venus in aries folks may frequently make others think that they are attracted to them cuz they have a very forward approach towards sex and speak directly about all kinds of topics. also they often express their feelings via physical touch - when they’re excited they’re gonna put their hand over your shoulder and start pushing you around, when they’re happy they’re gonna squeeze the fuck out of you, when they’re worried they’re gonna inch in closer as if they need the support, etc. this can come out as something romantic/sexual to more uptight characters.
venus in taurus are actually pretty secretive and take their time to open up to people. they usually come off as caring and stable and that’s why people often don’t realize they don’t share all that much and avoid certain topics. in general, taurus is just as mysterious as scorpio but with less angst and dramatic edginess about it. another thing i’ve noticed about them, esp if the sun is in gemini, is that they’re kinda clueless about the signals ppl are giving them and have difficulty figuring out when someone’s into them, maybe cuz they are usually quite traditional about the ways in which they show they have feelings for someone and expect the same from everyone else.
from my personal observations, i haven’t noticed venus in gemini people to be unable to commit or to be mostly into flings. i think those people have a hard time settling on someone cuz they need a significant amount of mental stimulation to enjoy a relationship but once they found someone with whom they can discover the world together and not someone who’s supposed to be their whole world, they are quite devoted and loyal. all venus in gemini ppl i know have long-term relationships, like 4+ years, and work hard and compromise a lot to make them continue longer. while it’s true they have an innate flirtiness to them and often talk playfully to people while they’re in a relationship, they actually keep in mind the boundaries they’ve set with their partner. however, they’re not likely to settle with a person whose boundaries are too strict and can’t stand them joking around with others.
cancer venus folks experience a lot of jealousy. it might be the most jealous venus sign tbh. they’re quick to commit and set their mind on someone and expect the same and they’re usually not the type to “play date”, they want someone with whom they can see a long-term future. that’s why they may read a lot into their partner’s behavior esp if they’re sensing they’re not that keen on such a full blown commitment, and may feel the sting of jealousy sharper than most people. another thing I’ve noticed about them is that in the beginning of the relationship they are very caring and treat you like a baby f.e. they’ll cook for you a lot, remember how you like your coffee, give you massages, tuck you in and basically baby you all the way. but then they slowly try to shift this towards you babing them more, it’s like they lure you in by taking care of you but then reveal what they really want is you to baby them.
venus in leo may unknowingly cause negative feelings and envy in others because they really like to show off with their partner and to compare them with others to point out how they’re better. a couple of people that date ppl with venus in leo have actually complained to me they feel uncomfortable cuz their partner keeps making others feel not good enough through comparisons. venus in leo folks need to make sure their close ppl are recognized for their qualities and validated. sometimes they may even boost a bit their lover’s acomplishments or try to present them in a better light so everyone can be amazed by them. venus in leo actually enjoy a bit of envy directed their way tho, they like it when others want what they have (of course as long as it’s not too much and it’s not getting in their way somehow).
venus in virgo are always repressed sexually in some way. this doesn’t necessarily mean they don’t have an interest in sex, more like they have some sort of blockages that prevent them from deriving personal pleasure from sex with someone. they might’ve been raised in a convservative family that made them feel sex is bad or should be super boring, or they’re afraid their partner may leave them if they’re not being “useful” so they put the other’s pleasure first and forget about their own, or they feel like they need to be perfect in bed - whatever this means - and so may have difficulties relaxing and enjoying themselves…there can be many different reasons behind virgo venus folks having trouble giving into their own sexual desires but yeah, i often find this placement in the charts of people who can’t enjoy themselves.
venus in libra natives are used to being the one that makes all the effort in relationships and often feel as if the other person doesn’t care as much as they do or at least isn’t willing to work as hard as they do for things to work out. that’s why they really idealize connections in which things seem to magically work out on their own and they may fall in love with someone simply cuz it feels like someone else is pulling the strings - like there is perfect timing or they get stuck in a ditch and it is solved on its own without anyone trying to fix it. they are very different in that aspect with their opposition in aries - venus in aries feels weird when things just work out effortlessly and needs to actively put work into solving conflict in order to feel satisfied in a relationship.
scorpio venus are not some flaming hot sexual beasts that just ooze intensity and flirtation over their love interest. these people are actually extremely withdrawn when it comes to expressing their feelings and are not the type to go after their crush openly, esp if they have a reason to think they will be rejected. but the option that they won’t be rejected scares them too - I’ve noticed they tend to fall for players that may stick around even after they confess their love but won’t reciprocate the intensity and devotion of the scorpio venus native. it’s almost as if y'all want someone who won’t put you through the horrors of rejection but also won’t put you through the torture of acceptance, mutual love and…trust either lmao. it’s safer this way after all. also despite the fact that scorpio venus people usually have some kinky fantasies, they’re often closed off sexually and feel very uncomfortable when they have to open up physically with other people. they have difficulties tapping into their own sexuality and expressing it - often even in front of themselves.
venus in sagittarius is extremely sensitive to rejection. we’re used to seeing this placement as very out there, confident, optimistic and always up for shit but i’ve noticed folks with it often perceive rejection where there is none and if you refuse them a couple of times, they are super reluctant to ask you for smth again and may act a lil bitchy about it, almost as if you owe them something. i think they’re often hurt by how other people’s enthusiasm and thirst for exploration and new experiences doesn’t match their own and someone rejecting their ideas and invitations often feels like a forced loneliness, it makes them think they won’t find a partner in adventures and will have to explore everything on their own. which, as much as it’s fun, can also be quite depressing sometimes.
despite their reputation of being dry af and always looking for stable long term relationships, venus in capricorn people actually really enjoy being with fiery individuals, esp if they don’t have that much fire in their own chart. i’ve noticed they are particularly attracted to aries/leo energy and really need that extra boost of spontaneity and idgaf vibe. they love someone that brings variety and wildness into their everyday life (as long as it doesn’t interfere with their schedule lmfao). they’re the type to drop hints that they’d like to be taken somewhere and to be surprised while also telling you suggestively when they’re actually free lol….
venus in aquarius people are most likely to be the come-and-go type and are known for being sort of inconsistent in their displays of affection and attention. people often think they are hot and cold and their feelings are not stable but the truth is this isn’t about their feelings for their lovers and friends, it’s connected to the famous aquarian need to withdraw and be on their own for some time. they are often surprised why people see them as inconsistent when their love isn’t actually wavering, they just need some space for a while and then come back, acting as if nothing happened - cuz technically nothing happened for them, they were just recharging themselves mentally. some self-awareness of how this may come across to people will be helpful for them in relationships, otherwise this behavior is honestly bordering clownery.
venus in pisces are actually the type to observe people from a distance for quite some time. they like to watch you from the other side of the room without you even noticing they’re taking notes of every gesture you make and patching up their insights into a whole with their incredible intuition. pisces venus people usually have a talent for making themselves invisible and are more likely to gather observations on their crushes than scorpio venus. scorpio venus people are more inclined to stare at others obvsly without realizing they’re doing it at all. while pisces are surprisingly more aware and make sure they are being subtle and undetectable.
venus in the 1st house are very crafty people when it comes to things like makeup and cosmetics and such stuffs. they can often do their own nails perfectly and are amazing hairdressers, also may produce their own cosmetic products. definitely have an eye for aesthetics and excel at taking great photos and often paint well. even if they’re not skilled and don’t have a technique, they still have a natural eye for how to put colours together in a pleasing way.
venus in the 2nd house people have a thing for physical beauty, like they really need to be around folks they find aesthetically pleasing and may often get in trouble cuz they’re quick to fall for good looking people who may have nasty personalities. they’re very sensual and can quickly translate what they see to what they can feel when they touch it - that’s why they’re so attracted to smooth looking skin, squishy thighs, plump lips, thick hair that looks soft, fluttering eyelashes, fit muscles, etc. they imagine vividly the sensations and crave them.
venus in the 3rd house daydreams a lot about taking their loved ones to their favorite places around town. they really just wanna share with people that matter to them all of their lil spots that fill their daily life. they’re also the type to fantasize about meeting their lover in a nearby restaurant or because they hang out at the same spot in the local park or cuz they suddenly move on the same floor. venus in 3rd loves some coffee shop au shit lmfao. if venus is in a water sign, they would like to take you to the spots from their childhood, if venus is in an earth sign they’d like to show you their daily routine places, if venus is in an air sign they’d like to show you where they go for fun in the neighborhood, and when venus is in a fire sign they’d probably wanna have sex with you in their favorite spots.
might be a cliche but i’ve noticed people with venus in the 6th house often date people they work with. i guess working environments make them feel more open to getting to know others and relating to them? even if they don’t work with their partner, they’d still try to implement some sort of thing they do routinely together, something they can profit off - f.e. they may write a novel together or take photographs that they later send to competitions, etc.
venus in the 12th house people may often experience an inexplicable connection with their loved ones. they often have premonitions and visions of someone who is going to be important to them before they even meet them. they feel someone is going to enter their life. also they may connect to people they love so deeply that they can feel the other very close even if they’re separated by a huge distance and can experience the sensations the other is feeling. i’ve heard many stories by venus in 12th folks about astral traveling into the dreams of their loved one or experiencing shit the other experiences without knowing it at the moment. they may also be very sensitive towards physical touch esp if venus is in an earth sign or they have a lot of earth in their chart - f.e. when they touch their loved one it feels like a deep vibration under their skin or it resonates in a particular part of the body every time, etc.
venus in detriment/fall is often connected to more pain/trouble in relationships:
venus in aries folks are most likely to hurt others without even realizing they’re doing it
venus in scorpio may hurt others to punish them for emotional neglect or betrayal
venus in virgo often end up hurting themselves and then blaming others.
