Last Night I pulled a post I’d put up describing my husband’s last encounter with a playmate because it had been reblogged by someone who took great offense to the fact that hubs obtained the playmate under false pretenses.
The post was reposted on her page with a “holier than thou” response about what a vile horrible pair of humans my husband and I are and what disgusting offensive behavior this is.
She wasn’t wrong. That behavior is horrendous and unkind and unfair. Traits I do not want to have associated with my name.
It is not how we want to do things and going forward we are being honest and open with everyone. No more lies or false pretenses.
In all honestly though my first reaction was to laugh. Really? How long have men been lying to women to get them into bed?
How many married men have told women they aren’t really married, or they are getting a divorce or their wife is a piece of shit in an effort to bed someone of the fairer sex? Hell, I used to know a guy who purchased a Corvette to woo the ladies. (It worked. That guy got more tail…)
My point here is coming after me with torches and pitchforks for the offense of lying to a woman seems to me to be a a lot of misspent energy.
ESPECIALLY since we have admitted we were wrong and going forward will be changing things.
The past cannot be changed, only the future.
Having said all of that (and meaning it) I should point out that this woman acted of her own free will and decided she wanted to have sex with my husband. He didn’t beg or plead or promise her anything, he didn’t force her to do anything she didn’t want to do and actually the next morning when she requested another go around he declined as he had to go to work.
Not one single solitary consenting adult was harmed in that particular transaction. Fun was had and that is all it was.
If you are new to this page with the sole intention of calling me names or pointing out my disgusting behavior, save your keystrokes. I’ll give you a spoiler alert.
This page is designed for me to journal our experiences with this lifestyle and there will be mistakes and missteps made. I will be open and honest with all of them.
I assure you I do not need anyone coming to my page to shame or point out things or behaviors that is offensive. I don’t need it because chances are I already know about it & have taken the steps to correct the course.
Hopefully you all are reading this in the spirt and with the tone and inflection in which it is meant.
Ever learning, ever evolving, always moving forward…
