/ feels like an internal conflict and it sux big time... is this what happens when moon/Venus is in opposition?? hope U have a great day 🥰

Hey there!! 💓❤️💓 aaaa!!! 💓❤️💓im really glad u like this blog and it helped u with learning astrology!! ;; 💓❤️💓pls,, thats a compliment so thank u ;;💓❤️💓💓❤️💓I hope u have a good day too, and im so sorry about that :( the first thought i had while reading this is that it Will work out ;; 💓❤️💓

We’re all developing somehow, i don’t believe (as long as we’re aware) we can let ourselves be truly incapable of not moving (no matter how still/stagnant we think we are) in any way/shape/form. Eventually, even with just time alone, something will have to settle for us to put it to rest/on pause and move on with another page of our life. Hopefully, we’ll find reprieve in a conclusion we choose ourselves. 💓❤️💓 

I wanted to answer it this way bc there ARE people who feels most comfortable and happy without the conventional norm and we want to be accepting of that as well! 💓❤️💓 This is personal to you, so I can only offer some advice (if you’d have them ;; you don’t have to) -- we have our flavors and our style of love (in this sense it’s just simply care and thought for others, which can be shown in many different ways, expressed in many forms, and developed over a period of time if needed) -- it doesn’t mean it have to be conventional or romantic or “perfect”. Finding our keys, learning to accept and love on ourselves, how we cope, our experience. I think that’s all important to how we make the most of it as well. It’s all a mesh together and sometimes it spins you round, but its ok! 💓❤️💓 You’re capable of love, if not for others in the way they want, then at least love for yourself - in the way you need to cope. And take it further than coping, into real love. Y know? 💓❤️💓

I hope this helps 💓❤️💓 i hope its not cryptic or anything ;; I think you can do it! 💓❤️💓 and if you want to talk to me -- I’m here for you 💓❤️💓💓❤️💓  Thanks for dropping by and being so brave by mentioning all this?? That takes guts to open up, and I’ll look at it with respect and admiration honestly 💓❤️💓

[gg-astrology]

hi i don't know if this is a stupid question but i was wondering if you could tell me what makes us attracted to our biases based on our charts, if you have the time and don't mind

Hey there! ❤️💕💗 I’ve read something interesting the other day? I can’t remember it word for word, but I think it was like:

‘Biasing someone bc they understand you, biasing someone because you want to be like them, biasing someone because you admire them/completely different’

I think it was said in a funnier way, like someone who’s just like you, someone who you’d adopt, someone who dazzle you, etc. And that’s very interesting because there ARE different types of bias? 

There’s first biaswho I bias because we’re very similar. There’s bias where I feel like I’ve grown to know them more, but we are distinctively different and I appreciate what they do that I can’t do. There’s biases where I’m in awe of their beauty, but what they do touches my heart, and they have qualities I really want to implement into how I want to treat others around me as well. It might seem the same, but its different when I think about it. There’s qualities in how I appreciate, what I like/dislike about them that makes the pros and cons all distinctively different from each other? 

I haven’t thought much of it in terms of astrologically, how it would play into that. But I’d probably believe that there are qualities in others that, accumulated by who they are individually and their personal development/experience, makes you able to appreciate what everyone brings to the table. There’s those that aligns with how you’re going/your path, and there’s those that you may not have reached a meeting-point in their path and yours yet. But thats! ❤️💕💗 My thoughts on it so far? ❤️💕💗

[gg-astrology]

I'M SO HAPPY YOU'RE BACK I MISSED YOU!!! :'( I'm glad your laptop is fixed ^^ I hope you're doing well and taking care of yourself :) I'm not sure if you remember but I was the one who asked about Pisces Venus conjunct Jupiter in 9H. I want go into teaching (High School) but I'm not sure if I'm good enough. I'm a Cancer rising w/ Aries Sun, Saturn and Mercury(R) in 10H, Cap Moon in 7H, Taurus MC and Mars in 11H, Pisces Venus conjunct Jupiter in 9H.

Hey there!! ❤️💕💗 Ofc I remember!! ❤️💕💗 I think you’ll be a great teacher to be honest, you’re good enough. I believe you’d be protective, wise, smart and resourceful. I also think you’re kind enough to students, and understanding of what you can do for them. I think people need that, and not just like - just teaching, but people who can do things for them and open opportunities for them. 

People who notices when other need other resources/facilities to help them learn and fulfill their academic capabilities. People who can jump in and talk to facilities and others, to help kids and others get to those resources. I think you’re good enough, and I think there’s space for you to do things. I think -- just as long as your heart is true, you want to teach, and you don’t turn a blind eye to these things but have a goal/believe in others, you’ll be kind and you’ll be good to them. You’ll do well.

I hope this helps ❤️💕💗Fighting!! ❤️💕💗❤️💕💗 

[gg-astrology]

What can an Aries sun/Scorpio rising/Cap Moon/Aquarius Venus do to seem less... cutthroat?

Hey there! 💕❤️ Um I mean what is making people react the way they’re reacting to you? 💕❤️ If it’s how you talk, impressions people have, how you look - I’m not really sure but I can tentatively suggest maybe changing a few words or habits to give off a better impression? 💕❤️ 

I’m not sure what it is you’re doing since it could be your perspective or how you phrase things as well, but if it helps you could try to incorporate softer words of comfort/responses, affirmation of others (i.e. things like changing from “i like you but..” to “I like you and...” even if you have to deny them) -- little habits like these, might possibly help with appearing less ‘cut-throat?’ and giving a different impression? 💕❤️

[gg-astrology]

Can you please explain Libras to me, i know they're peace makers and loved by all , i just can't help but to think of them as fake, shallow and indecisive, i really appreciate DEPTH and honesty and not just following beauty 🙂

buddy this problem stems from you its not about them its your attitude thats the problem 🙂 if you want an answer: we technically have all 12 signs ruling different affairs of our lives, part of us. If you have a problem with a certain sign, it’s probably because you might need to explore + reconcile with what you see with the problem/the house that’s not fulfilling for you. Or maybe a venus aspect/placements that you keep falling into and thus hurting over. 

Certain explanations can be self-deception bc we have our egos to protect us. But certain things requires time to get to know, recover and seek out a truth that is outside our framework in the moment/right now. It’s personal development and character depth, when we can let go of our side and truly address/take responsibility for the circumstances/situation that happened. 

So to answer this question: you can’t associate a sign to certain things and be prejudice/bitter over your own experience. Ultimately you’ll have to make a choice to reconcile with your own attitude/how you handled the situation, If you refuse to let go of a framework of thinking, you’ll continue to just want to argue with people over things based on your perspective and experience, If you just want to vent and be heard – say so, but don’t cement it into prejudice, since it’ll only make you hold it as something you can’t learn from/hurt yourself for longer.

Also, a signs expressions changes/adapts to those planet that it’s placed in. The traits/descriptions for signs usually (in a broad spectrum of medias) are usually just referring to sun traits. Libra’s fall in the sun, it’s not the same as say a Libra Venus or Leo Sun person. I wish you best of luck 🙂

[gg-astrology]

it would be really really really interesting if you could do a post on attributes/personalities that BTS members dislike?? Instead of what they admire or like about people, what annoys them or what they hate. I think it would be so interesting bc their image and message is so centred around being open and loving to humanity, it's hard to get a read on them as fellow humans with their own turn offs. If you have the time and desire, please consider this for a post! Thank you! I love your blog!

Hey there!! ❤️💕💗 This is such an interesting ask and I’m so glad you explained (very well!!! you explained it very well!!! and I agree with your points!!) -- I really like what you’re saying about their image/presentation but molding that with how they’re still actually people who has things we like/dislike! ❤️💕💗

Rather than saying ‘Caps hate this this and this’ -- I think it’s also about development and nurture as well. Like how sometimes you hear people say ‘a libra did x to me’ or ‘scorpios are always x’ -- I think it’s about people hating underdeveloped issues and problems in others. Not that it’s always a true rule, but we’ve encountered people who sometimes act/behave in a way that aggravate us due to their personal issues/agenda? 

I’ve heard about a saying that -- ‘you hate people who you see reflect things in yourself/your issues’ -- that would make it a part of us learning how to live with ourselves and resolving our issues through others. It would imply - that to an extent we are hypocrites but we’re also projecting onto others/hating a part of ourselves others projected into the world. 

So does that mean that -- we ourselves are above certain issues and seeing it again aggravates us, or does that mean that we’ve yet to understand, experienced or sympathized (and thus, resolve) that issues that we see/hate in others? I’m not sure either, I don’t have an answer for this because I’m also learning/growing into it still. But I think it could be both, depending on context as of right now?

To not make this long-winded; the reason I pointed this out was because I think the msg you’re talking about, with them being human and having likes/dislikes - as well as their representation of being better and open and loving is very important. I think they can be both at once, just like how we’re encouraged to be like that too and pass this message forward. We have likes/dislikes, but what we’re projecting is a hope/wish for others to be better. 

Personal likes/dislikes and things we can’t help but hate/feel uncomfortable with about others - I think it’s also do to with the person (who’s aggravating/making us uncomfortable) themselves and their issues, we seeing that and knowing the best we can do sometimes is to protect/remove ourselves from the position/presence or resolve the issue. But it’s still -- a personal issue to them, so unless they can resolve it themselves, the resolution won’t bear fruit unless they do it, not us.   

So to answer about attributes of dislikes/things they can’t handle - this would be my take: there are things we don’t like about others that are more to do with their problem/projections that makes those around uncomfortable. It’s not just personal to be uncomfortable/take it with you, but there may be others who may be willing to help them forward/is better than you in doing so. It can be a racist in your midst, a person who’s likes/interests are different than yours, a person who’s personality differs - I don’t think it’s enough to dislike someone just based on personality differences, unless it’s actually harmful to others/socially. Things we stand for/take actions to resolve, I think talks about us more than what we hate. I hope this? makes sense? And help answer your q??  ❤️💕💗