hello and welcome to my silly little corner of the internet!! I guess it's time I make a little intro post for y'all, so here goes 🧿
about me:
names I respond to include: Sunnie, Inky, Meg, and various pet names -- if you've earned the right to use pet names, that is
I go by she/her and they/them pronouns, and I don't particularly have a preference between those options
I am 30 years old, and reside somewhere in the northern midwest area of the US with my tremendously fat cat, Bug
currently in an open relationship with a wonderful human being 💜 [note: this is not an excuse to hit on me, thanks]
I'm a mentally ill adult with multiple diagnoses who is also somewhere on the ADHD/autism spectrum. I struggle with socializing and I am protective of my time and energy, so I am not always quick to reply to messages, but I do like to talk to people!!
some things you should know:
fuck ICE, fuck MAGA, fuck racists, fuck bigots, fuck supremacists, fuck blind nationalists, fuck homophobes, fuck transphobes, and fuck you if you support this current administration 🤠
I consider myself an ✨ ANTI-AMERICAN, RADICALLY PRO-TRANSGENDER ANARCHIST ✨ aka I am a democratic socialist
DO NOT FOLLOW ME OR INTERACT WITH MY POSTS IF YOU ARE UNDER 21!!!!! THIS IS NOT A RECOMMENDATION, THIS IS AN EXPECTATION. I will block you.
DO NOT interact with me if you are going to sexualize me in my inbox or dm's !!!!!!! my body is not up for your debate and I don't care about your opinion on it! don't fucking comment on my body in my fucking inbox or dm's
I don't respond to "hey" or "hi" messages with no other content. if you want to talk to me, you can put actual effort in to having a real conversation. you are welcome to message me so long as you aren't weird or creepy towards me. shockingly, people don't like it when you unleash the freak before establishing a relationship so like, just be a decent human being, please
if you got this far, thank you for respecting my boundaries!! I hope you have a beautiful day, and, as always, remember: fuck ICE, punch nazis, peace and love on the planet earth 🫶
reminder that you cannot call people or things "retarded" around me. we will have a conversation where I explain that I can still tell you the names of 62 people for which I was legally responsible. I will tell you that I loved them
and you will feel like you were being an asshole and wonder why you don't just stop saying it altogether. me too.
if we're friends, you can call me a faggot. there can be a lot of tenderness in that. I got beat up and bullied and just generally treated like a detestable freak by people who called me that word while they did it. hearing it spoken by a loved voice, with clear affection, can be beautiful. it can feel like understanding, forgiveness, absolution, permission, and a thousand other wonderful things. it can be beautiful.
I got called retarded too, but we don't share any special insight into that. it's just a word to us. pick a different one.
a lady with a developmental disability once explained to me that she'd overheard some kids calling each other retarded in the mall we'd visited earlier that day. searching for something to say that might comfort her, I explained that they don't know anything about people like her and so they weren't really talking about her, just being ignorant.
she got angry and said "then they need to pick a different word". and so you need to pick a different word.
don't think this is exclusive to public spaces like the mall or the park or whatever either. she has a tablet and access to the internet, just the same as you do. she can read, write, and make her own decisions. she has a husband.
you don't know anything about her, you need to stop talking about her. pick a different word.
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