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i will do ANYTHING but work on my essay apparently
June and July are the same months btw. They want you to think they're two different months but it's the same month that's 60 days long. Same way August is actually August and the first half of September
they need to invent smudge proof glasses cause i am so tired of it
I like when delivery people ask you to sign their tiny shitty screen with your finger like alright sure we can do some free drawing I guess. Some random strokes that evoke the essence of a signature. Looking me dead in the eyes while I play fruit ninja on this blank screen. Why not.
I dreamt that there was a new meme that went, “If I dids it, I dids it. If I didsn’t, I didsn’t.” There was a third line, but I forgot what it was.
happy to report i’m back on my bullshit
and a rare variant
HOW DID YOU KNOW THEY WERE CAT MEMES IN MY DREAM
>:3€
THAT’S IT, THAT’S THE MEME FROM MY DREAM
School assignment was about playing with the formatting of text while writing so I did what I always do and made it about living with anxiety and depression baybeeeeeeee
Anyway now I have something to show people who are blessed enough to not deal with this and maybe they’ll get it!!!!
i think we should start openly mocking male creatives who can't figure out how to write women. like actually i think it's embarrassing that it took elliot page transitioning for christopher nolan to give him a good role. why did it take like ten years to get the first female lead in a marvel movie? why is it a Known Fact that stephen king can't write women? why is 50% of the population omitted from large ensemble works? i asked my friend to name a movie directed by a man with a majority female cast and he said ghostbusters 2016. ghostbusters. ghostbusters. g
this sewing pattern just touched me while i was in the middle of reading it
“The ad was in a women’s magazine and if I remember correctly, was for a perfume. It featured a white woman lying in bed with a black man. The man’s shirtless back was to the viewer, making only his taut, muscular form and powerful-looking arms and shoulders visible. He was faceless, unidentified. The woman looked sultrily at us from over his mysterious form, satisfaction writ large over her features. She had partaken of whatever delights this man had to offer and was smugly, luxuriantly basking in the afterglow. The ad copy was, “Take a walk on the wild side.” My teacher used the ad as an example of how marketers can use certain words and images to convey large amounts of information subtly and effectively. A white woman having sex with a black man? How risqué. The implication: be a little like that woman. Spray on that perfume and feel like the kind of girl who has sex with faceless, muscular black men in ritzy hotel rooms because it’s an adventure, a thrill, a risk, something illicitly pleasurable. These are the semiotics of race. This is why columnists will trip over themselves not to call Lupita Nyong’o or Angela Basset “beautiful”, choosing instead to use terms that call to mind a kind of savage, animalistic magnetism: fierce, striking, edgy, eye-catching. Words like “pretty” and “beautiful” and “cute” are for white women whose bodies and sexualities are not seen as wild, animal, or untamed. Black men are hulking, threatening, thuggish; white men are charming, sexy heartthrobs with hearts of gold. Brown women are exotic, with their “honey-coloured” skin and their “mystical”, “enchanting” beauty, unlike their white counterparts, who are held up as not only ideal, but knowable and safe. White people are beautiful; non-white people are dangerous.”
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“The Semiotics of Race, or: Walks on the Wild Side”
by Aaminah Khan
(via haramdaddy)
sometimes you want to watch a movie but that would mean you would have to pick a movie to watch, which is an impossible task
europeans be like “omg north americans are so racist it’s horrible” and then elect fascists
I would like to emphasize that I agree with all of these tags by the way. My post wasn't aiming to pin all of Europe's grotesque racism on the new elections.
A few weeks ago I was at a board game night with some of my old classmates from various mainland European countries. They started talking about how horrible Trump's treatment of immigrants is and how they're so glad to be in Europe where nothing like that is happening right now. I asked them what they thought about the fact that their own governments were complicit in turning the Mediterranean into a mass grave of asylum seekers, and some of them legitimately didn't even know and were surprised to hear that their own governments had enacted policies that caused the deaths of thousands of asylum seekers.
Even here in Iceland, almost nobody has been talking about the fact that some of the far right populist parties have legitimately been talking about wanting to establish detainment camps to keep asylum seekers in.
Additional readings:
Greece suspends asylum applications for migrants from North Africa by Laura Gozzi (BBC).
Greece passes draconian legislation with prison terms for rejected asylum seekers by Helena Smith (The Guardian).
Greek coastguard threw migrants overboard to their deaths, witnesses say by Lucile Smith and Ben Steele (BBC).
Bill on Detention Centres for Asylum Seekers Published by Jelena Ćirić (Iceland Review).
Italy sends 40 rejected asylum seekers to Albania by Karl Sexton (DW).
Record number of migrants, refugees reached Canary Islands by sea in 2024 (Al Jazeera).
Portuguese government announces major migrant expulsion plan by ANSA (InfoMigrants).
This post is a few months old now, and the bit about Iceland is now outdated, because Alþingi (the Icelandic parliament) passed the bill approving the detention center for asylum seekers. It will be legal to handcuff and detain children there.
Never let anyone from Europe feed you the lie that racism and fascism are unique to North America in the 21st century.
This post made racists angry enough to harass me over it, which all that's going to do is make me bring this post back and reblog it more.
https://blogs.lse.ac.uk/internationaldevelopment/2024/06/19/fortress-europes-migration-crisis-a-man-made-phenomenon/
Every year, thousands of migrants and refugees try to reach Europe. The response of the European Union (EU) and its member states has been t
The deliberate policies of the EU and its member states have turned the Mediterranean into a mass grave – as we watch
Shout out to the phrase “I’m going to become the joker” for capturing a very specific and real emotion
Fascinating how what's considered feminine and what's considered masculine can change over time. The rebranding of being a horse girl into being a stereotypical feminine girly trait needs to be studied.
Look at classic children's novels. As recently as the 50s and early 60s, being obsessed with horses as a girl was depicted as strange and tomboyish, and the very concept of being obsessed with horses from early childhood and loving toy horses and desperately wanting your own horse being a "little girl thing" and not a "little boy thing" would send someone from the 1800s and earlier into a coma.
There's maybe a point to be made here somewhere about how when keeping and riding horses stopped being necessary to the functioning of society and became a more "frivolous" thing, it was rapidly rebranded as silly and girly and for women, but what do I know.
i wrote a paper in my masculinity studies class in college about this exact phenomenon, specifically about how high heeled shoes started as a practical way for Persian cavalry to keep their feet on their stirrups, then likely due to that association, became a popular fashion item and status symbol among the upper classes of Europe, before the Great Male Renunciation of the 18th-19th centuries, when men started shunning opulence in favor of utility, leaving them as a fashion item for women instead.
I've joked that the two genders are Aesthetic and Utility before but thats just kinda the case
my elf roommate: *smoking a caterpillar*
me: Are you fucking kidding me Larius I told you to do that outside, now it's gonna smell like ass in here all day
my elf roommate: *puffs a perfect ring of smoke* What Is A Day In A Life That Lasts Centuries?
me: not everybody lives as long as you dude. put that thing away
my elf roommate: That Is Not What Thy Mother Said
me: hilarious
my elf roommate: Hello
I do wish mainstream perceptions of BDSM differentiated clearly between emotional sadism and humiliation/degradation play.
That idea of the teary-eyed girl who’s lying crumpled on the floor after an intense scene, completely miserable? That’s emotional sadism. It’s okay to want that, but I wish it wasn’t the public face of BDSM, because it’s not the only or most common way to play.
When you call your partner dirty (their favorite thing to be called!) for enjoying what you’re doing to them? That’s humiliation, but not sadism. This is much more common.
When you call your partner dirty, and it makes them feel or act genuinely self-conscious and uncomfortable, but you’ve agreed that that’s something you both want even if you don’t both “enjoy” it? That’s humiliation and emotional sadism.
Humiliation/degradation is about making your sub/bottom feel self-conscious. It’s about making them feel less than you, or like they’ve done something wrong. Importantly, there are a lot of people who are actively into embarrassment and enjoy it. It’s why there are some people who don’t want you to call them a slut, but there are some people you call a slut and they give you big heart eyes. That latter group of people enjoy the embarrassment and the shaming. It makes them feel naughty rather than dirty, if you will.
Emotional sadism, on the other hand, is about making your sub/bottom feel bad. It’s about that reaction of “I don’t want this.” For some emotional sadists and emotional masochists, play-acting at that is more than enough. “I want you to act uncomfortable, but please use the safe word if you’re really not into this.” For others, that genuine feeling of “I wish this wasn’t happening right now” is a turn-on to both parties, and a BDSM scene can be a safe (or rather, risk aware and mitigated) place to experience that. Importantly, this is consensual, even if the sub/bottom isn’t enjoying it in the moment. There’s something they’re getting out of this, though that “something” is different for everyone.
Emotional sadism is not for casual play; it is intense and requires knowledge and experience in BDSM. Do your homework. Watch your Evie Lupine videos. You need to negotiate carefully, and you need to have built a healthy BDSM dynamic with your play partner before you can do anything they act like they don’t enjoy, and especially before you do something they genuinely don’t enjoy.
You should be informed and educated before engaging in humiliation/degradation too, of course. But it’s why a lot of advice on humiliation/degradation helps you avoid doing things your submissive is genuinely uncomfortable with. With emotional sadism, you’re going off the rails on purpose, so make sure you know damn well what you’re doing!