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I'm new to the sugar bowl and could use your advice. Have you ever had a POT visit you from out of town? One will be flying in for a couple days to meet me for the first time (supposedly) and booked a lush hotel in my city. Any words of advice?

Yeah. But unless they travel to my city often, I don't give them the time of day. Who cares if he booked a hotel, unless you two are in an arrangement you shouldn't be sleeping with him.

I'm back, kind of

I'm still with Drummer. Things are beyond amazing. I took some time off of Tumblr, because I got tired of all these entitled, snobby girls. Honestly. If a man isn't going to hand you 1k just for lunch, doesn't mean he's salt. Means that he's feeling you out...or your delusional. Asking for travel expenses (gas money and whatever) is fine, but be classy about it. I will post answers to questions as I get them.

Do you have to be very beautiful and skinny to find a sugar daddy? When should you start having sex? Thank you 😊😘❤

When it's natural for you two to have sex. You have to be beautiful, smart, funny, but skinny? No. Not obese. But yes, looks matter. But you have to be more then just beautiful. But if you're not attractive, none of it matters. This will seriously kill your self -esteem or build it.Confidence is most important.

Hey Girl! Love your tumbler very insightful. I'm literally just jumping into the sugar bowl and I was curious if you've ever used craigslist. If so, what was your experience like? And the negotiations surrounding allowance! What has worked for you? Would love to connect via email. It's been an interesting search trying to find fellow curvy sugar babes

Don't. It's stupid. It's mostly quick one n done nights for $100

Hello! I'm a new sb and I was wondering when I should text my sd. Like a few times a week or every day? I talk to him about 2-4 times a week?

Ask him like this:"Good morning handsome. Quick question. I know you're super busy a lot, and I want to make sure I'm not crossing any boundaries with you. How often can we talk, and what's the best time to shoot you a text....or a picture of this super cute bra I just bought"

I have literally been on seekingarrangement for 2 years and have only had one person message me so of course I figured it was my profile. I've rebooted it but still I don't get any messages. I know its not because I'm a bbw or that I'm black but I just can't seem to figure out why I get no replies or messages.

It might be your profile, pictures, content of your profile. You might be sending messages to inactive profiles. It may be the area you live in. Send me a message off anon, with a Kik name and I'll look at your profile.

Hello! I'm 16/girl and I really love reading all your blog posts and stories about your lifestyle. Any chance we can talk on kik? I haven't found anyone much interesting to talk to. I apologize if I offended you in anyway. I think sugar babes (or babies) are really one of the most interesting form of lifestyle.

Yes. I hope you're not trying to get in the bowl right now. Haha. Come off anon, send me a private message with your kik:)

I miss you guys. Sorry I've been so busy. :*

This is it. Parts of this really explains....

On what it's like being the other woman. http://www.experienceproject.com/stories/Am-The-Other-Woman/2220555

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I can tell from your photos that you are more than average weight

Rolling my fucking eyes. How many asks like this am I going to get. I understand that it upsets you that as a size 10 I make more money than your household income but you need to chill. I was asked what size I am in clothing. Size 10 is considered an average fucking size. That photo was taken after 10 hours of traveling, 3 hours of sitting in a chair, a box of pizza, and in the most unflattering dress I own. Can I live?!?

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People wanna down you so bad!!! I love it

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I'm a size ten too. I'm beautiful as fuck. Women WISHED they look like me. But skinny girls, thick girls, BBW, we're all fucking pretty.

I stood up for myself and my feelings. He doesn't care. Blah. I downloaded Luxy based on an ask. But, I'm going to keep it. Not saying I'm staying in the bowl, just wouldn't deny it.

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I believe you really start to love yourself when you begin to think “I deserve better than this”

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Omg. I needed this.

Luxy

One of my followers asked me if I ever tried Luxy. I downloaded it and here is a simple review of it: When you start, this will either boost your confidence or make you cry. In order for you to be accepted into the app, other members of the opposite sex have to vote on you for 24 hours. You must have more people to like you vs. Not like you to get in. I used a simple picture of myself. I got in with a 93%. Next, you get to swipe right or left on the members around you. Very similar to Tinder. If you match, then you can message the user. I notice that there are many young men on here. Like. YOUNG. 18-30. Make sure before you start swiping, you set your age preference. If you choose to upgrade, you can send out messages to other users. They do a screening process of those who claim their income. I'm not sure of how long that process takes, but hey, it does help weed out the salt. The app itself is pretty easy to use. Hardly any lag. I had gotten a match pretty quickly. He's a 40 year old who is a lawyer in Chicago. He's attractive. He is looking for a girl he wants to marry. I'm not into marriage. But, what I can say from this app: being matched will happen pretty quick :) That being said, you only get to go through 3 rounds of swiping a day. Choose wisely. I do like the idea of this app. I do think there are plenty of great POTs on here. I suggest you try it out. Anyone tried it? What have your results been?