Southern girls don't always wear pearls

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Birthday reflections

Isn't is funny? How we can cherish things we have never had. How we say "Oh, only if I could have (blank), then I would be happy." Sometimes I wonder, if I did have the one thing I long for, would I take it for granted? Would I cherish this person as much as I do now if he was in my life and in my daily routine. I don't really know. All I know is that this is the life I chose, so this is the path I walk down. May your light always shine bright little one and may you always see the good and not reflect on what could have been. Three years old. Holy shit. Happy birthday baby.

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Buttercup not Butterscotch people

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Understatement of the year!

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Can't beat an interracial relationship.

‘Interracial couples are brave enough to face the world and let the society know that nothing can stand between them and their love for each other. The more challenges and trials the interracial couples are undergoing, the stronger their relationship becomes. This only proves that love can indeed conquer all, from the moment it starts and hopefully until eternity.’

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Rome Wasn't Built in a Day

Watching the TLC show "Hoarding: Buried Alive" is giving me some great insight. 1. My mom is somewhat of a hoarder (as am I) 2. Nothing can be done in ONE day. Make small goals for yourself. Everyday I will set aside time to clean. And just like cleaning, all of one's weight can't be lost overnight. I know that losing 16 lbs in two months seems horrible, but it's progress. And these small goals will one day make me a happier, healthier, cleaner, and more successful human being. Only 3 lbs away from 10%. We can do anything we put our minds to. Write a novel, lose weight, finish college … it can all be done it just takes time, patience and perseverance :) now get up and get going, time to build your own dreams one step at a time

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Let that be enough ....

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munchkin collage :)

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As much as I don't wanna, its time to work out lol

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Look at how far YOU have come. Learn to CELEBRATE life and not wish it was different. And hey, 10 years ago, could you have dreamed of THIS? Hell naa :)

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long distance relationships.

it requires a lot of trust and patience. . you have to be really committed to a long distance relationship though (not saying that you shouldn’t be with all other relationships). . shit gets critical when you aren’t able see your significant other as frequently as you’d want to. . sometimes you just want to be hugged by them, see their smile, be held by them. . but as i was told, absence makes the heart grow fonder. .

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hey im not sure how to break up with my boy friend i found someone new and i love him after only 2 days ive been with my boy friend for 4 years but this other guy and i have been sleeping together since i met him how do i completely let go of the old and move on to the new? sorry i know you write for the springhillian and i love reading your articles

If this is a joke ... props to you. You must know my past b/c I dated my ex-boyfriend for almost 3 1/2 years, met someone knew and loved him after 2 days ... (sounds freakishly familiar right?) anyways, funny joke, but if you're for real I can tell you the best solution (at least the one that worked for me)

First off, I was honest with my ex up front. I told him I met someone new and he def tried HARD to win me back. Unfortunately, I left my ex and it was messy. I had to block him from everything b/c he wouldn't leave me alone. Since he lived in nola and I was in Mobile, it was easy b/c i didn't have to face what i did. My advice: listen to ur gut and go for it. You are living for you and thats what matters.

And if this is Derek, I'm sorry for hurting you, but my heart led me to the love of my life, and hopefully will lead u to yours.

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Days keep getting longer ...

Oh boy! What a day. Since tumblr is a place where I can vent, I hope you guys don't mind if I do so, like right now, ok? ok ...

Today was supposed to be the day I saw a handsome little boy, but he was "sick," and has consequently been in the ER for most of this week. This is the second time where I made plans to see him and I couldn't (grrrr). I haven't seen cutiepie since Mardi Gras which was all the way in February. I pray and pray and pray that I will get to see him this summer otherwise I may start stalking (this is totally a joke, I hope).

So today, when I found out he was sick and therefore couldnt see him, I was fine, going about my day as usually. ATE. WENT TO MASS. ATE SOME MORE. MALL WITH SISSY. AND YET AGAIN MORE EATING. I mean you guys know that nothing gets in the way of my eating for the sake of eating.

But then, out of the blue, here come the waterworks, the reminicing and the pictures of old times. And Lordy, when I break out those pictures, you know I'm starting to go crazy. So I texted an old friend who knows practically everything about me and who was there for me through an extremely rough time in my life and my decision making process. She made me cry even more. But now I'm ok again. Like what is this? I'm so bi- fucking -polar!!!!

Anyways, tomorrow will be better hopefully. Going to visit an old friend who's celebrating her daughter's 1st birthday ... so beautiful!!!!!

Thanks for staying as I rant haha ... I swear I'm psychologically sane, just some days are rougher than others.

Peace and Blessings <3

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Procrastination is key in determining the strong from the weak