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Do you ever regret retraining yourself to be a bedwetter?

I don't. In fact I accidentally wet then bed the other night with my husband sleeping next to me. I wasn't wearing a diaper at the time but so it soaked the sheets. He wasn't upset at all and just asked me if I wanted to try protection for a while. I love him.

When you temporarily stopped wearing at night a few years ago did you need time to get used to sleep in diaper again once you resumed?

That's a good question. No, not really. I was aware I was wearing a diaper the first night but not the second night onwards. I only need to wear once for it to feel normal again.

So happy to see you responding to asks and congrats on getting married! Just going off of your old posts it seems like you prefer thicker diapers to a goodnight so I’m curious how you like the new, bigger sizes.

Thank you! I actually like the new Goodnites XXL and keep a supply for occasional wearing. Unfortunately they don't do a good job in managing smells. For example Dependa RealFit somehow prevent any urine smells from escaping but I always feel like I can smell myself when I've wet a Goodnite which gives me anxiety when in public. Still very happy they made a larger size!

What does your husband think of the diapers and bed wetting! How did he react to finding out about it?

I spoke to him about my interests years ago when we initially started dating. He is a very open-minded and kinky individual, which makes us a great match. 😀

You talked about after college that you tried to stop wearing and wet the bed. Did you end up having to continue to wear diapers when you moved home before starting your job? Did you have any issues during the day from being 24/7? Are you still 24/7?

I did have to wear diapers at night for a few months but I also trained myself out of it. I was living at home with my parents, and did not want to ever let them find out about this. I couldn't get diapers of the brands I liked shipped to the house without them finding out so it was not going to work. Before I moved home, I bought enough for 2 months and crossed my fingers it would be enough to transition back to dry nights.

I have now done 2x 24/7 periods in my life. One, when transitioning between jobs <5 years ago (but this was only for about a week). Nothing remarkable happened as a results of this.

The most recent occasion was COVID19. I was fortunate to have a job that pays well and wanted us to work remote 100% of the time. This lasted for months. As you can imagine, I immediately used this as an opportunity to go 24/7 again. When I did this, after a few weeks, it was abundantly clear that my bladder size and control had diminished. When I was out of diapers, I would feel like I needed to go every 15 minutes and everything felt like a sudden urge. I also learned that you really need to use cloth backed diapers if you are going to wear continuously because your skin needs to breath and you are at a significantly higher risk for rashes. I had to change my diaper changing routine to include more lotion/cream and less powder. I found that powder became more irritating to my skin over time.

I was getting very lonely working from home (alone) for this long so I really also wanted to go back to work. When they gave us the opportunity to go back in, I took it (even though it meant giving up diapers). I nearly had an accident at my desk the first day because I now needed to think about "holding it" all the time. I wore Depends RealFit pull-ups for a while until I could manage to hold it for at least 2 hours at a time. After that I transitioned to ProtectDry adult incontinence underwear for a few months and then I was back to "normal".

My life dream is to work for myself and be able to wear 24/7 again. I will let you know when I achieve this.

#diaperboy

Just curious, since you like belly and weight gain content, would you ever gain yourself?

Depends on what you mean by gain. My weight typically hovers around 185 (I am 6'1). Last winter I got to about 195 and was not super excited about that so I am back down. I think some guys are blessed with a body structure that makes them look hotter as they gain based on where their body puts that fat. I am not so blessed.

I have been back to the gym and put a good amount of muscle back on and I am confident about that!

Any new diaper content coming this year? 😭

Well Goodnites just released a new XXL size. I posted a link about that. By the way, they fit amazingly. Highly recommend for folks who couldn't fit their L/XL or XL sizes.

Will you ever post again?

Yes and No, see my last post.

I love to answer questions, but I don't expect to be posting images of myself in the future.

Do you have a twitter/X?

I do not.

I miss your content! I assume you have your own reasons for not posting but I hope you're doing okay!

I am doing great. I am now married and don't wish to use this channel as a means to "meet new people". There was a time, when I was single, where I had hoped that I might meet Mr. Right with this channel.

In that regard, I don't really see myself posting photos anymore. I am however still hear and really to talk to anyone who needs advice in their own diaper journey!

So, are you a bedwetter?

Yes. In fact, in February of this year, I decided to not wear a diaper to bed and woke up in the middle of the night to wet sheets. My partner was not excited about this.

How did you train yourself to become a bedwetter?

First commit to it, this is more of a mental exercise. Plan a period of 1 to 2 months where you will be sleeping "in the same bed", meaning that you will not be changing locations. It's easier if you live alone or if your partner is fully onboard with your intent. Next, get used to sleeping in a diaper. Make sure that you can sleep as restfully in a diaper as without one (this can take weeks if you are new to wearing diapers). You can use the Apple/Android smartwatches out there to monitor your sleep and compare this.

Once you feel you have mastered sleeping in your diaper. Drink 2 glasses of water before bed and set an alarm for about 50% through your typical sleep cycle. This is much easier if you did the diaper-sleep exercise above with a smart device because all of this information you have already logged. I recommend a vibration alarm on your watch so it doesn't interrupt your sleep too much and you can terminate the alarm without much body motion (like reaching out of bed).

With each alarm, you need to empty your bladder fully. At first just practice doing this in whatever position is most comfortable for you. Ultimately, however, you need to be able to do this in whichever position your were in at the moment your alarm went off. This is critical for the transition because it will train you relax and go much more immediately. This is the hardest part, in my opinion, because you might be worried you will leak if not in the right position (on your back vs on your side for example). You must not let this deter you, it is necessary. You must accept you will leak on occasion, so could plan to add a diaper cover or an absorbent pad underneath you when you sleep if you are not interested in washing sheets.

If you follow all of these steps, then you should start having your first "real" accidents about 2-3 weeks after you master "wetting on vibration in any position". The frequency at which you wet the bed will be dependent on your hydration levels.

#bedwetter #diaperboy

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Is that dlcameronz…with new content…in 2023?! 😍

Lol yes, more to come!

Just got back from a ski weekend. So glad I was padded!

Nice to see you posting again! I hope we get to see more 😊😊

Thank you. My dry spell is over. Just kidding, never been dry.

The Lululemon padded look 😆

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