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@headmate-ideas
✧･ﾟ: *✧･ﾟ:* Welcome to Headmate Ideas! *:･ﾟ✧*:･ﾟ✧
About - Template - Modlist - Pending
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Please make sure you understand the rules before submitting! Namely, requests have to have either TWO details or ONE detail and at least four emojis, and we do not do most types of introjects!
< Mod Twyla > I've finally had the energy to log the two requests we got before closing requests again. We may do them when we have the energy to, but requests will still likely remain closed until our surgery next month is in the past. Rats-nest-ID-packs is still open.
Headmate based on the following emojis: 🎭🎸🌗🐅👻
For @headmate-ideas
𝄠 Name: Macabre, Cricket, Clark
𝄠 Pronouns: it/its, they/them, tiger/tigers, moon/moons, magic/magics, chirp/chirps, drumbeat/drumbeats
𝄠 Age: fluctuates from mid 30s to early 40s, usually around 35
𝄠 Genders: genderfluid, xenoneu, hoards tiger, jester and moon related xenogenders
𝄠 Orentation: aromantic pansexual, somewhat on the ace-spec
𝄠 Role: stress diffuser, magic holder, partial gatekeeper
𝄠 Likes: magic, music !, big cats, knowledge/learning, spicy food, jumpscares
𝄠 Dislikes: baggy clothes, technology, dogs
𝄠 Species: tiger/jester of sorts? tends to shift in species
𝄠 Kins: the moon, big cats but especially tigers, outer space conceptkin, magic conceptkin
𝄠 Personality traits: upbeat and usually bubbly, can come off as strange or eerie, tends to be quite physically affectionate, becomes bored easily
This one was kind of a struggle, but I hope this works for you!
< Mod Twyla > Thank you so much for this!
i hope this isn't a strange question to ask, but you mentioned that requests are open on programmed-headmate-ideas, but on that blog, it says that requests aren't open yet. are requests open on that blog as well or just your id pack blog? sorry if this isn't worded well!
< Mod Twyla > The part that says requests aren't open yet is an error from before the blog was fully set up. I'll go correct it. Thank you for bringing that to my attention.
< Mod Trevor > Okay, I'm going to close requests on here for right now and see how I feel for a while. Meanwhile, requests on @rats-nest-id-packs are open again, and the posts on that blog can often be used for the same purposes as BAH packs.
Oh, and I'm going to keep requests on @programmed-headmate-ideas open because I get fewer requests there and I consider them more urgent due to that blog probably being one of the only blogs that'll do RAMCOA-related requests.
I'm so sorry to hear about what happened to Vyvian :( if you guys need to take a hiatus it's totally understandable! Hoping everything works out and you guys are ok, take care of yourselves please
< Mod Trevor > Thanks, I appreciate hearing that. I'd be lying if I were saying this isn't basically the most difficult thing I've dealt with since rejoining the system last year. Thank you for understanding if I need time off.
< Mod Trevor > Hey, I have another update. The alter that used to be known as Vyvian no longer exists in the system. He split into a subsystem of quickly-elaborating fragments a few days after our breakup. There is an alter with that name still, but it's a different person.
This event is something our system finds very difficult to accept, because Vyvian was a core member of the system - he was the only one who fully identified with the life the body had led in the outerworld and was the closest to being "the original" by most metrics - and he was also in a lot of important relationships with a lot of headmates, including me, but also Venn. Longtime readers of the blog may remember that Vyvian and Venn got married early last year, but they are no longer married since the subsystem does not consider themself the same person as the old Vyvian and the wedding vows no longer apply.
There is an alter still using the name Vyvian, but it's because ey's a fictive of the character that the old Vyvian was kin with that he got that name from. For the curious, the character is Withnail from Withnail and I, who is based on a real person called Vivian MacKerrell. The actor who plays him has said online that he thinks Withnail's first name is Vyvian (with that spelling). We have been getting a lot of fictives from that movie lately due to its relevance to the breakup.
It'll be weird running this blog without Vyvian - the original Vyvian, that is - because he was the one who established it and got the idea for it and made it what it was. Individually, I was actually scared to work on this blog at first because certain things about it reminded me too much of communities I had amnesiac trauma over.
I may have to go on hiatus again over all this. I'm really sorry if I do.
Hello! I'd like to put a request in for a songtive, since you seem to have them on your whitelist!
The song is "Eyes Without A Face" by Billy Idol. This request is for a split that is predicted to occur in response to a recent breakup, and the song is already basically about a decaying relationship, but yeah, that's the context for this.
I have very little I can say about this predicted split that isn't overly personal, so we're looking for your blog to help give them additional details. I'd like a Tier 2 but the birthday, signoff, and hexcode won't be needed.
Uhh here's some emojis and unicode for inspiration: 🎭‽🎸⚣🥩✩
Thanks! ~ @headmate-ideas
Eyes Without A Face - Songtive [ tier 2 ] ⭐️
Requested By: @/headmate-ideas
Add-Ons: N/A
Name » Abel ,, Cole ,, Bailey ,, Frankie ,, Lute ,, Maverick ,, Mercedes ,, Merlot ,, Nyx ,, Paradigm ,, Reve ,, Rory ,, Taylor ,, Vega
Gender » Paraboy ,, Proxvir ,, Rockmasc ,, Voidfluid ,, Telegender ,, Decayedgender ,, Redstaric
Pronouns » He/Him ,, Ae/Aer ,, Du/Dual ,, Neme/Nemesis ,, Py/Pyre ,, Red/Reds ,, Reve/Revenant ,, Rot/Rots ,, Ver/Verity ,, ⭐️/⭐️s ,, ☎️/☎️s ,, 📞/📞s ,, 🩸/🩸s
Orientation » Vincian Vallisromantic
Age » 23-26
Species » Human
Kintypes » Mutts ,, Sand Cats ,, Bleeding Heart Flower
Roles » Buffer ,, Emotional Processor ,, Indulger ,, Realizer ,, Relatian ,, Resenter ,, Romanticist
Personality Traits » Watchful ,, Visionary ,, Intuitive ,, Expressive ,, Aggrieved ,, Skeptical ,, Melancholic
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creds: @/velwett_tt on tt
Source » Eyes Without A Face by Billy Idol [ Songtive ]
Thanks for dining with us. Enjoy!
< Mod Alphys > Thanks so much! This is a perfect basis for what we need! :)
I hope you guys feel better and Im so sorry to hear about the break up. Sending lots of hugs to those who are okay with it ^^
< Mod Tristan > Thank you so much, it is appreciated <3
< Mod Alphys > For that matter, is there anyone reading this who runs a BAH blog who would do songtives of "Sin" (Nine Inch Nails), "Vienna" (Ultravox), and/or "Eyes Without A Face" (Billy Idol)? Preferably who wouldn't mind it if I DM'ed them about the specifics of the request? Ideally blogs run by adults due to the reason for the splits but it's not necessarily required.
< Mod Alphys > Hi! So! Um. We might be a little disorganized on this blog for a while. Our system just went through a major breakup - the end of a three year long relationship with our first partner system, the longest relationship we've ever been - and we're genuinely just focusing on being functional and surviving right now.
< Mod Twyla > I am pleased to announce we are opening a new blog called @programmed-headmate-ideas. It is a BAH blog that references programming and RAMCOA on the templates, as well as selectively answers questions on the topic for a pro-endo audience.
Because it deals with a triggering topic, I use different tags on those posts than the main BAH tags (namely things like "programmed bah"). You should also check out its about page so you know what kinds of requests I will or won't take. However, I have written and posted a few example templates so you have an idea of what these posts will be like.
we're trying to flesh out a new member of our headspace, we'll try to give all the details we can but we don't know much unfortunately! we'd like to request a basic template with personality traits opt-in and relationship preferences add-on if possible
he is some kind of god who currently goes by Divine though other names are welcome, they are distinctly not human
they are very connected to the stars and sun, bright glowing lights, and the color yellow are very him
💫🪽🌟☀️🌕🌻☄️ are some emojis he connects with
he feels like a protector of mankind and has beliefs he tried to uphold and stand by, some being a willingness to learn in general, respecting other perspectives and supporting human creativity
(hope we did this all right, we're very new to all for this)
< Mod Riley > This was done perfectly fine! Here's your template!
🪽 HEADMATE TEMPLATE 🌻
[Opt-ins: personality traits. Add-ons: relationship preferences.]
[Headmates may not turn out exactly as written, and that's okay.]
✦ Name(s): Divine, Solen, Raye, Delizek ✦ Emoji proxy: 🪽🌻 ✦ Pronouns: they/them, xe/xem/xyr/xyrs/xemself, e/em/eir/eirs/emself, sun/suns/sunself, gold/golds/goldself, wing/wings/wingself, 🌻/🌻s/🌻self ✦ Species: deity ✦ Age: ageless adult ✦ Role(s): caretaker, protector, aegir, naturalist, spiritual headmate (optional), day fronter, early bird ✦ Labels: luxine, lumenoir, spiritine, omnisexual ✦ Likes: sunny days, gardening, religious studies ✦ Dislikes: negativity ✦ Xenos: sunshine, spirituality, nature ✦ Music taste: folk pop, garage rock, sunshine pop ✦ Aesthetic(s): solarpunk, psychedelica, cozycore ✦ Kins: sunlight, sunflowers, canaries ✦ Personality traits: caring, thoughtful, contemplative
✦ Description:
Divine is a deity of light, knowledge, and kindness who embodies these traits in their system. They consider themself a protector to humanity and to the Earth, and this comes through in how they treat the members of their own system. E has a few forms, including one that is just a ray of light and several that are angelic, but when taking a humanoid form, e wears warm colors (especially yellow and cream) and soft textures. If the system have any spiritual beliefs involving astral objects and/or nature, Divine practices these. While xe is normally self-assured, calm, and confident, xe sometimes worries xe is not doing enough for xyr system or for the people around xem. As a deity, xe is not particularly used to asking for help or reassurance.
✦ Relationship preferences:
For Divine, the emotional aspect of a relationship is more important than the physical aspect, although e is not necessarily entirely disinterested in sex or physicality. As a deity, Divine has a complicated relationship to the concept of "equality" in a relationship. E wants a partner e sees as being on "equal footing" with em, but this is sometimes hard because e perceives mortals inherently differently to em. E may do best in relationships with other divine headmates.
[Brought to you by: Mods Twyla and Riley!]
Hi hi, can you do a larger template. We belive we have somone forming but unfortunately we barley know anything minus they tend to numb emotions for getting overwhelmed.
< Mod Trevor > Hi! I know you might not know anything else about this headmate, but unfortunately, our rules require you to submit two details OR one detail and a string of four or more emojis. There's not enough for us to work with otherwise. Sorry!
hi hi hi!
We have a few different fragments we’re gonna assimilate but would like more of a solid identity for them to grasp on to, could you help with that?::: one is a dissociative amnesia/memory holde; one is a cow-horse-human hybrid; One is a determination/motivation holder and goes by “Zip”
we are collectively/bodily::: an adult; hypersexual; Objectum;
we would like all opt-ins but no add-ons, thank you!
< Mod Trevor > Hey, we're going to decline this request, not because we have an actual problem with it, but because it doesn't quite follow our rules for a request, therefore making it difficult for us to satisfactorily fulfill it.
In addition to requesting that people only request one headmate per ask (sometimes flexible if they're paired with each other in some way, but these ones aren't), we require people to give at least two details about the headmate they are requesting.
The first one you listed technically has two details, but they are incredibly similar to each other (dissociative amnesia and memory are very closely linked), so much so as to basically be the same detail. The second one only has one detail. The third one technically has two details (role and name), but those two small details alone weren't really enough for me to go off of for inspiration to fill out all the information you wanted me to, as names only tell you so much about a person, and this name (Zip) was linked to the role.
If you re-submit these requests separately and with more details, OR a sequence of four or more emojis for inspiration with the details you have already given, I will be happy to do them.
🕯️ HEADMATE TEMPLATE 🔥
[Opt-ins: color palette.]
[Headmates may not turn out exactly as written, and that's okay.]
✦ Name(s): Aldous, Irving, Gregory ✦ Emoji proxy: 🕯️🔥 ✦ Pronouns: he/him, it/its, hy/hym/hys/hymself, ix/ixs/ixself, dae/daem/daer/daers/daemself, 🕯️/🕯️s/🕯️self ✦ Species: human ✦ Age: 27 ✦ Role(s): reader, hobbyist, spiritual headmate (optional) ✦ Labels: agender masculine, cenrell, beltzaain, daroric, pansexual ✦ Likes: the occult, 1800s literature, dogs ✦ Dislikes: being made fun of ✦ Xenos: demons, canines, shadows ✦ Music taste: darksynth, acid rock, hauntology ✦ Aesthetic(s): steampunk, vampire aesthetic, horror aesthetic ✦ Kins: demons, vampires, black dogs ✦ Color palette: black, maroon, crimson, silver
✦ Description:
Aldous is an occultist who summoned demons in his timeline and, if the system have any spiritual practices involving demons, Satan, or anything "dark", engages in those. Either way, he likes immersing himself in dark topics and studying demonology, the paranormal, and the occult. Aldous is not unfriendly, but it has a spooky and esoteric demeanor that some people may find offputting. As a result, it spends a lot of time by itself, engaging in solitary hobbies. In addition to studying the interests mentioned earlier, it likes reading fiction (especially from the 1800s or early 20th century) and any hobbies that involve tinkering with mechanical things.
[Brought to you by: Mods Chem and Trevor!]
