Mademoiselle Kristen @shadesofstew-blog - Tumblr Blog

Marami na sa atin ang gumagamit sa pangaraw-araw ng wikang Ingles. Mapaloob ng ating bahay, sa loob ng paaralan, o sa paraan ng pakikipag-usap at pakikipag-talastasan. Dahil dito’y unti-unti nating napapabayaan ang ating sariling wika. Isang problemang tila pinagsasawalang-bahala nating mga Pilipino, lalung-lalo na ng mga kabataan, ay ang pakikipag-usap natin sa paraang Conyo. Hindi natin pansin ang unti-unting pagkawala ng diwa ng kahalagahan ng ating pambansang wika at ito’y nakaaapekto sa paglago at pagyaman ng ating wika at kultura.

Ano nga ba ang conyo? Ito ay isang pamamaraan ng komunikasyon kung saan pinaghahalu-halo ang salitang Ingles at salitang Filipino. “Tsong pare, sensya can’t make it to our basketball sesh tonight, nagpapahatid my mom sa Greenbelt eh. Next time na lang. G?” ay isang halimbawa ng pangungusap na conyo. Madalas maihalintulad ito sa mga estudyanteng pumapasok sa La Salle at Ateneo. Ang ganitong paraan ng pakikipag-usap ay tila pinapatay natin ang tunay na kahulugan ng wika at kahalagahan nito.

Ang pagsasalita ng conyo ay isang kahihiyan o pagde-degrade ng isang tao sa isang wika. Ang pagpapalit ng lenggwahe sa gitna ng pangungusap ay isang di-pormal na pagsasalita at nakakasakit sa teynga ng mga taong hindi kapwa conyo. Madalas makarinig ng ganitong klase ng pag-uusap sa mga high-end malls sa Metro Manila. Tulad ng Eastwood, Glorietta, Rockwell, at iba pa. Dito maririnig mo ang mga tao, lalung-lalo na ang mga kabataan, na bihasang-bihasa sa pagco-conyo. Nakapaloob sa unang utos sa Ten Conyo-mandmenst, ito ay ang sampung utos o gabay kung paano nga ba magsalita sa paraang conyo, na bago ang salitang pandiwa kailangan mong dagdagan ang pangungusap mo ng salitang make. Halimbawa, “Do you think we’re abot pa sa movie if we make bili popcorn muna? Because it’s so nakakainip and nakakagutom kaya if wala tayong foods. Like, duh?” Sasabayan pa nila ito ng tila ipit na boses. Hindi ba’t nakababahala? Nagsasalamin ito ng hindi paggalang sa dalawang magkaibang wika.

Nais ipahatid ng adbokasiyang ito na ang paggamit ng conyo, o kilala noon bilang taglish, ay kailangang bawasan. Ang pagiging conyo ng isang tao ay nagpaparating na walang alam sa sariling wika ang isang indibidwal. Dahil imbes na magsalita siya ng tuloy-tuloy na Filipino ay pinapalitan niya ng ingles ang ilang piling salita ng kanyang pangungusap. At minsan ito ay nagiging sanhi ng hindi pagkakaintindihan ng ispiker (speaker) at tagapakinig. At sa mas malalim na dahilan, nawawala ang pagmamahal ng mga tao sa sarili nating wika. Kung magsasalita ang tao ng Filipino, dapat ay dere-deretsong Filipino lamang. Kung Ingles naman, dapat ay tuloy-tuloy na Ingles lamang. Kapag nabawasan ang bilang ng mga taong na gumagamit ng conyo, mas magkakaroon ng pagkakaisa ang mga tao. Mapa-filipino man o mapa-ingles ang lengwaheng ginamit. At dahil tayo’y mga Pilipino dapat lamang na mas bihasa tayo sa pagsasalita gamit ang wika nating Filipino. Dito natin mapapakita ang ating pagiging makabayan.

Ayon sa aming pagsusuri, halos 95% ng tao ay ayaw sa paraan ng pagsasalita ng conyo. Ang madalas na sinasabi nila ay pasosyal lamang ang mga tao kaya nila pinagsasama ang mga salitang Filipino at Ingles sa isang pangungusap. Maaring dahilan din nito ay hindi nila alam ang katumbas ng salitang Ingles sa Filipino at salitang Filipino sa Ingles. Pero dahil tayo ay mga dugi at lahing Pilipino, kailangan nating pagtuunan ng pansin ang ating sariling wika.

Walang masama sa pagsasalita ng Ingles, hindi ito an gang nais naming bigyang-diin at pansin, dahil ang pagsasalita ng Ingles ay dapat ding matutunan ng bawat isa sa atin sapagkat ito ang wikang gagamitin natin sa pakikipag-komunika sa iba’t-ibang bansa sa labas ng Pilipinas. Sa totoo nga’y sumisimbolo ng kaalaman sa isang tao kapag bihasa kang mag-ingles. Ngunit magka-iba ang Ingles sa Conyo. Malayong-malayo ang pangungusap na Ingles sa pangungusap na conyo. Nawawala ang diwa ng estraktura ng tamang pangungusap sa pangungusap na conyo. Ang mga paksang natutunan natin sa asignaturang Filipino sa paaralan sa loob ng maraming taon ay hindi nabibigyang-halaga sapagkat sinasambit natin ito sa paraang hindi wasto at angkop. May iba namang nagsasabi na ang pagsasalita nila ng conyo ay katuwaan lamang o nakiki-uso lamang sila dahil ito ang in ngayon. Ngunit ang paggamit nito ng madalas, ang paggamit nito bilang unang lengwahe ng isang tao o Pilipino, ay hindi tama. Ang Filipino ay Filipino, ang Ingles ay Ingles. Hindi masamang wikain sila pareho, ngunit dapat ay hindi sabay. Hindi naman mahirap intindihin, tama ba? Kung inumpisahan mo ng Filipino, tapusin mo ng Filipino. Kung Ingles naman, tapusin mo ng Ingles. Matuto tayong pahalagahan ang gamit ng isang salita at wika. Dahil ito ay repleksyon o salamin ng kung anong klaseng tao tayo.

shadesofstew-blog

Tama na walang masamang mag-Ingles. Pero kasi yung pagco-conto parang pa-arte lang eh. Hehe 😌

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kristen and alicia grabbing a coffee in la, 27th march 2015.

#coffee #it's been a while lol

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#long time no tumblr #boo

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#kristenstewart was spotted at a army Warehouse in Idaho Falls, Idaho:

Store:

We had Kristen Stewart in the store today! She was awesome!

employe:

"She was way nice. I was a bit nervous for some reason. Haha." "She said she was just driving through." "I saw somewhere that she is headed to Montana to do a motion picture. That’s what she told me too.” "I was picking up clothes and she walked over to me and said sorry she did that and she would clean them up. I said no it’s ok, hey are you Kristen? She said yes, was super friendly. She talked about how this area and idaho was beautiful. I asked if I could take my picture with her cause no one would believe me and she laughed and said of course. I did see a small smile too! Haha."

[ she’s headed to Montana for her next film, i suppose she’s not taking that break after all ]

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5 positive and negative traits the signs usually have

Aries (positive): adventurous, passionate, quick-witted, enthusiastic, attentive

Aries (negative): impulsive, aggressive, tactless, feisty, impatient

Taurus (positive): fun, sensual, devoted, physical, determined

Taurus (negative): self-deprecating, jealous, self-indulgent, dogmatic, stubborn

Gemini (positive): exciting, friendly, approachable, funny, light-hearted

Gemini (negative): manipulative, silver-tongued, flighty, lack of commitment, bends the truth

Cancer (positive): loyal, graceful, creative, understanding, appealing

Cancer (negative): gruff, difficult to read, controlling, irritable, over-protective

Leo (positive): humorous, glamorous, energetic, kind-hearted, memorable

Leo (negative): vain, temperamental, dramatic, dominating, power-hungry

Virgo (positive): good listener, classy, creative, helpful, composed

Virgo (negative): critical, occasionally emotionless, nervous, faithless, demanding

Libra (positive): hilarious, charmer, artistic, caring, active

Libra (negative): lazy, passive aggressive, self-involved, unemotional, superficial

Scorpio (positive): sincere, sexual, witty, keeps it real, thoughtful

Scorpio (negative): paranoid, emotional, overly private, jealous, temperamental

Sagittarius (positive): generous, independent, persuasive, energizer, charming

Sagittarius (negative): blunt, detached, irritable, reckless, temperamental

Capricorn (positive): dependable, clear, purposefully driven, stays in touch, desires true romance

Capricorn (negative): controlling, demanding, cold, unforgiving, manipulative

Aquarius (positive): talkative, goofy, original, open-minded, accepting

Aquarius (negative): paradoxial, detached, stubborn, insecure, aloof

Pisces (positive): endearing, wanting to fix, deep, open, sensitive

Pisces (negative): escapist, lazy, overindulgence, indecisive, impractical

#cancer

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IN BED WITH KRISTEN STEWART - THE YOUNG ICON REFLECTS ON ATTRACTION, RAW IMPULSE, AND THE THIN WEIL BETWEEN ARTIST AND PERSONA "FOR ME, the most attractive thing in a person is drive – genuine impulse expressed for the sake of it, not for perception. I think that’s hot. Whenever I see someone doing something and it looks like they just couldn’t not do it and they just need to et it out. They need to create. It’s a compulsion, and I share that. These people are cool and mysterious, a little dark and a little elegant. That drive comes from somewhere. It comes from desire, it comes from curiosity, and you can’t fake it.

It’s indescribable. It’s just a bum. You can sense it pretty instantly, this inmate curiosity, because not everyone has it. That’s what I’m fucking attracted to. If you meet someone who fuels you, or say you’re in a room and someone walks in and they’ve got that vibration, people want it. The vibrating person is always the most attractive. That attraction is fucking magnetic. You feel yourself wanting something from someone and you’re like, Wow, I don’t even know you but I want something from you. I feel ou can give me something. It’s not a selfish thing, it’s happening with you and it’s mutual. And it’s almost always instantaneous. It’s not hard for me to figure out who I like or who my friends are. I trust my energy meter, but I’m also not afraid to let me people in who might hurt me.

I do not approach my life tactfully at all. I’m incredibly impulsive, and I am definitely an intense weirdo. I love living and I love people. They trip me out and I want to know more about them all the time. That isn’t something I can turn on and off.

I personalize absolutely everything, and most people I like to be around are the same way. You definitely have to be somewhat of a self-involved person to create anything. Most creative people are pretty aware they are a little self-obsessed, but in order to fucking have faith in yourself and make confident work, you have to be a little crazy and believe in yourself enough to just do it.

When I choose a character it’s that same burning impulse, almost a sociopathic urge. This feeling of, Oh my God why do I feel this way? Why do I feel like I could die for this? It has to feel very high-stakes, like, If I don’t commit to this and if I’m not fully there for this person, then I could have the capability of deleting them. Playing a character is a huge responsability to a group of people who are putting their hearts and souls and blood into something. And ultimately it’s doing someone, somewhere justice.

That pressure drives me, and I’m a bit of an extremist. Films sometimes only shoot for 20 days, and I have the stamina to fully allow myself to become absolutely obsessed with something for that amount of time. I can take it. I can really beat myself up and I like feeling completely out of control. I love the idea of it - just feeling subject to something, like this world exists separate from me. I love putting myself through hell and really experiencing that pain. That’s when I feel the most fulfilled, when at the end I feel like I’ve slaughtered myself. And it’s so worth it. It’s like lightning in a bottle. If you don’t catch that one second then it’s gone. The weird thing is when it ends, it’s this very surreal dropped-on-your-ass-in-a-different-world feeling. It’s over, it’s completely over.

But every girl I’ve played is still very much in me. Yes, obviously there is a separation. We are not these people who we portray. At the same time, every role represents a stage of my life that I feel personnally connected to me. Oddly my characters’s memories are my own.”

#sml for this interview