Greetings lover xD
Happy 2022!!!! I think as you get older, you become less social???? Is that a thing? I feel like I have so much to say but at the same time my mind is so discombobulated that I cant find the words to write it out. Its so hard to think where you are in life right now because of COVID 19. Obviously the letter you wrote for your 2021 self didn’t fact that in LOL. Either way, it was a year full for growth I feel like (now that im looking back)
Well as per usual, how are you? At the moment, I’m feeling anxious about DELOITTE, in a weird mental space with Keamy (don’t get me wrong I still love him deeply lol, just in a weird mental spot), but overall, doing pretty well with life, friends, and family.
After reading last years letter, I guess we literally didn’t do any of the vacation we had planned (ahem ahem EDC LV) for obvious reasons nor did we accomplish any of the goals we had for our club involvements (more on this later). Either way, I still think 2020 was necessary as a reset because it does seem like we were already trying to find something to do to keep ourselves satisfied with life and never really stopped and smelled the roses. I think 2020 allowed us to really do that considering we were home 95% of the time. Silver lining is that you were able to figure out who you want to invest your time with and who not really.
As of right now, I’m pretty sure this year’s letter will be a shorter one than usual, even through we don’t have any time constraints but because going into 2021, it seems unpredictable. With that being said, best to just go with the flow.
INVOLVEMENT – Well currently, your literally not doing shit LMFAO but it is understandable considering you want to be committed to your job since youre the newbie. Plus, at the moment, you hate the remote environment and that’s such an obstacle to overcome being new to anything. I know you do have interest in being more involved with NABA. So lets see where they can take you. The members are so great and it is something are you interested in. I’m excited to see if you end up committing to them more so this year and if so, maybe being on the board????? Who know but I hope you took it day by day.
WORK – Work work work. Congrats on moving onto Deloitte B4 SNOB. At the moment, I do miss DHG’s culture and the comfortness it bring you. You took a step down to further your career for when you move to NYC! I know by the time youre reading this, youre already a SENIOR and killing it so with THAT, CONGRATULATIONS HOE!!!! Keep busting through it and continue to show your excellence that I know you are capable of. I hope you cooled your jets on League and really buckled down. I’m interested in seeing how you end up doing at Deloitte. Currently, I’m thinking of insurance???? Who knows but, do your thang girl. I know at the moment, youre not too concerned with busy season because it seems like everyone has been saying it should be pretty chill based on the clients you are on. SO, how was it? LOL Overall, Deloitte is pretty cool but not as great as DHG lol.
FAMILY – At the beginning of 2020, it seems like you were going through it with the fam (Michael related) but going into 2021, it seems like things have gotten better with everyone overall! Lets by saying that Michelle is now your SISTER-IN-LAW, HELLLOOOO. Did not expect that to happen in 2020 so that was a surprise but happy for both of them and happy to have Michelle joint he family!! You went home for xmas this year and cooked for the family for the first time it feels like. Being with everyone felt so great just to be in their presence and I know they appreciated it along with the gift. I hope you commit some more time to making sure you reach out to see how they are doing this year. Mom and Dad are getting older and would like to get a house under your name soon. How is that going? I know you’ve been looking at houses and seeing if you can apply for a home loan to help then out? Were you able to accomplish that? Mom and dad mean everything and it would mean the most to help them out, especially in that area. Overall, theyre doing good through so hopefully 2021, treats them well. Cant believe Linh is married but she seems to be doing fine. Please (again) make some more time to reach out and see how shes doing. Shes such a strong independent bitch but I know she appreciates you catching up with her from time to time. As for Michael, you did get the chance to actually talk to him on xmas, his current plans are to move in with mom and dad in February 2021. Did that go through? How is he doing? Obviously, you have love for him and want whats best for him but hopes he gets his shit together. I know youre such a kind hearted person but keep standing your ground with him and continue to believe in actions rather than words when it comes to him. As for Hoa, hes currently planning on moving to Boca for FAU FOOTBALL??? Omg, hes growing up so fast and he turned 21 this year??? WTF. I’m so proud of him and the person hes becoming. Such a hardworker and very down to earth. You saw/heard a glimpse of it when you were down for xmas. Him working at Bunhaus and also doing the trash pick up??? Omg hes growing into such an amazing human being and I couldn’t be more proud. Makes me wanna cry. This year continue to be there for him. I love where your relationship is going (so cute that he asked you to take pics for him during xmas lol) so keep building off of it but I hope you don’t forget to call him out for his shit when it does happen. Fingers crossed, it could be a big year for him. Continue supporting him all the way! Marissa is back in Jax! Itll give you guys more time to bond and foster your relationship to new levels this year hopefully. Shes a little anxious from her new job but please, I hope you make more of an effort to reach out and let her know you are here for her this year more so than other years. I feel like shes a word of affirmation type of person. She is a strong and independent woman but it doesn’t mean she doesn’t need help and guidance from her cousin from time to time. Please make more of an effort this coming year. And then Lastly, Mellisa!! She graduated and right now shes like 95% she got a FT job at a PR agency?!?! 2020 was a big year for her with lots of changes. You already know that bitch stubborn AF and like to put up this image but you know shes sensitive. Please continue to support her all the way. I feel like she really appreciates it. Listen to her and understand where shes coming from. Shes growing older and wiser every year and just needs a strong support group. Continue on helping her!
HUSBAND – Oh Keamy lol I just finished reading old tumblr notes where I’m literally SIMPING for the man, 3 months into the relationship. I love him so much. Right now, it feels like a weird time (and this is all internally) because I’m starting to realize what I want out of this relationship and going into 2021, I hope you expressed more of what you want in this relationship (like FLOWERS??? Or DATES???). Its honestly not asking for a lot but I hope in 2021 you become more selfish with your love and also get what you want out of this relationship. You love him so much and he does you so, I’m sure he’ll understand (not without putting up a fight first obvi, cause hes a stubborn ass lol). Keamy starts his internship next week and they already possibly offered him a summer internship so hopefully that goes through and by the time you’re reading this, hes in his Masters program with at least 2 CPA exams under his belt. WHICH IS so crazy to say because like WTF. It seems like a year ago he was in community college. Hes honestly killing it and that’s just one of many traits on why you fell in love with him. I do hope in 2021 youre relationship takes you to new hearts and that you really focus on furthering it. Express yourself boo, its okay. BE CONFRONTATIONAL!!!
MISC – Just random shit that’s been going on your mind for 2021. You’ve been thinking about making a Youtube? LMFAO Hey maybe you ripped the bandage and did it. I know you have the idea right now in what you want to do but its more so the execution. I think you are capable of doing it but who knows. I hope you find some passions and hobbies this year (like ummm improving your Vietnamese!!!). Whatever you end up doing this year, I hope you did it with all your heart. Honestly, be unapologetic.
A couple of closing notes: Hanging out with SRQ friends during xmas meant so much and the feeling was soooo nostalgic that I feel like I don’t get in JAX. This year, I hope you make more of an effort to reach out to friends and family. I know you suck at it but just suck it up and do it lol make it a habit to reach out to people. Don’t forget your friends are the one who help mold the person you are today. Keep loving to much but learn to reflect some of it back to you. I hope youre 2021 is filled with stronger love, some occasional vacay, stronger relationships, and a healthier lifestyle (considering youre getting old so you need to watch your health you grandpa lol). Also Happy 28th birthday!!
PS: How long were you able to grow your hair? Is it long and luscious at the moment? :P Alright gonna go for now and I wished you had an amazing 2021 and I wish you the best in 2022.
This is such an afterthought but see if you can starting journaling this year. Also, see if you can find another platform for these letters this year (or have the time, so you can transfer all the letters). I’m worried that tumblr aint gonna be around forever.
Going to copy and paste and ending from last year that I think will make it tradition every year.
All in all: FAMILY, Direction and Guidance, Uplift, growth, and be unapologetically GAY. I love you bitch, and I aint never gonna stop loving you BITCHHHHHHH. Ily <3 lol



















