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Big Fella is really cool and I love him

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PSA: Triggers

Triggers can be anything. 

And I do mean anything. From mentions or pictures of cats to mentioning a certain TV show. They can be certain franchises, or specific games in a franchise. They can be bugs, they can be sounds, they can be plushies, they can be music or smells. They can be mentioning certain foods, or certain words or metaphors or phrases.

Triggers don’t have to be things that are already scary to mention like blood or someone getting hurt. Just because a trigger isn’t common doesn’t mean it isn’t valid.

Triggers are serious. They bring a person back to a time where they were seriously hurt. They cause flashbacks and anxiety and distress.

People cannot help their triggers. They do not choose to be hurt by these specific things, it’s just how it happened.

You don’t have to understand why. Please don’t ask people why certain things trigger them. Just understand that it does. Never bring up someone’s triggers to them, if they bring it up they’re mentally well enough to talk about it. If not, don’t talk about it. It isn’t hard to avoid certain subjects around them. It isn’t hard to tag things if asked.

I am willing to tag anything. My followers, if you need anything tagged, please send me a message either IM or inbox, I won’t publish it.

I am an understanding mun who will not judge you, no matter what you need tagged. I take the comfort of my mutuals and followers very seriously.

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hello everyone! a bit of an update.

something happened and i won't be around for a bit. i'll try to set up a queue soon! i’m late, but:

happy pride month to all lgbtq+ demons and dark creatures!

happy summer solstice to all pagans and witches!!

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asking for help when you need it isn’t weak, it’s one of the strongest things you could do.

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you will find allies in unlikely places.

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remember to take care of yourself as well as them.

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you don’t need to hide yourself from those who really care.

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help create what’s beautiful in the world.

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who needs a blanket when they can have a warm hug from a demon?

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you are a child of the night, the most beautiful and peaceful time.

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being soft and sensitive isn’t weak. being rough and rude isn’t strong. 

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darkness is comforting.

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the night air is soft and cool, just like you.

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you don’t deserve to be feared. you deserve to be cherished. i hope the day comes when you are as loved as you should be.

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did you know your wings are another set of arms? if you hug your friends with your arms and wings, you’re giving them a double hug.

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humans were lied to. you’re good, you can show them.

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kindness helps everyone, even you.