To make a situation about you when it didn't involve you, but now it involves you because you caused it, is insane... I am so exhausted.
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@sleepingwiththewolf
To make a situation about you when it didn't involve you, but now it involves you because you caused it, is insane... I am so exhausted.
Unpopular opinion:
Can we STOP normalizing ghosting friends? I am not talking about "problematic" friends. I'm talking about GOOD friends.
Why do you think it is okay to go ghost on someone for days-weeks-a month at a time on and off like it is normal?
What needs to be normalized is proper conversation and not cause others mental anguish.
A simple "hey, I may be a little quiet for a bit, my heads a bit much right now, I am okay, I just need a little space, nothing you did at all......" etc.. etc..
It is not hard.. but what is hard, dealing with it on the ghosting side wondering what you did wrong, what's going on, etc etc.
It is very immature and mentally abusive. I ended a friendship of over 20+ years from something like this. It should not be tolerated.
I cannot believe the victim complex in a situation YOU created..
Know your worth and do not settle for less.
How do you deal with your toxic in-laws?
Disrespecting me, then expecting me to respect you is crazy.
It's been a year since we spoke.. I wish you knew how much I loved you but I needed to tell you how I felt and how you treated me.. friends should be able to talk to each other, you just didn't want to listen, communicate, or take accountability.. you just blamed me and made me lose myself..
I don't want to be a memory.
I want to make the memories.
#quotes #diabetes #life #makememories #changeyourlife #grow #glow
You're worth it.
You're beautiful.
You're strong.
You're important.
You're smart.
You have purpose.
Repeat it. Believe it. Live it.
#kindwords #selflove #loveyourself #beyou #quotes
To dislike me from things I have done as a teenage child, is wild. To dislike me for seeing the dark and brining him into the light, is wild. To dislike me becasue you know longer have "control" is wild. To dislike me because we have set boundaries together as a family and you don't think it's acceptable, is wild. Just "accept us for who we are" is wild. I can not, will not accept anything other than respect for myself and my family we created. You can name me the bad guy in your story, don't worry, you're the demon in mine.
#toxic #toxicfamily #demons #mentalhealth #makepeace #boundaries #pastbehind #movingon #growth
Don't let people dull your fire. Those who try, don't have one. Let them fade out.
This^ it reeks havoc in my brain so bad I find myself spiraling. I need to take a deep breath and realize everything is perfect.
I have created this blog here so I can write in peace, feel more at peace, find a quiet place in my brain. Does this app help you?
#mentalhealth #peace #findingpeace #brain #quietmybrain
Have you ever had to mourn someone who is still alive?
I am right now. I do not know how to really process it.
We were best friends, inseparable for 20 years. Using our imaginations as little girls to create the most beautiful castles, dungeons and dragons, to going on adventures outside and swapping our houses to sleep over every summer. As a little girl I had dreams of having a baby shower with you, girl time, shopping, weddings. But to be completely honest, it was nothing I ever imagined. I was ghosted on and off for years, only spoken to when you had poor mental health (of course I was always there, I never wanted her alone, I was always there to listen and help). My babies have come, not a single girls trip/day, my wedding has come and you made that hard because your girl friend always "needed you for something". I do not mean this in a selfish way, of course we all grow, we change, we have relationships, etc. I just wish I was put on the same step I put you on. It is what it is. Time passed and you needed my help, just to disrespect me in my own home because my husband and I were telling you about negative behaviors you were having under our roof. You didn't like it, you took offense and we had no choice but to let you go.. friends should be able to talk to each other about our behaviors, actions, and any topics. You said "you're not the friend I thought you were and your husband is horrible". I am unsure what that even meant.. I have helped you all these years, let you live with us for a short time, always there for you.. but I cannot say the same about you.. I love you, I forever will, I want nothing but the best for you and I hope you're doing well.
I have to try to find myself after you told me "you're not who I thought you were", I didn't think I'd be this empty over that one sentence. I'll be okay. Forgive me for my honesty. I love you.
#mourning #friendloss #illbeokay #friends #findingmyself