kinda funny how trans women get painted as mean angry bitches for asking people politely not to call themselves a transmisogynistic fetish porn category slur as their identity, while the tmes calling themselves femboys get to paint themselves as victims
"actually you're oppressing me by saying i can't call myself the thing people search on pornhub to jerk off to you"
no one needs to make the equivalent of butch for feminine men because men and women are not dichotomies and gay men don't need an equal and opposite thing for every lesbian thing that exists, and you certainly don't need to appropriate transmisogynistic slurs because some dyke hasn't put in the effort to create a word for you.
you're right, you are getting blocked for this. you didn't need to type this out but you still did anyway, for whatever reason. my blog is not a confessional, you dont need to tell me your sins, especially when you say how you intend to make no effort to change or do better. you're just bragging about your use of slurs
go choke on plastic
i keep coming back to this, i want you to focus on the precise language being used here.
"until someone introduces me to the equivalent of butch but for feminine men"
not "until i find a word that isn't a slur" or even "until we can brainstorm a new term". it always demanding the labor of others, its always making someone else (ie a woman) do the work.
they do this while also blatantly ignoring us saying "no". they know exactly what they're doing.
"i know you dont like me saying this slur, but until *you* do something for me, im gonna ignore you"
this is blatant misogyny. this is how men treat women constantly; belittle us, mock us, ignore us, demand labor of us, and refuse to take no for an answer.
if i cant trust you with the bare fucking minimum of "do not use a slur," how can i trust you with anything? how do i know ill be safe around you? how do i know that other women are safe around you, if you ignore us saying "no"?
