Unapologetically masculine

25 / 18+ / transmed / stealth trans man / married but open / forcemasc + masculinity blog / this blog is for men.

[force-mascing]

This is a nsfw blog, minors don't interact. This blog is for men. Women or others may interact, but the content is for men. If you’re a “(cis) men dni” blog you should stay away.

Honestly, most of my blog isn’t even forcemasc, it’s simply encouraging masculinity and helping trans men with it. Welcome, brother.

Basic info: 25, he/him, (stealth) transsexual man, bi. Transmedicalist. Married to a cis woman. Sexually open, for anyone wanting to dm. You can also dm me just to chat about whatever. I'm a dom.

I live my life as a cis man, and that’s how you’ll treat me and refer to me. Feel free to send me asks of any kind, both nsfw and sfw. I’m pretty open.

Tags

#advice , #asks, #talking (mostly sfw stuff), #ventilation (thoughts, venting, feelings?), #pics (my own pics), #about my wife

[one-million-tears]

it pisses me off that transmales/transmen aren't seen as men anymore, we're seen as transmascs. my gender is male, not masc. i'm a guy, i enjoy being a guy. anyone who calls transmen 'transmascs' don't actually see us as actual men, they see us as girls who dress masculine.

[force-mascing]

do you have any advice for extremely dysphoric trans men that are unable to access testosterone (in my case due to having no money)

That is a terribly difficult situation to be in. I'll try my best to give you realistic advice. I'm assuming you want to pass as a cis man, apologies if this is not the case.

Voice training might do something for you, there are plenty of resources on youtube and on the internet in general. I can't recommend any specifics, but something as accessible as vocal techniques for singers might be a place to start. Understanding how your breathing affects your resonance can be a good beginning. Working out, if you're able to. A gym membership costs money, so that might be out of the question for you, but there are free exercises like running, push ups, pull ups etc, that can help you get started. Being fit doesn't solve everything, but it can definitely help with dysphoria in terms of being more muscular and weightloss/gain, depending on what you want. Make a routine and stick to it.

Unfortunately, cis men don't tend to dress alternative, and it definitely doesn't help you to dress alternative if you don't pass. Look at how the cis men around you dress and try to keep it similar. This also goes for hair.

I don't know anything about you, so I can only give general advice. Good luck man, and feel free to message me.

[force-mascing]

What does “Transmed” mean to you?

I believe that being trans is a medical condition and that you need dysphoria to be trans.

[force-mascing]

Masculinity can be part of your sexual fantasy, but don't forget to practice it in real life.

[force-mascing]

Came across your blog recently and its helped me self-actualise. Given me the drive to start lifting weights again regularly for the first time since November and it feels great. Im also packing more regularly which has done spectacular things for my self confidence.

I’m hoping to go cruise some guys at the local men-only leather bar soon with the confidence of a man who knows he belongs there

Proud of you. Keep going. Be the man you are.

[genevazurich]

[return-of-the-fly]

“I’m shy” gf 🤝 *makes her cum in public* bf

[hhexed-deactivated20250822]

kiss his dick good night and morning

[force-mascing]

blowjob here?

[leatherjacks]

[jockboyfriend]

[force-mascing]

Do you have any tips on how to feel more comfortable as a man with wide hips? I know a lot of trans guys hate their hips, but I personally don't. I think having a big ass and (relatively) strong legs is plenty masculine, it's just that my waist tapers in. Going to be on T pretty soon so it might change anyway, but I feel like I should be more uncomfortable with my hips like other guys are.

If you feel comfortable, don’t worry about it. And if you’re starting T soon, the little insecurities left might go away. There are no rules to what you should and shouldn’t feel comfortable with as a man. If you feel good and comfortable with your masculinity, that energy will radiate.

But for tips. Finding stuff that fits your build and/or hides what you don’t like. When it comes to hips/waist it might help to wear something that gives you a boxy build, like looser but shorter T-shirts etc. Skater vibes, if you get me.

Congrats on the T!

[skullfaggot]

to all my newfound transmascs: do not listen to your cis women friends who think you would make a cute little petite gay twink. you can be whatever kind of fucking man you want

[force-mascing]

There is such a big focus on separating trans man and cis man cock on this website and it’s driving me crazy. Yes, you’re gonna have different experiences with different types of men. But holy shit some posts are literally like “omg I love bottom growth blah blah blah but I want the real gay experience of cis cock in my ass”

And it’s written by other trans people? Are y’all hearing yourselves?

[snuffpornandmeth2]

I'm glad it's not just me but the "boycunt" stuff just bothers me. I shouldn't be bothered or whatever but I just. WE'RE MEN.

Real, I hate ittt

[force-mascing]

Hello, trans male 22, pre surgery pre T (can't afford it now).

I pass as a male but as a very young male. People consistently (at least a few times a week) assume I'm TWENTY. I dress my age but I can't change my face or voice. Heck I work officially, they see me in uniform and even that doesn't stop them. I don't know what to do to fix this. Probably nothing.

I can suggest the obvious like voice training. That takes time and effort. There are free resources, like YouTube etc.

If you can afford minoxidil, that works for facial hair. It should be cheaper than T, depending on where you live.

Are you muscular/bigger? That can also help sometimes (won’t change your face much or voice but can help your general image).

Do you have any peach fuzz? Dye it. Can make a huge difference to create some shadow.