Grow some balls and be the Daddy Dom your Little really wants.
So you have the Daddy part down to a tee... Youâre loving, youâre caring, youâre there for her when she needs you and you encourage her to be the cute and bubbly Little Girl she really enjoys being.
Itâs all too easy to forget that youâre not just her Daddy, youâre her Daddy Dom. Your Little needs you to show her a strong, confident, powerful presence. If she wanted a wuss, sheâd date one of the gazillion other guys willing to give her the time of day.
One of the most important qualities a Daddy Dom can have, is being able to take control of any situation, and be in charge, without being bossy or cocky.
Most women wonât admit it, but controlling, powerful men turn them on. This is why nice guys struggle to get the girl.
Let me give an example. You set up a date with your little over a week ago, and the night is finally here. She turns to you and says âWhat are we doing tonight Daddy?â. Now the nice guy, he replies with something along the lines of âAnything you want princess. What would you like to do?â, and thatâs where he fucked up. No, just no. This is NOT what women want. The good Daddy Dom would reply with a solid, well thought out plan. He knows what she likes, and heâs confident enough to put together a night that they would both enjoy.
As much as you love her, and want her to be happy, you need to have the ability to say no. You canât give her everything she wants, whenever she wants it. She doesnât want that, and you shouldnât either. She wants to be told no sometimes, she wants her Daddy to be confident enough to disagree with her, she wants to have to fight for the things she wants sometimes. After all, itâs about what you want as much as it is about what she wants. Having everything handed to you on a plate whenever you want it, without any effort, is just plain boring.
Make the effort to get to know your Little, remember all of her little signs and mannerisms. Eventually, youâll be at a point where you know what she wants, before she wants it. That is sexy.
One of the least sexy things you can do, is be predictable. So sheâs broken a rule, she needs punishing. What are you going to do about it? Whatâs the first thing that comes into your head? Spanking? Then donât spank her. Spanking has itâs place, but itâs just so overused and predictable, and we all know that most girls enjoy spanking. Is it really a punishment? Know your Little, know what you can do to really punish her, or sheâll never learn. Take away her favourite plush for a while, stop her from watching her favourite shows, make her do something that is a little outside of her comfort zone. Surprise her, keep her on her toes.
So you like to call her your little princess. Your angel. Your baby girl. Well guess what, so does every single other Daddy Dom. As much as any girl enjoys being called a princess, it sure does take away from the experience. Be different, do something unique thatâs special to the two of you. That makes the bond stronger. Think long and hard about things you can do for her that no other guy can do for her. Give her something to brag to her friends about.
And most importantly, remember one thing...
DD/LG Is Not Just About Sex
Sure, sex is great, but so is feeling loved, cared for, protected, looked after, knowing someone loves you for you and not just your sex organs.
Be her Daddy, her Dom, and her Lover.
P.S: Me and a couple of friends made a group on KiK for littles and Daddyâs. Itâs a safe place, everyone is welcome. Come say hi! #littlesden
