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Should I just give up? Everytime I talk to her online I pretty much ask her out all the time "when are you free? when can I see you? best friends should go out more!" I feel sick inside my stomach. I've known her since forever. I hate this.

I'm sorry you feel this way. Friendships are a two way street. BOTH of you have to put effort into the relationship. Talk to her. Let her know exactly how you feel, tell her what you told me. Hopefully she understands and tries to make things better, if not then I suggest you do as you need to. and if you feel like you need to give up, then do just that. Sometimes friendships end, but you'll always begin new ones. Head up, things always get worse before they get better.

-Daisy.

Hi Daisy!How are you? I haven't come here for a long time and i miss it a lot! I guess i'm fine,just living for now

hello.

I'm glad you're doing fine. I hope things continue to go well for you.

-Daisy,

daisy, my "best friend" kissed my ex today & idk what to do about it. i mean i don't really have any feelings for him anymore, but i still think it's messed up for her to do that when she promised me she didn't like him & she even said she would never kiss him. i trusted her & she betrayed me. what do you think i should do?

I don't think your friend is a very good friend. Talk to her about it. If she doesn't see a problem, then let her know there IS a problem. friends don't betray you.

-Daisy.

Everyone!

For some reason your messages aren't showing up properly, as soon as I fix the problem I'll be back to answering normally. I'm so sorry for the inconvenience!!

Dear Daisy, i don't ever feel like i'm good enough. I had this terrible fight with my high school friends, and now i dont talk to any of them. I started college 3 moths ago, and i feel like i cant fit anywhere. I dont know, but the high school girls made me feel like i'm always the wrong one. Or maybe i really am the wrong one. Anyways, i feel terrible about myself most all the time. I don't know what to do anymore

Just be yourself. You'll always be good enough if you're honest with who you are. Don't worry about fitting in, make your own group, be your own person. Life is too precious to worry about who likes you and who doesn't. Be you, and you'll be happy.

-Daisy.

Dear Daisy, I'm stressing out alot with school work, it's not helping at all with my health, and they way I treat my body when I'm under such pressure. I do try to spread my work out during the week, but I still end up with a heap of things to do and very little time to do it in. I've had anxiety attacks and massive break downs in the past and I'm scared it's going to happen again. I've also never had anyone there to help me with it. If it's ok, you're ever so kind words might help me.

Maybe you should talk to your teachers. Let them know what goiIng on. Stress is bad for you and you need to stay healthy and happy. I feel that this is the only way if you've tried other methods. please relax and take long breaks. You need to be happy and in good health. I wish you the best.

Dear Daisy, i met this guy and he's really great. he's super nice, really attractive, and my type. we talk and i've gone to a few of his basket ball games. all of our friends are obsessed with getting us together. but whenever they see us together they freak out and i get all nervous and overwhelmed and just shy away from him. i dont know if i actually like him or not. he's a great guy... but i dont know...

I think you like him. You shouldn't get nervous when your frietalk freak out. If you're comfortable with him, then I think you shouldn't think about it. Let your guard down and just be as you are with him.

Dear Daisy. I think your feature is great! but do you mean we'd all text you? It would seriously be helpful for some people, me included. but for privacy sake of some people, we should choose to give your our real names... or would you even save our numbers into your phone? i just think us having our own nicknames is a good idea.

Dear dear anon, yes, you could all text me whenever you like. As long as you have a name included with the text, I'll save bee number.

Dear Daisy, I'm in love with an old flame and my current love. My ex boyfriend broke up with me a year ago, and I was with him for 3 years. It's strange because those three years his love burned so brightly for me. I guess he got burned out and started dating someone a month later...I'm someone so similar to him, but I didn't intend on that. He too loves me dearly and would do anything to protect me. I'm so confused. I need your words of encouragement, please Daisy.

I wonder what happened. Loving someone the way you do doesn't happen to many people, I know you feel confused, but I think that's good. Confusion is a good feeling to have with an ex. Is he still with a new girl? Do you want him back? Talk to him about how you feel.

Dear Daisy, I've made a huuuge mistake. I said somethings to my best friend that I didn't mean at all, out of pure fear to lose her and frustration over getting some sort of reaction. I really hurt her, and I feel super hurt myself. I can't believe I did something like that to the person I love the most. I talked to her and apologized, but she hasn't forgiven me yet. I know I should give it time..but I feel so desperate and in pain..what can I do to lessen the load?

Just wait it out. Don't beat yourself up, these things happen. Just be calm and wait for her feelings to clear out.

-Daisy.

Dear Daisy, this morning I felt wasn't all that great but it wasn't that bad either. For some reason I felt a little bit of tension between my two friends and I in class since we didn't talk. I also had a bad night last night but I talked to the person I had problems with everything that was bothering me and I really hoped that he understood. I feel I kind of made him upset but at the same time I was just trying to state how I was feeling. What should I do?

As long as you were honest and got your feelings out there, then you shouldn't need to do anything else. If this person is your friend, they weill surely understand where you're coming from.

-Daisy,

Hello Daisy! I don't know if you can help me but I have this super huge crush on a friend (whose taken)...I told her and she felt flattered but for some reason, I just feel confused. Would it be worth it to keep chasing after her? :(

Hi, I think you should keep at it. DOn't be too forceful or intimate though.

-Daisy.

I know what you mean about how it is harassment, but I feel that the person was trying to be nice, and it just went too far, I don't know how to explain it. The only reason why it bothers me so much is because the person that I think it was, is in a class with me at school and I'll have to see him tomorrow, and I don't know what to do if he talks to me.

Oh I thought you were worried about harassment.

Alright well somethings you just can't avoid. If he says something about it, then tell him how you feel about it. Its best to be honest.

If he doesn't say anything or you don't wish to talk to him, I still suggest you report him. Even if you think its out of kindness, if he doesn't then there is a problem.

-Daisy.

Daisy, I have a secret admirer. It isn't so secret though, because I think I know who it is. I don't like him though, and from the messages he has been sending me, he's coming on way too strong and it makes me feel extremely uncomfortable. I don't want to confront him because then what if I was wrong and it wasn't actually who I thought it was? I don't know what to do, he sent me messages anonymously so I have no other way of contacting him to tell him he made me feel uncomfortable. Help?

I best thing to do is to ignore them. Don't read them, just delete them. Report them even! This is a form of cyber-bullying if it makes you uncomfortable. I suggest that you contact the site staff and tell them whats happening. Turn off anon as well.

You need to make sure you're comfortable at all times. Harassment is a big no in my book.

-Daisy.

Dear daisy, to the boy asking what to do about his gf that she likes another boy is currently whats happening to me but the other way around. I have been with my bf almost 3 yrs and i started liking someone and i broke up with him and then got back together. I love him and i wanna marry him alot. To this person: im sorry, dont give up please i know it may seem selfish but i know what she is going through. Make her fall inlove with u again (thats what she might want). Well thats what i want -m&d

Hello daisy. My girlfriend of almost three years likes soneone else- again. The last time ahe liked someone like this she broke up with me, then regretted it and came back. I love her so much daisy, and im scared. Ive already talked with her and she said she loves and wants to be with me, even marry me. But she's really hung up on this person and wont take time away from them to let her feelings fade.

Sometimes feelings change. Sometimes people say things that they don't mean. I'm not sure whats going on in her head, but its wrong to break up with someone and then go back to them when things don't work out.

I feel like you should take time out too. Meet new people, see how things go this way. Maybe you'll both see that you're better of friends?

Relationships are tricky. I'm not saying it'll be easy to figure out whats going on with her, but I do know that girls don't know what they want. they're complicated and they do things without thinking. Try talking to her again. You never know what new things she'll tell you.

Keep me updated?

Dear Daisy, How are you? My day has been alright. :] I had my first experience with Church and it was interesting. Had fun afterwards. I've been having lots on my mind but I feel embarrassed to sort of talk to you about it >_<; Anywho, i hope that your day went well and that you're doing great. (: I know that you're having some complicated things happening in your life but I want you to hang in there. <3. Have a great evening Daisy.

I'm doing well thank you for asking. I don't know anything about church, but I hear its enlightening. You don't have to be embarrassed to talk to e about something. I can always private message you back. thats what I'm here for, to help you and comfort you.

Have a good day. Please feel free to talk to me again.

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