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             yippee yippee yum yum goodie goodie gumdrop 21 year old sugar baby from down south just trying to survive in this world. currently kickin it in cali.

[blackcardbaby]

"i can be there in an hour"

LIKE HELL YOU CAN BE I AM NOT GOING OUT WITH YOU AT 2AM WTF I HAVE CLASS IN LIKE 3 HOURS GET OUT OF HERE

these insatiable men!!!

[blackcardbaby]

how much do you weigh, what are your measurements, are you shaved

did anyone teach you to respect a woman? what a piece of shit. haven't even met yet and you're interrogating me like some sort of personal trainer like get the fuck out who cares what i weigh.

[blackcardbaby]

"how many people have you given oral"

why the fuck does that matter go fuck yourself

[sopranosugar-deactivated2015031]

"Any more pics? I want to see more ;)"

[blackcardbaby]

this pot is pissing me off. i've given him like 6 extra pictures ontop of what is on my profile; he keeps asking for more. i'm about to write him off as a fucking pic collector, even if i've managed to verify him and i know he wants to meet. it's just getting VERY annoying. send me a pic, send me another. don't tell me what to do, old man. i don't care if you keep sending me pictures of you, i am not going to give you 832974923789 pics before we meet.

meanwhile, this other pot has been talking to me for a couple days, but he's super busy with work, so the conversation is going soooo slow. it's all normal talk and hardly anything about our plausible arrangement or meeting up. don't waste my time.

the one pot i was interested in hasn't contacted me since friday. :\ opoing he's busy and not a waste of my time too.

man everything is so salty.

[lanadelfae]

Mall POT date tomorrow!

Ladies, how do I get him to buy me things on our first date? He agreed to the mall, and who knows, maybe he’ll be the one to suggest it; but do any of you babes have tips? Thanks!

[blackcardbaby]

unless he suggests it, i don't think it's a good idea to ask him to buy you things, personally. i mean, you do you, but if you've never met this guy, you don't know if he's gonna try to pull a fast one on you and expect something in return because he bought you gifts. now if he suggests/offers, that's one thing, but if you ask, it does sorta come off as only being interested in one thing/he might feel like you're just rinsing him. you do you, but i personally wouldn't outright ask him for anything. maybe linger and look at things while you guys talk (because that's what a first date is supposed to be. you're supposed to be deciding if you can see yourself meeting this guy over and over), and if he offers to buy you anything, i wouldn't necessarily decline. but don't forget that you have plenty of time to go on shopping trips if he becomes your sd. for now, focus on figuring him out, and don't spend the whole date trying to get him to buy you things. if he's serious and ends up your sd, chances are, he'll buy you anything.

[blackcardbaby]

pretty sure this guy just contacted me on sdfm offering to be my pimp. you're funny buddy.

"Hi I couldn't pass your profile without dropping you a message and letting you know that your looks have the capabilities to produce 2,000-5,000 a day. I know you are tired of running into bs on this site. You are most certainly gorgeous and I would like to extend a lifestyle you've dreamed about, a business venture and a money making opportunity to you. Would you like to be financially secure, start your own business and be well off some point in your life? If you've answered Yes. I would like to help you increase your financial portfolio, show you how to start a business, and help you manage your assets. If this interest you lets get on the right track and make things happen. I give full makeovers such as hair,nails,breast implants/Brazilian butt-lifts. A professional photo shoot, your own website and flying around the world. All travel and accommodations will be covered. This opportunity involves exotic dancing and high class escorting if interested let me know gorgeous!!"

^^^^^^^^^ let me be ur pimp is all i got out of that tbh

[blackcardbaby]

i'm not tagging this one

i just noticed there's a lot of new babies in the bowl lately and i'm just sorta astounded at some of the careless things they do. the selfies, the choices they make, the blind acceptance. like, don't be blinded by the money girls, 85% of these guys are salts or fakes, and i swear to god if you accept a trip to another city for a sum of money, to meet someone you have NEVER met and don't even know, then please just sit down. don't go flying to meet anyone unless you've talked for a while, can confirm who he is, and are comfortable. you girls are going to get hurt if you keep acting like this.

just sighs. i keep feeling like we're gonna lose lives over this sort of shit.

[blackcardbaby]

ugh met POT 1 today and it's just like. man you only want sex. dude says he wants me available whenever he wants and i'm like, yo buddy, i can't handle you 3 times a week especially not for 2k like fuck that.

says he wants to start the arrangement and give me cash on thursday and i'm just like, we'll see where this goes. this ain't even SB this is just full on escorting. dude really doesn't want anything but sex. he's not too old, 50s i guess, looks fairly young but he has a huge beard and god i HATE facial hair, help me lord.

oh get this. dude's a marijuana farmer. lmfao. is this a plus, is this a fallacy, idk yet. if i sayonara out are you gonna be too high to meat suit me or what.

idk he isn't too bad and i can see myself sleeping with him but i already have a low sex drive to begin with. also he's all huffy puffy that i don't use birth control (i medically CAN'T) because he doesn't like condoms. grow up asswipe. use a condom or i'll find my money elsewhere.

idk already pretty sure i'm gonna let this dude go. i'll see how much he's offering for thursday. if he's gonna pay me upfront the 2k, maybe i'll play and then ditch his ass from there on lmfao. don't even give a shit. :\

POT 2 wants to come see me when he gets back from Calgary. i'm excited for him; he owns a very well-known vinyard around here and it was super easy to confirm. he hasn't bothered me about sex at all yet, is very respectful, and has gushed about his fishing trip, which i don't mind. he makes quite a bit of money so i bet i could get a nice chunk from him, even if he's really old. at least he's fairly handsome for his age and not grotesque.

[blackcardbaby]

lol i'm an english major who writes fictional prose in my free time.

apparently the way i talk to this POT has him starry eyed. he keeps telling me he loves the way i write; that every time he reads what i say, he likes me a little more.

boo is eating right out of my palm. didnt even bat an eyelash at my allowance.

[highvalueheaux]

So I’m talking to this guy and we messaged for a bit and seemed to connect. We have a POT date set for tomorrow evening. I asked him for a linked in account and he said he doesn’t feel comfortable with it. Have any of you gone on a date without first verifying? I got his full…

[highvalueheaux]

I got him to agree to show me his account at dinner tomorrow, which works just fine for me :) He seems to be pretty straightforward which was why I had asked in the first place. Thanks for the help!

[blackcardbaby]

glad it worked out for you :)

[highvalueheaux]

Verifying a POT?

So I’m talking to this guy and we messaged for a bit and seemed to connect.  We have a POT date set for tomorrow evening. I asked him for a linked in account and he said he doesn’t feel comfortable with it. Have any of you gone on a date without first verifying? I got his full name but nothing of significance came up when I searched him or his phone number.  At this point, I’m thinking just to go with my gut and cancel the date if he’s not willing to verify who he is? I stressed the importance of trust and security. But no dice. Any thoughts, y’all??

[blackcardbaby]

ran out of characters but yeah its rare that you will ever meet a pot who will give you their linkedin or something that personal. if you dont feel comfortable don't go. but also remember that a first date in a public place is used to gather more information about a pot. it's really up to you and what you're comfortable with. but remember this is a lifestyle of discretion. nobody's going to be 100% open with who they are right away until you build trust

[blackcardbaby]

avoiding my questions and then goin quiet when i ask what kind of an arrangement you're looking for. boy are you sure you're cut out for this shit?

[blackcardbaby]

this guy

his headline is "i'm not rich but i'm real" 

my eyes rolled so far out of my head they floated off into space and garnered their own planetary orbit get the fuck out my face

[blackcardbaby]

"what r u looking 4 in a relationship"

types out a long, intellectual, well-versed response about my goals and ideals in a mutually beneficial arrangement.

no response

oops i forgot the correct answer was "some wrinkly old guy to fuck me 24/7 and hand me free cash" 

[blackcardbaby]

hey sweeties

did you miss me? guess who's kickin' it in cali now? :*

totally cleaned this blog out. last post was like last year haha!