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✨Parenting with Spirit Guides✨ What does it actually mean when I say doing this parenting thing with my spirit guides? 😊 It’s like having someone by your side (who’s always on your side), ready to point out to you - to help you figure out that problem you’ve been facing in your day. They point out little things, and some big things. It brings you back to your awareness of yourself, and your surroundings. Telling you how and what to focus your attention on to find your answer. I need help with my children, teaching them how to stop playing with their iPad. I find myself yelling in frustration, and then I’m reminded to understand them, and guided to say the words that will encourage them to stop on their own. We teach them the how, the why. And then we leave it to them to consider it themselves. This is what it’s like having our spirit guides with us. ❤️ If you have questions, I can channel them answers. The last round was so empowering, it felt so good to find answers and help the parents to see their children and themselves better. 👏👏👏 The last free session is on Thursday 3 Nov, 11am AEST. It will be recorded and replay up for a limited time. Private sessions are also available if there are questions that you want answered in a personal space. Please ask to discuss. Please DM me or comment “Yes please” for an invitation. ❤️ #raisingconfidentkids #raisingconfidentchildren #gentleparenting #consciousparenting #intuitiveparenting #respecfulparenting #parenting #parentingkids #confidenceinkids #parentingguide #selfloveinkids #parentingwithspiritguides (at Melbourne, Victoria, Australia) https://www.instagram.com/p/CkRzbFdp6nl/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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she wanted a photo with her dad @devin_loong today. ❤️ #daddysgirl #malaysianfood #thebest #familytime #onlychild (at Melbourne, Victoria, Australia) https://www.instagram.com/p/CkQenbLpq_n/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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it’s been a while since @devin_loong cooked this, definitely a happy tummy happy family kinda day. ✌️ it reminds me of my childhood, my mothers cooking and home. and it’s really delicious, he’s really good at the deep fried goodness. #devinloongcooks #hainanesechickenchop #deepfried #thebest #homecookedgoodness (at Melbourne, Victoria, Australia) https://www.instagram.com/p/CkPciicpe1j/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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✨Parenting with Spirit Guides II✨ best thing about pickup is hearing their stories about the day, seeing and listening to what they’ve made. I ask what inspired them, what they were thinking and how it makes me feel - happy or cheerful. rarely do I say how proud I am. (I am super proud by the way!) ✨ why I don’t say I’m proud - I want to encourage them to create, explore and play for themselves, that does not involve my opinion. We want them to do because they’re interested or curious about it. this then translates into an adult who creates and decides based on their own thoughts and opinions. not someone who seeks approval to feel that it’s a success. This is one of the many reasons why I parent with my Spirit Guides. So that I know better. And I can do better. This is a message from my Spirit Guides: “We understand that you may think that guiding your children to find their purpose in life is simple. It isn’t easy, but if you throw it all at them - a chance to study well, learn all that they can, ballet, play the piano and martial arts. All of these will set them up on a path for success. But in actual fact, it is the little things that will set them up. How they react in the face of disappointment, how do they attempt to fit into a new environment and find their own space. How will they decide on a new adventure, what new experiences should they choose. What shall they learn? All of these are very important life skills that a child should learn to grow in them. As these are the life skills that will guide them through life. What you do when you face challenges determines who you are. And you would want the same for your children. This is why you learn to do better. To guide them well. This is why you are here. We are complete.” I’m having one more free session on Thursday, 3 Nov 2022 11am AWST. If you find the answers to be useful, I’d appreciate a testimonial. It will be replayed for the week. Please DM me for an invitation. 😊 #raisingconfidentkids #gentleparenting #consciousparenting #intuitiveparenting #respecfulparenting #parenting #parentingkids #confidenceinkids #parentingguide #parentingwithspiritguides (at Melbourne, Victoria, Australia) https://www.instagram.com/p/CkNtAFDpD4o/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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✨Parenting with Spirit Guides II✨ Taking a whole heap of photos of myself more these days. I want to show up, I want to be heard. I look beyond that double chin, extra weight, chubby cheeks and say what I have to say. Because it is pretty important. It is important that our children feel safe, they feel confident in their choices, they feel comfortable being themselves. This is the gift that we as their parents, have the privilege of giving them. 💝 My Guides say that we should continue to answer questions, and I whole-heartedly agree. That amazing feeling of being reading questions, hearing the answer pop into my head and seeing it help the person asking is the best experience ever! ✨ This is a message from my Spirit Guides: “Children and adults must treat each other with respect. It is a relationship that is cultivated by the adult showing the child love and respect, and the child mimicking the adult to return the same. It is not about the adult being bigger, smarter or wiser. It is about your child choosing you as their adult to show them into the world. The adult bears a responsibility that the child is going to learn about love and respect from them. So let’s make sure that what we show them is Love and Respect. And not punishment and power. Even if that’s all that you do know, because we can do better. That is all for today. We are complete.” I’m going to have another session “Parenting with Spirit Guides Part II”. If anyone here has parenting questions I can help answer, and you didn’t manage to jump on before - DM me for an invite and ask your question. ❤️ The session is on Thursday 3 Nov, 11am AEST in my Facebook group. You will need to join us before we start and add your question to the list. A replay will be up for a week. I will ask for a testimonial if you find the answer useful to you! Please comment “Yes please” or DM me for an invitation. I hope to see you there! ✌️ #raisingconfidentkids #raisingconfidentchildren #gentleparenting #consciousparenting #intuitiveparenting #respecfulparenting #parenting #parentingkids #confidenceinkids #parentingguide #selfloveinkids #parentingwithspiritguides (at Melbourne, Victoria, Australia) https://www.instagram.com/p/CkLC9VDJbG0/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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this super cuuuute design representing my three is a hand poked tattoo by @pey_chi_pokes. I really love it in black and white and now all colored in, we had fun playing with the face paints and being silly with it. before I had kids, life was all black and white. 🦓 and fast forward ten years, there’s THREE of them that my amazing body created, and it blows my mind how bright and colorful chaos my world is today, thanks to them. 🌈 note: the black and white bear on the left is meant to be a panda. 🐼 #theloongkids #threedancingbears #tattoo #momlife #threekids #momofthree #colorfullife (at Melbourne, Victoria, Australia) https://www.instagram.com/p/CkIi5fPJZPD/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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✨Parenting with Spirit Guides II✨ Second round coming up next week! Still feeling all the awesome vibes from our first session last week. I have some wonderful testimonials from the workshop and some great feedback. Grateful for all of it. ✌️ Jump right in if you have a question to ask. This is a channeled message from my Spirit Guides: “We are here for change. For children to grow up without fear of punishment or expectations, for children to grow up to be who they want to be, to fulfil their purpose in life. Only then may the world change for a better place. As the song sings, and it is correct. When we start changing how we raise our young, our young will grow up into a new generation of caring, happy, well balanced adults who will care for our Earth and the world around them. Mental health is an incredibly important aspect of life and it is our privilege to be able to give it the attention it needs in order for the people to grow and extend themselves to the next level. Raising children is the most important work. We are complete.” This is a free workshop, it will be held Thursday 3 Nov in a private Facebook group, and will be my last free workshop. If you have a question about yourself and your child, please take this opportunity to ask! In return, I would like to ask for a testimonial if it has been useful to you. The replay will be up for a week. Please comment “Yes please” or DM me for an invitation. Thanks! 😊 #raisingconfidentkids #raisingconfidentchildren #gentleparenting #consciousparenting #intuitiveparenting #respecfulparenting #parenting #parentingkids #confidenceinkids #parentingguide #selfloveinkids #parentingwithspiritguides (at Melbourne, Victoria, Australia) https://www.instagram.com/p/CkGkjYnp8l0/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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spent the last few days appreciating life exactly where we are. I’ve always known that I do not want to escape on the weekend, and I don’t want to recover from the week. I want to spend every day living our lives fully, to be in the present. some days will be good, and some challenging. that is life. ✨ to do this, we need to be mindful of what we choose to put our attention to. hold on firm to our boundaries of our decisions. trust ourselves. do the work that we are happy to be at, and if we are not - make adjustments to your life to change it for the better. small adjustments make a huge difference. give your attention to what matters to you, not what is expected of you. start by defining what does matter to you. make sure it is what is really important to you, and not just what people have always told you is important. you are the most important person in your child’s life. don’t be perfect, but be human. make mistakes, so they can see. live your life, so they can follow. ❤️ #beingaconfidentparent #raisingconfidentkids #takingonlife #momthoughts #middlechild #familylife #steppingup #beingme (at Melbourne, Victoria, Australia) https://www.instagram.com/p/CkDmI7oJTSz/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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she’s patiently waiting for her turn. ❤️ I cultivate trust with my kids. If I promise them something, it happens. and if it doesn’t, I take the time to explain to them why not. this is why I am careful with what I promise, I never want to break the promise. this is one way to get your children to listen to you. they trust you to do as you say you will. and for this little girl, we will wait until she gets her turn, when she’s had enough play. and then we can go eat lunch. as promised. #consciousparenting #trust #gentleparenting #intuitiveparenting #trustingkids #parenting #parentingtips #respectingkids #parentingwithspiritguides (at Melbourne, Victoria, Australia) https://www.instagram.com/p/Cj-XkEvJWKM/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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✨Parenting with Spirit Guides✨ This kid was given an award for Curiosity in Grade One by his teacher. It’s an award for asking many MANY clarifying questions, so he could understand better what was being taught or asked of him. And so, he got good at being open to ask. If he didn’t know, he would go ask. This is a great habit to cultivate as a kid, you now have the power to find out more in your hands. Ask, and you will receive. An adult will always try to answer you. 😂 It seems like we don’t ask as many open questions as grown-ups anymore. Maybe it’s because we felt like we should already know the answer, or maybe it was just too much to do, or we might be a bother. But if we don’t ask, how do we grow? I’m seriously excited for tomorrow! With parents from all over the world in my channelling session, we picked a time slot that hopefully meets as many timezones as possible. If you’re not able to attend live, you can still ask us and catch the replay for your answer, it is best to be there as we answer so that you can clarify it further. This is a channeled message from my Spirit Guides for you: “Remember what was it like to ask a million questions as a child. The urge to find out why, to find out more, to know EVERYTHING there is to know. We wish to help you remember your childhood, the good and the bad. Because when you remember yourself as the little child, it will be so much easier to connect to your own children and understand where they are coming from. Why do they do the things that they do and why does it make you feel so much emotions when they do. We are complete.” In return, I would like to ask you for a testimonial if you have found the answers to be helpful to you. It will be recorded and there will be a limited time replay. 👋 Please comment “Yes please” or DM me for an invitation. Thanks! 😊 #raisingconfidentkids #raisingconfidentchildren #gentleparenting #consciousparenting #intuitiveparenting #respecfulparenting #parenting #parentingkids #confidenceinkids #parentingguide #selfloveinkids #parentingwithspiritguides (at Melbourne, Victoria, Australia) https://www.instagram.com/p/Cj4Jh7PpME8/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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✨Parenting with Spirit Guides✨ I always tell my kids, “Go on! Give it a go. If you don’t like it, you can stop right away. But try for a few minutes so you know.” This usually gets them trying and most times, they like it enough to stay on for the whole activity. So when my kids ask me to give it a go - why not? So I said yes, and took joined in a competitive tug-of-war game with some parents on Sunday. Right now, my muscles are still in agony today. I DO NOT EXERCISE beyond running after the kids. 😂 It was a lot of fun. I fell in the mud, we lost and we won. I’m glad I said yes to trying it! 😊 And I hope you say YES (like Iris!) to my free “Parenting with Spirit Guides” workshop where I will channel the answers to any parenting questions that you have. This is a channeled message from my Spirit Guides for you: “We are ready and excited to be able to answer your questions for you. There are many questions that we see out there, but because you have free will to do as you decide, we cannot offer assistance unless asked. The collective mind has all the answers to guide you with your questions. There is no question to small or too big, Hennley asks questions about nappies for her 3yo to questions about what should she do to find her purpose in life. All questions are meaningful and have purpose. Asking the question will open you to receiving solutions and take you on new and abundant paths. Your vibration to attract the solutions will also be higher. Please take the opportunity to ask and seek answers. We are complete.” The workshop will be held tomorrow. I will ask for a testimonial in return if you have found my message to be useful to you. ❤️ It will be recorded + replay available for a limited time. Please comment “Yes please” or DM me for an invitation. 😊 #raisingconfidentkids #raisingconfidentchildren #gentleparenting #consciousparenting #intuitiveparenting #respecfulparenting #parenting #parentingkids #confidenceinkids #parentingguide #selfloveinkids #parentingwithspiritguides (at Melbourne, Victoria, Australia) https://www.instagram.com/p/Cj1nqTEp_uQ/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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✨Parenting with Spirit Guides✨ Mondays. I like to start by working on me. In my world, I spend a lot of time on learning, healing and allowing in between living life with my family. Our children. They are mirrors of us in many ways. When our child brings out the big emotions - anger at their defiance, shame at their behavior or pride in their achievements. It brings out who we really are, there’s no hiding it. For some, the big emotions are not something we can control and we end up lashing out at the children. The cycle continues with their children as they learn to use pain and punishment to make themselves feel better. That they deserved pain and punishment, and so do their children. This is a message from my Spirit Guides for you: “We wish to end the cycle of suffering, by showing you that healing comes by acknowledging and taking responsibility. That’s it. Every time you practice taking responsibility instead of anger and shame, you heal. It is that quick to feel relief instead of anger and guilt. To let go of the frustration. We will ask Hennley to run a masterclass on handling your BIG emotions. How do you stop the cycle of anger and frustration when your children do not listen to you as their parent. In the meantime, ask your questions and we will use our infinite knowledge to answer. We are complete.” Yikes, I didn’t realize that we would do this, it is a topic that I’m very familiar with. I’m a pretty good ex-yelling machine, my children can vouch for that. 😆 In the meantime - I will be holding a free channelling workshop called “Parenting with Spirit Guides” THIS WEEK, where I will ask my Guides your parenting questions. I would like to ask you for a testimonial in return if you have found my message to be useful to you. ❤️ It will be recorded + replay available for a limited time. Please comment “Yes please” or DM me for an invitation. 😊 #raisingconfidentkids #raisingconfidentchildren #gentleparenting #consciousparenting #intuitiveparenting #respecfulparenting #parenting #parentingkids #confidenceinkids #parentingguide #selfloveinkids #parentingwithspiritguides (at Melbourne, Victoria, Australia) https://www.instagram.com/p/Cjy3j85hgAD/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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✨Parenting with Spirit Guides✨ Last photo of the day with my kids. ❤️ Today may not have ended so happily, we could have all lost our tempers, gotten mad and gone home to sit in silence. But we didn’t. And it’s because we had a helping hand from a lovely lady who stopped to invite the kids to play. Having someone come offer assistance shifted our attention, and it lifted our mood from stress into play again and I’m so grateful for her today. It’s wonderful to receive a helping hand every now and then. ❤️ It’s the same with the Spirit Guides, when we ask for advice and give attention to their answers, it can shift our mood and take us from feeling uncertain to having more confidence in our decisions. This is a channeled message from my Spirit Guides: “When you ask us a question, be prepared to receive the answer in different ways. Sometimes it is so clear to you, and other times it will make no sense. But it will make sense over time, because if the answer was simply to do A or B - you would be able to take the step forwards and not have to ask us for help. Some of us are paralyzed by the next step, not knowing what to do but doing the same thing over take over again because that is all we know. We stay here, unmoving. Change is not something many can do easily. Little steps will help you change your direction into the path that you wish to be on. We say this to parents because you are leading the way for your children. Your actions and choices, not just your words can show your children who they aspire to be, and who they would like to be. We are complete.” I will be holding a free channelling workshop called “Parenting with Spirit Guides” next week, where I will ask my Guides your parenting questions. I would like to ask you for a testimonial in return if you have found value in my message. ❤️ It will be recorded + replay available for a limited time. Please comment “Yes please” or DM me for an invitation. 😊 #raisingconfidentkids #raisingconfidentchildren #gentleparenting #consciousparenting #intuitiveparenting #respecfulparenting #parenting #confidenceinkids #parentingguide #selfloveinkids #parentingwithspiritguides (at Melbourne, Victoria, Australia) https://www.instagram.com/p/CjxSohMp2-A/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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✨Parenting with Spirit Guides✨ This week we celebrated our wedding anniversary with ice-cream. really delicious ice-cream with heart, as food is the magic that fills my soul. I also celebrated coming out of the spiritual closet so to speak. 😊 Next week will be the parent workshop with my Spirit Guides. We already have questions put up and the answers are flowing even though we haven’t started yet. The energy of this is going to be really amazing, I am buzzing, it’s so fulfilling to be able to help answer your questions! This is a message from my Spirit Guides. “How do you know if you’re doing enough. How do you know if you’re doing the right thing for your children? We could tell you, that you are doing enough. But your mind, your self, it seeks proof. It seeks to know EXACTLY why and when and how. All the signs need to be there. And so, let us help point out the signs to you. The signs that you have missed, and look back to take any turns you might have missed. You can always turn around, then back, turn right now or just keep going straight. This opportunity to ask does not come easily, put forth your question and listen to the answer that you are seeking. We are complete.” If you have found the workshop to be useful to you, I would appreciate a testimonial in return. ❤️ It will be recorded and replay available for a limited time. I would love to see you there to ask any questions you have about your parenting journey. ❤️ Please comment “Yes please” or DM me for an invitation. 😊 #raisingconfidentkids #raisingconfidentchildren #gentleparenting #consciousparenting #intuitiveparenting #respecfulparenting #parenting #parentingkids #confidenceinkids #parentingguide #selfloveinkids #parentingwithspiritguides (at Melbourne, Victoria, Australia) https://www.instagram.com/p/CjuXbIFJZfN/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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✨Parenting with Spirit Guides✨ When I was in my teens, my parents would take me regularly to the temple. My mother was there to ask questions (I’m guessing adulting stuff that I paid no attention to), pray over our safety and often, I would be asked to sit and meditate quietly until my legs went to sleep. 😂 I sometimes wondered why did she have so many questions. Now I know. I have a lot of questions myself these days being responsible for my kids, guessing which way to go, what would be the best thing to do. Or not to do. 🤔 This is a channeled message from my Spirit Guides to parents and carers of children. “We Guides have infinite knowledge and are here to help you navigate through life. Being a parent brings a deeper sense responsibility to a person, life has more layers and complexity to it as we take it upon us to bring up the next generation of humans. You are this person. Thank you for birthing the child into this world. Their souls have chosen you as their parents, to guide them on their path to their own life. Everyone has questions, keep an eye out for them in your day, and ask for help. There is no harm in asking, and you may find the solution that you are looking for. Take opportunity to ask the question to us through Hennley this moment and now. We are complete.” Next week, I will be holding a free channelling workshop called “Parenting with Spirit Guides”, where I will ask my Guides your parenting questions. I would like to ask you for a testimonial in return if you have found my message to be useful to you. ❤️ It will be recorded and replay available for a limited time. It’s my mission to help as many children and parents connect as they can. Please take this opportunity to ask for yourself and your child. ❤️ Please comment “Yes please” or DM me for an invitation. 😊 #raisingconfidentkids #raisingconfidentchildren #gentleparenting #consciousparenting #intuitiveparenting #respecfulparenting #parenting #parentingkids #confidenceinkids #parentingguide #selfloveinkids #parentingwithspiritguides https://www.instagram.com/p/CjrAxB-J0Er/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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✨Parenting with Spirit Guides✨ I have a gift that I took a while to get to know and understand. I can channel my Spirit Guides. ❤️ Together with them, I will be holding a free channelling workshop next week called “Parenting with Spirit Guides” where I will ask my Guides your parenting questions. I’m really excited about asking them these questions!✌️ Yes, it’s for you to ask me any questions about you and your child. Ask me any about problems that you’re tired with and you need a solution. You can ask questions like: 🔥 My child doesn’t like school, what can I do? 🔥 My child likes to shout at me, how do I fix this? 🔥 My child can never decide on anything, how can I help them? I will channel the answer for you, and the answer will be specific to your family and your family’s situation. This is a message from my Spirit Guides: “We will be honored to answer questions that loving parents need to know about their children. Their relationship with their child is very important to their growth and future. The more the parent steps away from their child’s path, the better it is for the child. You see, a parents role is to walk alongside them and then only be there when they are needed. They aren’t there to do it for them, live life for them or get their children to live their lives the way they should. Because of this, there is a disconnect between the child and the parent. It takes time and effort to reconnect a child and parent in a way that is for their greatest good. If you have questions about your relationship with your child, please step forward to ask. “ In return, if you have found the answers to be useful to you, I would like to ask you for a testimonial. Yes, it will be recorded and there will be a limited time replay. 👋 I’m really excited about any questions that you have! It’s my mission to help as many children and parents connect as they can. ❤️ Please comment “Yes please” or DM me for an invitation. 😊 #raisingconfidentkids #raisingconfidentchildren #gentleparenting #consciousparenting #intuitiveparenting #respecfulparenting #parenting #parentingkids #confidenceinkids #parentingguide #selfloveinkids (at Melbourne, Victoria, Australia) https://www.instagram.com/p/CjoeBEsBNKf/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

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and he’s off to camp today. 🥳 so excited for him, off with his friends for the next few days. I hope he has lots on fun! on the mom front - I was feeling worried that I haven’t done enough for him. mom guilt attack! 😮‍💨 👻 Like I didn’t pack the right clothing. 👻 That I didn’t speak to his teachers enough. 👻 That he’s going to have a hard time. 👻 And I didn’t do enough. I DIDN’T DO ENOUGH. BUT SERIOUSLY, I DID. 🙈 I can tell, because I shifted my perspective and had a close close look at what was going on. And yep, we had done everything we could. Not just to have all the things he needed in a wet and muddy environment. (I’ve never been to camp before too!) But to have the resilience and courage to face the problems that will inevitably turn up. 🙈 Like when things go missing. 🙈 Or he doesn’t have enough socks. 🙈 Or if he’s cold. 🙈 Or if his bunk mates are too loud. 🙈 Or if he can’t sleep. He will know what he can do. 👊 And then I learned that there’s a possibility that he will get off that bus when he gets back, wearing the exact same clothes as he did getting on the bus today. 😂 What a perspective. I should give myself a break, he might not need anything we packed. 🤣 #raisingconfidentkids #momlife #raisingconfidentchildren #gentleparenting #consciousparenting #respecfulparenting #parenting #parentingkids #confidenceinkids #parentingguide #selfloveinkids #channelingforparents https://www.instagram.com/p/CjnQ9yeph9K/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=