[datacollectiveruins]

If everybody loves a person, that person is wearing a mask with everybody. 🐍

[oversorted]

[datacollectiveruins]

Bye-sexual

[datacollectiveruins]

if he's not facing gay allegations, I don't want him.

[notthehotdogguy]

When you can see the underwear waistband peeking out above his pants reblog if you agree

[quotefeeling]

“We often want it so badly that we ruin it before it begins. Overthinking. Fantasizing. Imagining. Expecting. Worrying. Doubting. Just let it naturally evolve”

— Unknown

[perfectfeelings]

“You deserve to be with somebody who will drive three hours, just to see you for one.”

— Guidelines For Finding Someone Worthwhile

[perfectfeelings]

“You deserve to be with somebody who will drive three hours, just to see you for one.”

— Guidelines For Finding Someone Worthwhile

[mymumcallsmeanunhappysoul]

there's this sinking feeling in my stomach every time i remember his words everytime i remember our chat only has messages on my side.

[perfectquote]

“Distance doesn’t separate people. Silence does.”

— Jeff Hood

[datacollectiveruins]

the quiet of a hospital room.

You always hope that when things get really bad, the people you love will show up. You think that seeing a photo of a hospital bed or hearing that you're on a 24-hour IV will make them stop playing games, drop their pride, and just care.

But instead, you get a quick text that feels like a polite obligation. You get jokes about keeping it a secret from the office. You even get a "haha" emoji reaction to your actual physical pain.

It is a deeply lonely feeling to realize that people you have known for years, people you poured so much loyalty into, can only handle you when things are light, easy, and convenient. The moment you are vulnerable and genuinely need them, they freeze or pull away because your reality is too heavy for them to hold.

It hurts so much. But at least the truth is right in front of me now. You learn exactly who people are by how they treat you when you break down.

I am turning my phone off now. To the friends who can only love me when it’s effortless: you don't get to know where I am anymore. To my family, who is sitting right here in the chair next to my bed without being asked: thank you for being the only real thing in this room.

[thoughtkick]

“You will have days where you feel better, and you will have days where you want to die. Both are okay. There is no magical cure. You just need to close your eyes, and trust that the waves will pass, and soon you’ll be able to breathe again.”

— Unknown

[datacollectiveruins]

[letsbelonelytogetherr]

i hope you never have to know the weight of being left before you’re even gone.

the quiet cruelty of being unloved in advance, of someone deciding—before you’ve even had the chance to be— that they don’t want you anymore.

[letsbelonelytogetherr]

— v (via letsbelonelytogetherr)

[handweavers]

there is something erotic about watching someone be extraordinarily competent at something especially if they're also really passionate about it

[letsbelonelytogetherr]

“It wasn't about anything so shallow

as physical desire.

They wanted each other in the way of flesh wanting to knit itself together over a wound.”

— Micah Nemerever, "These Violent Delights"