Affectionate Femboy Looking For Caregiver
Name/nickname: my irl name is erik but I hate that name for personal reasons so plz call me blu
Age:17 which is legal and because of the laws of my state I may give consent and am basically an adult, I can move out of my parents house if I so choose and the only things I canāt really do are vote and drink (my birthday is oct 29th 2001)
Little age:6-9 (it fluctuates)
Gender/pronouns: I am bigender (both genders simultaneously) I would not like to specify my biological sex and as for pronouns I donāt really care all that much, she/her they/them he/him
Location: Jefferson City, Missouri, USA
Preferred age of partner: um I donāt really care about age that much just nothing below the age of 16 please and nothing too old please because then it gets creepy and if you think youāre too old just check with me anyways although if I say you are too old and you persist to talk with me you will most likely get a big block
Preferred gender and or sex of partner: honestly sex and gender donāt really matter to me all that much I like everything tbh just somethings more than others though again it doesnāt really matter to me
Preferred location of partner: it doesnāt really matter to me but preferably within the USA and preferably within a 2-3 hour time difference although Iām fine with whatever as long as you can still give me all the attention, affection and care that I ask for (Iām in central time fyi)
Iām not asexual but after some bad experiences and after so many people dated me for only sexual things my sex drive has been run down a bit and is not as prevalent as it may have been that being said I can and will still get horny and people definitely can still turn me on I just have more control over it now and Iād say itās more rare than it use to be needless to say I do still get sexual with my signifiant others unless they donāt like sexual things in which case Iāll do what they ask, sexual things and sex isnāt needed for me though it is enjoyed with moderation
Are distance relationships ok? Of course they are
What do you look for in a caregiver? Personally I want them to be very intimate, understanding, reassuring,very very very loving and affectionate, I also want them to be able to start and hold a conversation because Iām shy and Iām generally bad at that so itād be nice if my caregiver/dom could take care of that for me although this doesnāt mean that the conversations will be one sided because of me, Iāll still be trying my best also I want my caregiver/dom to actually be a caregiver because Iām a very very needy person and my caregiver/dom is going to need a lot of time to message me and be on vc/call with me I canāt sleep on my own (needed to clarify that for the people in the back) and I generally like to be on vc/call all night long even while weāre asleep because I like waking up to the other person also I generally donāt take care of myself without a dom making rules and enforcing them also I love it when my caregiver/dom is very assertive although I still want them to listen to what I have to say (so donāt put me or my feelings down/donāt ignore me)
What do you like to call your caregiver? Anything they want me to call them unless I donāt like it depending on what it is, Iām generally ok with calling my caregivers mommy or daddy but I prefer not to, it really depends tbh Iām getting more and more use to it
What do you want your caregiver to call you? Blu generally but I love nicknames although Iām picky with them so it just depends on what you can come up with because there are other nicknames that I enjoy
I like it when my caregiver:gives me lots of attention, Love and affection, reassured me, tells me that they love me constantly, compliments me and adore me because my self esteem is really really low, flirts with me, takes care of me, knows when to be sexual and when to be a caregiver, makes sure that Iām ok with their rules
I donāt like it when my caregiver: does the bare minimum, tries to get anything sexual from me/tries to make the conversation sexual when Iām not in the mood, treats me a lesser/inferior because Iām younger (in other words donāt be condescending because youāre older) I also donāt like it when a caregiver/dom tries to force a rule on to me that I donāt like (like absolutely no cussing although no excessive cussing is understandable)
Dealbreakers: ācaregiversā that only care about sexual things/neglect their little, racism, homophobia, discrimination of any way, shape and or form, religion (ok depending on the religion I mainly just donāt like christianity not saying that itās wrong or shouldnāt be practiced and Iām definitely not trying to discriminate or discourage religion and or christianity)
Hobbies/interests:I love pc gaming, I also love to binge watch tv shows, movies (Iām a marvel fan) and anime (hereās a list of most of the anime that Iāve seen One piece, Tokyo ghoul, noragami, soul eater, death note, hellsing, fullmetal alchemist, one punch man, samurai champloo, code geass, seraph of the end, steins;gate, chaos;head, chaos;child, robotics;notes, a.i.c.o and the devil is a part timer, future diary, black butler, kekkai sensen, future diary, beyond the boundary and the seven deadly sins) I also love music I donāt have a specific genre that I like but I generally hate country music and some rap is ok to me but I dislike most of it (hereās a list of bands to give you a general idea of what I like Skillet, thousand foot kruntch, daft punk, gorillaz, shurk, sick puppies, starset, simple plan, manafest and shinedown) btw I have a pretty dark and offensive sense of humor and I have thick skin when it comes to most things
Gear owned/wanted: I have a lot of lewd clothing like skirts and thigh highs but I generally wear what I think looks cute and what makes me feel cute I also have a collar and a paci along with a stuffie
Are you uncomfortable with any gear? I generally donāt like diapers (thatās just weird to me so donāt ever expect me to get into that kind of stuff)
Any other information?I prefer my relationships to be monogamous I have preferences when it comes to people such as (yes this matters even if the relationship is long distance but it doesnāt mean I wonāt date you if you donāt meet these standards because they are just preferences not qualifications and again for the people in the back that donāt listen THESE ARE JUST PREFERENCES NOT STANDARDS ITS LIKE CHOOSING BETWEEN COKE AND PEPSI AND HAVING A PREFERENCE FOR COKE people did not read that the first time ffs) I generally like my caregiver/dom to be taller than me and Iām 5ā10 but I prefer like 6ā4ā or so, the taller the better, I also love it when my caregiver/dom has a very deep and assertive voice
Ways to contact me: (tumblr: blup116) (kik: flyingeagleeltron) (discord: blue phoenix#6245) I prefer discord over anything else and I prefer kik over tumblr since I donāt use tumblr all that much/all that often also sorry that my spelling/grammar is terrible and thereās probably tons of errors in this