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making this as a blog to yap and repost things more privately I may share who knows

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[kindleclowder]

MA WIFE KEEPS STEALING MY BLANKETS WAAAA she’s adorable but give them back

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I really hate how many people have shown themselves to be awful, but more than that, I hate how it's become a gotcha game whenever that happens. Like "ohhh you actually BELIEVED they were a decent person? ohhh you seriously THOUGHT they were pretty good?" Yeah, dude, I did. Because my baseline assumption for just about everybody is "they're probably a decent person." Surprise! That's actually a way kinder way to move about the world. Shockingly, I'm not actually walking around wondering what nefarious secrets everyone is hiding, because that thought makes me physically ill! Because everyone's a person, and therefore no one is pure and perfect! Because I like to lend grace to my fellow human beings, as I would hope they'd extend grace to me!

Every time a celebrity is outed as having done vile things, there are pages upon pages of comments saying anyone who didn't already know is a fucking moron, and like??? No??? I don't default to assuming strangers are monsters, actually. That would mean never leaving my house again. I always try to think of the time I was standing in a Meijer checkout line with my wife and a old white dude in camo was eyeballing us. Felt really dangerous! Felt really scary! And then he opened his mouth to tell us about his lesbian niece and how much he loved her and just wanted her to be happy, because happiness is all there really is in the end. And yeah, it's good to have guards and boundaries, because sometimes those people do mean you harm. It's good to pay attention and read a situation for what it is. But just assuming everyone is cruel by default? No chance, man. That's an awful way to live.

When someone proves to have done awful things or supported awful situations, that isn't on me for having assumed them to be decent. That's on them for having chosen to do something fucked up. It's a bummer every time, but I refuse to let it change my tendency toward seeing the good in people. Anything else just isn't worth sticking around for.

[kindleclowder]

I can’t even go piss without coming back to find my girlfriend sprawled across MY bed

Idk how she does this she can just sense my side of the bed becoming free and claims it???

[kindleclowder]

I wanna read the inner thoughts of E and laughhhhhhhh

[kindleclowder]

Do you ever look back at the person u were before with a fondness of oh sweet kit it was so hard for you but I’m glad I never have to talk to you ever again.

Fondness but in the way you see a younger sibling where u find them cringe.

[kindleclowder]

Mrrp I made this blog to talk about stuff and explore those thoughts in a way that meant I could scroll back or whatever.

But now I made it I instantly feel rlly mehhh about it all.

[kindleclowder]

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