🌱💫🌀whimsyboy🌀💫🌱 @bald-basilboy - Tumblr Blog

intro post cause i need one ✨✨

wassup ladles and jellyspoons !! you can call me basil or whimsy✌️ i’m 16 & happily taken

he/him is strongly preferred!! they/them, xe/xem, it/its, star/stars, cosmic/celestial, frog/frogs are also acceptable

transgender, transmasculine, non binary, agender, boyflux, abrosexual, aceflux, gay, achillean, sapphic, pansexual, demisexual, femboy

furry, otherpaw, therian - theriotypes are three toed sloth, luna moth, desert rain frog, sea lion, arctic fox, fennec fox, red squirrel

favorite subjects are choral music, music theory, art, bio, and french. linguistics in general are fun

i am physically and mentally disabled!! have autism, adhd, and social anxiety. so if you interact with me and i never respond you’re either cool and i’m afraid of you or you’re an asshole and i don’t want to talk to you

been doing choir for 2 years, also really into piano/guitar and art

ok that’s it byeeeee

#intro post #blog

mxjackparker

Making motivational "it's never too late to transition" posts is really undercut if the age you're highlighting is still young. Claiming that your transition was late and it worked out great for you actually makes older people more afraid to transition if you're saying that shit in your 20s. How do you think a trans person in their 50s, 60s, 70s and 80s feels when you're 23 and calling yourself a late transitioner?

It's never too late until you're in a coffin. It is worth it for a single day of being yourself, even if you're 110.

xxthemoonisdownxx

having a lisp and a (dead) name that starts with S is a cruel and unusual punishment, literally the barista at the coffee shop replaced the S with an F. Think like Fally of Sally like unless he typed it wrong that feels like an attack /j

bald-basilboy

fucking evil 🫩

obsessivelycompulsiveblog

As a caregiver, I'm tired of people asking,"Do you wipe ass for a living?"

This isn't inherently because it's disrespectul to my job, though it is and us caregivers do SO much more than that; we're taking care of people. That's 10% or less of the job.

It's the genuine DISRESPECT of my clients that bother me.

Do NOT speak about my client like they're a dog. "Do you wipe ass for a living?" You could not have phrased that in a more insensitive, ableist, and dehumanizing way.

Incontenience care is NORMAL.

It is NOT gross, weird, immature, or anything else besides normal.

My clients have felt ashamed for normal things like needing their briefs changed or having to do toiletry and everytime I reassure them they're completely fine and not doing anything wrong. It breaks my heart to see them so embarassed over a normal bodily function, esepcially when they still feel so even though I signed up to do this.

Maybe the elderly or disabled wouldn't be so ashamed of basic things that ARE normal if people didn't make it sound like it was the most absurd, repulsive, and gross thing ever.

Please be mature. If you are an adult and cannot comprehend someone needing toilet assistance without making it weird or sound gross, then you really really need to grow up.

I don't really like making aggressive sounding posts or scolding posts, because every single person is learning and we all make mistakes, but gosh guys, this really bothers me.

Stop making people feel bad and THINK about what you're saying when refering to another human being before you say it. I will NEVER tolerate this disrespect for these people I'm taking care of who trust me.

EDIT: Thank you SO much for the overwhelming sweet responses! They make my heart so happy<3 Thank you for the inbox thank-yous and stories as well! As of now, I will ask any thank yous, stories, or experiences be privately messaged or commented<3 I love all the appreciation, but my blog is about writing characters with OCD and other disorders/disabilities and I don't want to clog my blog up with replying to everyone :)<3

my-autism-feeds-on-robins

White queers, we need to unlearn our racism. No, trans women are not the black people of the trans community. Black trans people are the black people of the trans community. PLEASE. Unlearn your racism.

bald-basilboy

as a trans guy /pocTHANK YOU!!

#transblr #lgbtqia #queer pride #queer community #unlearn it #unlearn your racism #racism #trans #trans man #transmasc

this-is-trans-joy

i came out (ftm) and i am the only (former) girl with 4 brothers and my mother was like “aww that means i wont have a daughter” then my sister was like “actually ive been putting off telling you but im a trans girl” and my mother was like “oh that worked out well then ! thats amazing i support both if you”

This is trans joy!!!

the-quasar-hero

“Why does this character have to be Black?”

Why shouldn’t they be?

“Why does this character have to be a woman?”

Why shouldn’t she be?

“Why does this character have to be gay?”

Why shouldn’t they be?

“Why does this character have to be trans?”

Why shouldn’t they be?

“Why does this character have to be disabled?”

Why shouldn’t they be?

“Why does this character have to be fat?”

Why shouldn’t they be?

boobinghours

"girl" "dude" "bro" but in a gender neutral way

justabunny

whoever came up with the "sitting while working = unprofessional"

I hate you I hate you I hate you

#let’s b goblins!#art #queer pride #lgbtq #transgender #artists on tumblr #my art #digital drawing #gay

this-is-trans-joy

i’m twenty minutes into the 2017 adaptation of IT please tell me they did not make the one Black kid fatherless for no reason when in the original book Mike’s father is not only a wonderful parent but also extremely significant to the events of the story PLEASE tell me they have not reduced Mike down into a side character when he is objectovely the most important character in the whole book I’m gonna be so pissed off

feralratbitesu

Why do you use It/Its pronouns...

i got tagged in elementary school and never recovered

anarchocommunist-nosferatu

“It’s easier for trans women to pass/be stealth!!”

“It’s easier for trans men to pass/be stealth!!”

Actually it’s easier for people with very specific bodies (white, thin, average height) with large incomes and supportive families to transition medically in a way which is more likely to conform to strict ideas of ‘man’ and ‘woman’

I swear every time I see someone try to make the argument for one of us having it better they exclusively either cite celebrities (again, see white, rich, thin) or assume that the people they know irl are representative of every trans person.

It also begs the point that YOU DO NOT KNOW IF SOMEONE IS STEALTH UNLESS THEY TELL YOU. No one actually knows how many trans people successfully live as stealth.

Most of the passing trans people I know personally are women, but most of the trans people I know to be stealth are men. I also know far more trans women than I do trans men. Not to ignore the fact that these arguments completely erase non binary people who are pressured to just pick a binary gender to ‘pass’ as because it is functionally impossible to be a ‘stealth’ non binary person.

It is completely possible to have important conversations about the specific oppressions that different kinds of trans people face without framing one group as being completely objectively better off. Stop trying to pit us against each other. It isn’t easy for *anyone* to be trans in this world.