please stop over sexualizing san
I feel like this is very hypocritical of me to say, but I honestly don't care
you're probably like, "well violet, aren't you mainly a smut account?"
and yes, you're right. but that doesn't mean that I only talk about the people I write about in a sexual way.
they're people. real, breathing people, who are so much more than their bodies. and seeing how so many other people only think of san as some sex object really infuriates me if I'm being honest.
imagine if someone talked about you like that, and only saw you for your body. you might get uncomfortable, feel like you're nothing more than your looks, and start to get self conscious about your appearance.
I know san has seen the comments lots of "atinys" have been saying since their recent comeback, and it hurts to know that they could've made him even more self conscious than before.
I know this is very touchy considering how I write about him in a very mature way, but that doesn't mean that I only see him as that.
all I'm trying to get at is; how about we acknowledge him for other things?
his voice, how much he's improved since kq fellaz, and make him feel like we love him because of him, and not just because of how beautiful he is on the outside.
I know the majority of the people who read this love san for who his is as a person, and respect him as such. but if you disagree with me, than you're part of the problem and exactly the type of people I'm calling out.
and to those of you who think "oh, well he wore a crop top, so he wanted to be sexualized." or "he knows what he's doing, maybe he should've worn more modest clothes."
shut the fuck up, please, just get the fuck out
