to be honest about how i feel. infront of me and especially infront of others. because really, feelings are nothing to be embarrassed about. you’ve been through a lot and sharing your feelings will make you a stronger person and closer to your friends. it’ll help you in the future. don’t be afraid to feel or to cry or to bawl out like a freakin baby. you’re still you and you’re still strong and you owe it to yourself to express yourself and not just bottle everything in.
to not be afraid of failing. or be afraid of what other people think. because god let’s be honest you care so damn much about what people think. and you’re scared of looking like a fucking fool. but really, in the end, no one really cares and nothing matters except for what you think and what your goals are. everyone fails. not everything is perfect the first time. don’t let chances go and wonder what you might have missed because you were too scared of failing or fucking what people think. just saying that sounds really fucking lame. don’t be scared. don’t be lame. just go do it. make the most of your 20′s.
to be happy with just me. me alone. not so and so’s girlfriend or so and so’s ex. be happy because you’re free. because your decisions are yours alone and affect no one (usually) but you. be happy because there are so many possibilities when you fly solo. make the most of it. and go be better friends with your friends and stop being so shy and introverted and go make new ones.
to be thankful. no matter what happens. no matter how many times you’ve had your world shattered. no matter how many times you’ve hoped and trusted and loved and had it all kick your ass in the end. be thankful for all the hurt. because anything worth hurting over means it truly meant something. and that in itself is something to be grateful for.
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