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by that i mean i plan to move to a diff blog once i have my shit together | fia, they/them, 18! | discord is fiamet#9013 | icon by @tamajikis on twt |

[joeymets]

pinned post until i make a proper carrd or whatever else

❥ i’m fia, i’m 18, i use they/them! that’s already in my bio but i think it bears repeating B)

❥ this blog is my main! aka for general posts + homestuck/hiveswap content bc i have been doing that since literally forever and most of my followers/mutuals are from that

❥ hmm i don’t really know what else to say so i might add onto this later. i definitely have “dni criteria” but its pretty much nothing that isn’t already standard. feel free to ask/talk to me about anything pertaining to this if you want. 

❥ i don’t need anything tagged myself, and generally you prob shouldn’t rely on me to tag things if we aren’t friends or mutuals since it’s easy for things to escape my notice or memory

❥ never feel bad for doing things like tagging me in posts or messaging me or spam liking/going through my tags i very much appreciate it <3

[buddys-png-grocery-store]

[honeyrolls]

Berry Omelette Cake / Matcha Omelette Cake

[sir-dyke-genderpunk]

I'm sick and fucking tired of people not fucking remembering that one of radfems first targets were BUTCHES. It was about dykes being masculine and hating that masculinity. You can find dozens of accounts from all the way back in the 70s of radfems targeting cis and trans butches alike. They steal from butches. They stole our fucking flag. They appropriated androgyny and drove a divide between butches and lesbians that identified as androgynous for YEARS. Don't you fucking DARE conflate being butch with being a terf or a radfem. If you knew an ounce of your history you'd know that radical feminism started as a movement to remove butches from the community completely, and also that butches/transmascs/drag kings and transfems/drag queens have a long history of solidarity, love, and trust considering the fact we're INCESSANTLY demonized even within our own communities. Butch/femme include transfemmes, it always will and ALWAYS has.

[fierceawakening]

This drives me insane too. They hated butches. Now they find it convenient to use butches as a tool against trans folk so “butches who don’t take t are divine beings.” All they did is move the goalposts and people fall for it. It’s shit.

[nerianasims]

Yep. A foundational delusion of radical feminism is that masculinity is evil in all forms, and that definitely includes butch lesbians. They also excluded women who weren’t both white and at least middle class. The working classes, poor, and anyone else not appropriately hewing to the current conception of respectable upper class American whiteness was kicked to the curb.

This is the era they also shut the door on my straight, middle class, very educated white grandmother when she insisted that she wasn’t abused or brainwashed by her husband and that she actually liked him and liked her children. The number of women radical feminists find acceptable has always been minuscule -- and, frankly, I don’t think anyone really fits. They’re faking, and so they think everyone else is too.

[2021bingo]

Just a reminder my blog is trans inclusive. It’s bi inclusive. It is pan inclusive. It is intersex inclusive. It is ace/asexual inclusive. It is aro/aromantic inclusive. It is queer inclusive.

I don’t support terfs or exclusionists.

If you came here looking for an ally in your bigotry you came to the wrong blog. Go away. You are not welcome here.

[fangseeker]

Happy pride month to:

Lesbians who are boys who are also girls

Lesbians whose gender is lesbian

All trans women

Nonbinary people who are in a constant state of mental torment because they can't decide if they want to transition or not

Boys who are girls

People who identify as transsexual

The trans girl who hacked the no fly list

Alucard from Castlevania

[bread-making-vikings]

This site has been going around Twitter trans accounts quite a bit lately, so just pointing out here too that it'll do fuck all, they're exploiting trans people at a time when hrt is particularly hard to access and please don't give them your money

[bread-making-vikings]

fuckin exploitative bullshit marketed in the worst way imaginable

[bread-making-vikings]

literally selling laxatives as weight loss supplements

[grendel-sceadugenga-deactivated]

Reddit post by Dr Will Powers

[femmefurina-deactivated20240814]

No actually, this needs to be in the body of the post.

This isn't someone looking to make a quick buck off the backs of desperate trans women.

This is someone who is gathering a hit list. This person may use your info for active swatting, but not just that, this product will kill you.

This product is outright dangerous. This dose of ashwagandha is ASTRONOMICAL. It's anxiolytic - meaning that it causes agitation and anxiety - and if you take this dose every day you'll be developing serotonin syndrome within 4-6 weeks, and an ER trip/death within 8. And if you're on medications that interact (SSRIs, antipsychotics, most kinds of opiates) or alcohol, this risk is magnified.

This person wants to KILL YOU.

[femmefurina-deactivated20240814]

Also the photo they're using for the founder is AI generated. The easiest tell is the neck tattoo seemingly merging with the collar of the shirt, and none of the locs actually having an end that connects them to the scalp.

[femmefurina-deactivated20240814]

There's a terf in the comments screeding about how this totally isn't a rightwing psyop and it's asian fetishizing trans ppl obsessed with anime doing this, so here's some irrefutable proof that it is, in fact, a right-wing dox honeypot!

If you go to any post by TheQueerQuirk on Twitter and replace the username part of the url with transaretr8ors it will redirect you to the same tweet with the new username, indicating that TheQueerQuirk's old username WAS in fact transaretr8ors. You can test this yourself.

They're also stealing images from r/transtimelines for fake reviews.

Their domain name was registered on June 2 and the address marked is a common scam address (seemingly of the Icelandic Phallological Museum).

THIS IS A HONEYPOT. THEY'RE COLLECTING ADDRESSES. YOU COULD BE SWATTED, HAVE YOUR IDENTITY STOLEN, OR AT THE VERY BEST RECEIVE A PRODUCT THAT WILL CAUSE SEROTONIN SYNDROME.

SPREAD.

[jowoeyclaire-deactivated2024061]

happy pride from ur local lesbian disaster!!<33

[idlestories]

not just ‘he would not fucking say that’ but ‘he would not, under torture, admit that’

[willowcrowned]

[cube-cumb3r]

what i dont get abt xenogender hate is that like most xenogender opposers r usually not against being nonbinary necessairly so its like Yes youre allowed to be neither man or woman in this like Nebulous Vague and Undefined way but GOD FORBID youre neither man nor woman in a Concrete Not Vague Way. what??

[cube-cumb3r]

like you can say ohhh my gender is a Secret Third Thing but god forbid you specify that secret third thing is like Stars or Glitter or idk Skateboard

[221turtlesinthetardis]

Five asexuals are playing cards.

One starts to explain the rules: 

I’d say no cheating, but there are already five aces at the table.

[wetfag-deactivated20170404]

just a reminder that apparently anybody who isn’t ace cheats

[exemplarybehaviour]

this literally says the aces are cheating…………. because… you can’t have five aces in a deck………….it’s the Opposite of the second comment…

[lostoldplanet]

Reading comprehension on this site is piss-poor

[mystrothedefender]

How dare you say aces piss on the poor

[908south]

Happy pride y'all

[mulderscully]

u ever in such a bad mood u feel urself turning evil?

[mulderscully]

had an actual meal. not evil anymore

[nyancrimew]

who up being a lil overwhelmed by the world today

[nyancrimew]

who up being very overwhelmed by the world today

[idogsoftspeaker]

[depsidase]

[sillywafflefries-me]

[luidilovins]

I AM SO ANGRY AMETHYST IS RESISTENT TO THE OCCASIONAL BATH BUT THE GEODE CRUST CERTAINLY ISN’T LITERALLY MINERALS BREAKING DOWN BY BEING PULVERIZED WITH HOT WATER IS HOW GEODES FUCKING CRYSTALIZES IN THE FIRST PLACE AND YOUR TAKING A GEODE THAT BIG AND TURNING IT INTO THE PERMANANT WATER CONTAMINATE AND BACTERIAL CESS POOL THAT IS A SINK WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU NEVER GONNA USE TOOTHPASTE OR FUCKING SOAP SO IT DOESN’T EAT A HOLE THRU THE BOTTOM OF YOUR FUCKING SINK YOU GODDAMN GOON WHY DON’T YOU JUST MAKE A STOVE OUT OF CARDBOARD OR A DOOR OUT OF TISSUE PAPER??? WHY DONT YOU MAKE PIPES OUT OF FUCKING SMARTIES CANDY OR TABLE LEGS OUT OF PLAY DOUGH FUCK YOU BUDDY IF I WALKED INTO A PLACE AND HAD TO CLEAN A BATHROOM AND SAW THAT SHIT I WOULD BREAK YOUR FUCKING SKULL OPEN WITH A STEEL PIPE

[iwantadamusername]

I’m guessing you’re a geologist?

[cam1lla]

“Authors should not be ALLOWED to write about–” you are an anti-intellectual and functionally a conservative

“This book should be taken off of shelves for featuring–” you are an anti-intellectual and functionally a conservative

“Schools shouldn’t teach this book in class because–” you are an anti-intellectual and functionally a conservative

“Nobody actually likes or wants to read classics because they’re–” you are an anti-intellectual and an idiot

“I only read YA fantasy books because every classic novel or work of literary fiction is problematic and features–” you are an anti-intellectual and you are robbing yourself of the full richness of the human experience.

[moonshinemagpie]

"you are functionally a conservative" is such a good and clarifying insult

Literally right after I saw this post, I saw another post in a discord chat for BOOK EDITORS in which an outspokenly liberal editor talked about how Nabokov should have never been published because he wrote about p*dophiles and described women's bodies in ways that made her uncomfortable. She described his writing as "objectively terrible" and said she wanted to burn his books. And other editors were bringing up classics they didn't like and talking about how they wanted to throw them in the trash. This wasn't like a light "unpopular opinion!" conversation. This was actual book editors talking about how books should be destroyed and censored.

There is something so scary and toxic in global culture right now. The revival of fascism is influencing everyone's mindset and approach to art, regardless of where they fall on the political spectrum.

I see far more books being censored today than when I was a kid. Librarians handed me The Catcher in the Rye, The Sexual Politics of Meat, and Animal Farm when I was literally 8-11. My mom would never have taken a book away from me. I read everything from the Tao Te Ching to the Qur'an to atheist texts under my desk at school. Teachers thought nothing of it or encouraged it. Books seemed universally acknowledged as sacrosanct to me.

Now I can't find any adults who don't hesitate or want to make exceptions when it comes to censorship. Even the most liberal social activist librarians I know go, "well except for book X..."

Functionally conservative. It's so important to have the language to express that.

[cam1lla]

Thank you for this addition!

[atombombtom]

tell me something about yourself

so this might be tmi but the first time i jacked off it was like 2005? I was playing the sims 2 for the first time and i didn’t know anything about Gay but i made my male sim kiss don lothario, which i didn’t think would work. i then googled “2 sims kissing (boys)” and that led me down a rabbit hole (lol sims 3 reference there), and yeah, ya know, I did the self-woohoo. that same night there was an oprah re-run about teenage pregnancy and i was horrified. oh my god, i was convinced i was pregnant, nevermind that i am a little cis gay boy with no uterus. nevermind that i was a virgin. i was CERTAIN I was pregnant. Like, 900%. I had done the nasty and had become filled with my own vile seed. I started getting really self-conscious about my belly expanding. I didn’t want to google anything about masturbation leading to pregnancy out of fear it would confirm all my worst fears. My male sim got abducted by aliens and came back with morning sickness. He gave birth to twin aliens. that confirmed it in my mind that it was biological possible for men to carry children, perhaps even their own.. what was i going to tell my parents when i gave birth to myself? anyway I went to the doctor with a cold and he asked me what was wrong and i told him i was pregnant and he pissed himself laughing. this whole ordeal lasted about 5 months, but the lasting effect will probably follow me to the grave.

[atombombtom]