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Janes identity schedule

Monday: Krystal

Tuesday: MysticBlue

Wednesday: Bondgirl007

Thursday: Ann, courtesy of Riot doxxing me.

Friday: Amanda, courtesy of GayCavill doxxing me.

Saturday: by request of those in my discord, Henry himself.

Sunday: Jane. A "me" day. A day of rest, if you will.

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The company that designed that smoker and built it, are in his comments saying how nice Henry's family were.

We know bane ain’t nice. We’ve seen her enough times. Those clips are online forever.

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Even if she creates fake accounts to drop false meetings and accounts about her being nice.

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Yeah she tried to push that with the dogs at the pub bullshit, remember? Henry explained rugby to me and my Grandkids. Natalie was so sweet. So full of shit.

Remember when we got those pics of him with sweet old ladies in Beverly Hills and he had a look on his face like he wanted to die because Cuntasarous Rex couldn't keep her damn mouth shut?

>> Again with fat shaming a person who isn’t even fat. Let’s see your ass then. I hope you bitches all get outed like over at Tattle Life. Yeah Henry will sure love you skanks after that. JFC get a life all of you. <<

>> Is this Riot or Pork Butt having a hissy fit? Also, don't think for a minute that Miss and her cringey friends wouldn't shame others for less than the size of their ass. <<

Naaah. There's no way this is Riot, she sounds completely different. And I have a hard time imagining that this lawyer is even on here, let alone that she'd be emotionally involved enough to throw a hissy fit. Can't see that it could be NV either, cause I'm not sure whether she'd even have the capacity to get angry on someone else's behalf.

It could be the anon who's been upset about my unchanging feelings on HC. He hasn't lashed out at me for calling him out (which, honestly, still has me impressed) - but IF he had, this is about how I'd have expected that to sound (very different from that stupid foot stuff that the other anon who trolled the conversation came up with, by the way).

I can also see it could be HC. Potentially high, or potentially tearing his hair out over trying to not get high in spite of the pressure of his situation. Potentially having a bit of a crisis around whom to side with, which direction to go, what to believe or whom to trust.

Maybe NV and hers are currently back to "friendly sweet-talky mode" again, possibly trying to get him to reconsider the track he's currently on. Possibly trying to convince him that it's actually everyone else whose mean, and they are actually his best allies, or his best bet, or whatever. Or NV could be playing damsel in distress, to prey on his empathy or sense of responsibility, getting to him along the lines of "don't you realize that if you're actually going through with this, you're essentially sending the very mean, very cruel and very misogynistic internet to hunt me down?? hooow could you do this to me????" - which would be an attempt of manipulation ofc, cause TO BE VERY CLEAR: I think that if the internet's going extra hard for NV, then that's because she seems like a shitty person with shitty behaviours, and gives a vibe of "vein, arrogant and thinks she's better than everyone else" that quite simply is just repulsive to many. It would NOT be because she's a woman, or because HC "broke up" with her or whatever.

Either way, could be that he's looking everywhere, trying to find his position or reasons to reassure himself about whatever plans he may have made, and therefore might be overly sensitive towards "aggressive talk" about NV and hers - cause that would kinda support their lines of "arguments" (aka manipulation) - which would kinda suck if he was trying to affirm himself in his decision to push them away. I could see a situation like this might create enough pressure and conflicting feelings in him to lash out like this.

Plus, I'd reckon he might generally not be the biggest fan of name-calling and might outright detest anything that reminds him of bullying-types of behaviours. Also, he's been called fat (when he wasn't even fat, though it seems that he believes that he actually was), so that could be why his thoughts would have jumped to "fat shaming" even though the comment likely wasn't even about her body at all.

I also briefly looked up Tattle Life cause I had no idea what it is at all, and apparently it's mostly a UK thing? According to what I've merely skimmed over - did not fact check.

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The company that designed that smoker and built it, are in his comments saying how nice Henry's family were.

We know bane ain’t nice. We’ve seen her enough times. Those clips are online forever.

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Even if she creates fake accounts to drop false meetings and accounts about her being nice.

What did Courtney McCringy comment on Henry's post?

She can't read, he clearly said he was eating beef. No wonder Miss bane doesn't know her shoe size. Her friends can't read and tell her it's the wrong size

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Isn't she supposed to be a contract lawyer? Isn't it her job to read?

The company that designed that smoker and built it, are in his comments saying how nice Henry's family were

If his family was there, he wouldn't have had to take a selfie.

I need y'all go back to his written interviews last 2025. He never ever include Natalie in the family word. She's always separately named. Always excluded. Glaring evidence is the my-our daughter.

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I wonder who got to that smoker designer. We’ve seen this time and time again with Bane getting people to lie for her.

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By this point, I don't read much into Henry separating out Natalie from Family. Henry acts like some guys when they get a long-time partner amd sometimes kids, they act like they're single or wish they were. That's all I think Henry is doing, trying to have it both ways, the "fanily" but also being a kind of shitty single guy.

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The company that designed that smoker and built it, are in his comments saying how nice Henry's family were

Can you show the comment?

Many here have said to be under the impression that NV may likely be a (narcissistic) abuser.

What y'all guessing about HC's perspective on this, though? Like, you reckon he sees it this way too, or is it more likely that to him, it's just someone whom he happens to have a gigantic type of quarrel with?

And do you reckon the fact that he's a man might impact his ability to acknowledge that he may have been experiencing abuse?

-- full train of thought:

I just dawned on me that almost all the people who I can come up with off the top of my head, who have survived narcissistic abuse or other severe cases of abuse and managed to come out the other end with their sanity intact, and whom I've heard speaking on that - either in person or when they were sharing about their story publicly - are either women or queers. And for the men amongst the latter, it's more specifically queer man who are out, and also clearly not trying to fit with the culturally still somewhat dominant version of "traditional masculinity".

Now, this obviously isn't to say that there aren't any straight men, or men who are projecting a more "traditional" type of masculinity, who've managed to do the same - there definitely are. I also realize that these groups of men may be less likely to speak of their experiences openly, as unfortunately some might question their masculinity over the fact that they have experienced abuse.

On the flip side though, I can easily think of a whole number of men projecting a more traditional type of masculinity who have, in fact, experienced abuse, and who either are still in the same or similar situations, or very much don't seem to have their mental health in check at all (well, or - both of these). And when I've heard these men speak of their experiences of abuse, they themselves have usually not labelled it as such. Like, they would mentioned things that have happened, but typically didn't define or even seemed to think of them as abuse.

On an additional note, for example, when I find myself in some corner of the internet where people are sharing their experiences of abuse with one another, there'll often be someone popping into the conversation going like "What the heck, what y'all talking about, that ain't abuse! In fact, it isn't even harmful at all, it's normal! It happened to me to - and I turned out just fine!!!" It's always quite awkward when this happens, since most likely everyone in a space like this is going "yeah, no, you are very likely very much not fine" in their heads - and then you'll see some brave ones going for their best attempts of expressing this notion to the "visitor" - but, ya know: gently. Now, in my experience, these people bumping into those conversations like that, not exclusively but in the biggest majority of cases are dudes.

Which brings my thoughts back to the anon who repeatedly expressed frustration about the firmness of my feeling that HC likely isn't doing so well. This almost reflexive insistence that someone's mostly fine, within a context of conversations that probably have about thousands of things mentioned that should make it reasonable to assume that there's at least a good chance he might not be, is kinda reminiscent of "that one dude" crashing into online conversations about abuse or trauma. It's also one of the things that to me "gave that anon away" as someone who I'd assume has been raised as a man.

Now, it's definitely not like "non-dudes" can't be unaware about how seriously something may have affected them, or in denial about having experienced abuse or trauma, or in the dark about how much they're actually struggling. Heck, I'm not a dude and I've certainly been there, big time. However, I rarely see "non-dudes", who might be in a spot like this, getting quite so insistent about it. Most of the times, when I see people getting real frustrated about someone suspecting they might not be okay, or showing a lot of determination at pushing back anything that might suggest that they aren't, these people are cisgendered men.

I've also taken a look at the FamousFix stuff mentioned, and personally, I don't feel comfortable with the way people are talking over there - especially since it sounds a lot like they're mostly just trying to tear someone down. However, I don't think that the points of "bragging" or "compensation" are entirely off, either. Granted that this might also be part of the PR, and its likely a business-quid-pro-quo of some sort anyway, and also in light of the flavours of his nerdy interests, I can see he might genuinely just be excited about a loco-bbq like that - which is fine, and having activities that one can genuinely enjoy is always a good thing in my book. But well, also, that post even has been brought up on here as "evidence" of how he's doing better. So I have a hard time not seeing it as at least partially also being a "look at me, look at my cool (manly, and expensive = successful) stuff, and see how I am obviously doing quite alright!" - which I'd say could be seen as a form of compensation.

And well, all of this now got me thinking: I wonder whether HC is even thinking of NV as someone who's likely an abuser? I think that in my head it's been like "yeah, at this point surely it's gotta have dawned on him", but now I'm thinking, well, how likely is that, actually? Cause I'm thinking after all, if he was to see her as an abuser, he'd also have to acknowledge to himself he'd have been abused. Which if he acknowledged that, it might make the possibility feel a little more pressing that this might have emotionally targeted and affected him in deeper ways that might actually need some serious untangling and working through. It might also make it harder to convince oneself of doing pretty well. Also, if she was a narcissistic abuser, that would mean he couldn't win her in a game, or ever gain control over her - which I don't know, might clash with his ego? Or worst case, even with his kinda looking up to heroic characters?

My oh my, the more I'm thinking about it, the more I'm feeling this might just end up turning out as another sad episode of "Toxic Masculinity hurts men, too".

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Family = Nik, Charlotte, Mom, Dad, other brothers and SIL, etc. Why do you think they're talking about Bane and the imaginary baby?

I didn't think anyone was talking about bane and the doll. They are not his family so why would you think that is what I thought?

I said if he wasn't alone, he would not have taken a selfie. No part of what I said would make you think I was talking about bane and a child that doesn't exist. This man cooks lots of food just for himself and eats it all. Maybe his family was there and maybe they were not, but since they were not in the picture, I cannot confirm that they were there. Hence why he took a selfie.

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The company that designed that smoker and built it, are in his comments saying how nice Henry's family were

If his family was there, he wouldn't have had to take a selfie.

I need y'all go back to his written interviews last 2025. He never ever include Natalie in the family word. She's always separately named. Always excluded. Glaring evidence is the my-our daughter.

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#baby drama

Not_An_Insider2 17 hrs agoWasn't there a story about Henry not vibing with some kids at Stowe because he wasn’t as rich as the ones he was trying to befriend? And didn’t gNat say she always wanted to be the rich kid on her MTV special? lol. That’s why they will always show off because it’s based on an insecurity and that’s why even when they wear expensive brands they always look and feel cheap.

Famous Fix with better takes on Henry than you all. They call him out unlike you worshippers.

Of course, you famous fix people eat each other shit and have the lowest bar for thinking that Henry and Natalie are the happy family and a power couple.

The famous fix people who will call you bride or mentally unfit the moment you said your piece that's not aligned to their opinions

The Famous fix people who would bring hell to someone the moment they give Henry an inkling of support. Heck, I even read someone share her unsupportive comment about Natalie then you folks harassed her.

The famous fix people who will bring hell to the tarot readers.

Not and insider... That person definitely acts like Henry is the source of his/her suffering. Like Henry is the reason she/he have a shitty life. But you anon thinks NAI have best take. Well, not blaming you for having that kind of thinking. Go stay there, that forum needs to be at least kept alive.

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What did Courtney McCringy comment on Henry's post?

That smoker looks like a train car - the main car on The Shitshow Express or, more accurately, The Little Engine That Shouldn't Have Bothered.

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Again with fat shaming a person who isn’t even fat. Let’s see your ass then. I hope you bitches all get outed like over at Tattle Life. Yeah Henry will sure love you skanks after that. JFC get a life all of you.

Is this Riot or Pork Butt having a hissy fit? Also, don't think for a minute that Miss and her cringey friends wouldn't shame others for less than the size of their ass.

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The company that designed that smoker and built it, are in his comments saying how nice Henry's family were

If his family was there, he wouldn't have had to take a selfie.

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