Queen B's online dating experiences

Using social media as an experiment to date online with a picture of myself VS a picture of someone really attractive.

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Experiment for the shallow

Hey everyone, as you all have read in the past few blogs I had written about several online dating experiences and as you can already tell they have not been the best experiences a girl can find specially now days. I have figured out that it is so difficult for some people to be genuine behind a lap top or even a phone. Why is that you may ask? The only conclusion I came up with at this point, is because we live in such a fast paced world we want everything right now and our way, we are not willing to put in the work that a relationship requires. We are all so busy concentrating in our own personal happiness and at times jobs, family, friends etc. With that being said I do believe that some people are capable of being honest but it is always so much easier to lie and deceit when your behind a computer. 

My experiment  was thought through and was created to see how shallow we  humans can be specially when it comes to men. In some cases they were able to put up with the possibility of the attractive woman having a boyfriend or having a bitchy attitude in order for them to get a chance with them. 

In conclusion theres no way better way to find someone then the old fashioned way which is being genuine. It does not matter if you find them online or in bible school but in my opinion always be yourself and don't change your convictions just to be approved by someone or to think you will be loved by that person.

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Dry spell

November 23, 2018

It’s been such a busy couple of weeks for me due to some tragedies that happened in my family so i really haven’t paid attention to my tinder accounts as much but it has been an awful dry spell anyways. I haven’t had matches and when u do I don’t get any messages lately idk why? Anyways I’m getting bored to keep up with it I think i might call it quits after I’m done with this unless I get a really interesting match that changes my mind.

Hope to find something interesting soon ttyl. 😘

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Boy friend For rent

November 11, 2018

So as I continue to date online at this point I’m just doing it mostly for the blog, not even putting any effort into it anymore due to a couple of failed attempts and some disappointments I come across this interesting male telling me he is a “professional boyfriend” this guy is seriously using tinder to make money. He explained he offers his time and attention and at times depending on the situations he can also have some “fun”. I was curious to know how all that worked so I asked for an estimate and he responded saying he had a sale going on of $90.00 an hour. At this point now I’m shocked and feel a little mad because I’m thinking men are really taking advantage of some woman now I’m pretty sure there might be some woman that would be tempted to make that sort of purchase but as for me I’m good just going out and meeting men the old fashioned way and not feel like your taking advantage of me.

Was so upset at this man for even insinuating that I would be Interested In something like this that I told him he was marketing the wrong type of woman. Let him know that woman my age could still get a normal date to pay for dinner and movies and have “fun” for free.

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Working late

October 30, 2018

So as you know at this point of my blog I’m just exposing my online dating experience with men through the Tinder app. Long story short I have two accounts a real one and a fake one. I match with mostly the same men on both accounts just to see how they react to certain questions towards the real me and then towards another person who is very attractive. This week I met a guy that I will call “Nestor”. Nestor had invited me on a date a couple of days ago the real me and I gladly accepted, he seemed very nice, sweet and honest.

Dinner and movies he had promised me I was so happy I was actually going to go through with it then I thought ok let’s see how much is he willing to do or see how honest he is so I put him to the test which I thought we would pass with flying colors. The fake account was also talking to Nestor which he had opened up a lot more with her then me so “Gloria” (the fake account) asked him to go on a date the same day he would meet up with me and he was honest enough to say he had a date that night with someone else and then “Gloria” told him to try and ditch the other date and take her instead.

The real account gets a message the very next morning telling me he had to work late and he wasn’t going to be able to make it to the movies and dinner. I was honestly so surprised I thought this one would be different and was not that shallow but boy was I wrong once again.

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Shallow Hal’s do exist

October 20, 2018

For the last couple of weeks I have been dealing with so many emotions when it comes to this online dating thing, some men just want to have fun while others have been trying to prove that they are totally serious and are ready to settle down. So me Queen B matched with this guy on tinder that we will call “Josh” and “Josh” was very aggressive and staring forward with me to let me know that he was only on tinder to have fun so my response was okay well i don’t want to waste anyone’s time around here so he immediately unmatched, and that was the end of him on my end. Now on the other hand with “Gloria” this same person is begging her to please give him a chance to date her and that he would love to get to know her in a deeper way. At this point I’m asking myself why me being the same person talking to these men don’t get the same type of commitment? So my conclusion was that men are very shallow and would not want to mess things up with a gorgeous woman and would put up with being stood up and they put up with me talking down on them and believe every skngle word that comes out of my mouth without even meeting me. I will update later this story is just beginning

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“Gloria”VS the real ME

Hello again ever one as I continue to use this dating app the more I’m becoming aware of what kind of shallow people we are becoming, specially when it comes to men. So as you may know I’m doing the daring app experiment and I’m posing as myself in one pic and posing as someone else on the other pic so I get to “match” with the same guys sometimes some won’t match with the real me and others with the fake me. The fake me we are going to call her “Gloria”. Gloria is a very attractive long curly hair woman and light skinned colored compared to my Latina skin. “Gloria” has been matching with most men the real me has matched with and this is where the fun part starts when one of the guys doesn’t have time for me “Gloria” Steps in and asks what I want to know. Ive noticed Gloria gets way more attention with half of her face showing then I do with al my full body and face pictures. This is only the beggining of this social experiment to reveal how men think sometimes.

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Hello ladies and gentleman so this week I have a story to tell. While doing my social experiment Ive experienced that men would actually put up with a lot of attitude and stubbornness coming from a good looking woman, it kind of leads them on and they turn it into a challenge rather then just giving up and take any attitude problems those “beautiful” woman have. Now while doing this I was not disrespectful nor rude, I was just simply speaking my mind and wanted them to understand how shallow they were being. At some point one of the men I was having a conversation did admit to being shallow and really not caring he said he would rather be attracted to their partner and out up with their “craziness” then not be attracted to someone who he had a great connection with.

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Intro to my online dating experiment

Hello everyone just going to keep it Bold and simple. I have recently started using online dating apps out of boredom, I created an account with tinder at first and then I found out there was another one called bumble. I submmited my information and i started swiping right real quick, matched with a couple gentleman and started chatting. Some of these experience will come as a shock to some and some will find it hilarious at this point I'm just in it for the laugh. Excited to see whats next? stay tuned.