POV: You’re bf is gaslighting you about your weight gain:
1 Month into The Relationship
“Huh? What are you talking about? Those jeans literally look the same on you as always.”
“A little snug around the waistline? Babe, they look fine. I genuinely don’t see any difference.”
“Yes, really! Only thing I see is how good your ass looks in them Now hurry up and finish getting ready so we can go eat!”
3 Months into the Relationship
“Babe you’re silly, it obviously just shrunk in the wash. Well, it’s your favorite blouse right? So you probably wash it all the time. So obviously all that washing shrunk it to where it can barely reach to your belly button.”
“Then why is your belly hanging out of it? Babe, what do you mean? I just explained, you didn’t get bigger, the blouse got smaller.”
“Babe, you’re being overdramatic, those shorts aren’t digging into you either, they probably just shrunk a little too.”
“You literally look great as always, babe. Why are you even talking about stupid things like the gym or counting calories? They’re a waste of time for people like you who don’t even need them”
“Here, let me help you, baby. Why don’t you give me all the clothes that shrunk and I’ll go to the store and definitely get you the same exact new ones. I’ll even pick up that pizza place you like so much on the way home ;)”
6 Months into the Relationship
“Out of breath again? You probably just walked up those stairs too fast, silly!”
“Why would you think I made your food and only your food with more butter? If I added butter it would be on mine too.”
“I got you seconds and dessert because you always get seconds and dessert, don’t you? What do you mean not when we started dating? You’ve always been my big eater!”
“Aw you’ve always liked sitting here and letting me feed you, haven’t you? You love this. You always have ❤️"