Same star.

[slightly-different]

When i'm praying is the only time my head down

Young Ma

[thoughtcascades]

at this age if i tell you i do not care please believe me

[perfectquote]

“Someone you haven’t even met yet is wondering what it’d be like to know someone like you.”

— Iain Thomas

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

7 Tips for Overcoming Feelings of Inadequacy

1. Remind yourself that you are not who other people think or say you are.

2. Remind yourself that everybody makes mistakes at times, has areas of weakness, and things they want to change.

3. Remind yourself of ways in which you’ve grown and changed with time. You’re not who you once were - so celebrate how far you’ve come.

4. Also, the ending isn’t written and the future isn’t fixed. You’re free to change your image, and an old identity.

5. Identify the lies you have believed about yourself – and work on changing them so they’re more accurate and true. Also, don’t reinforce those lies by acting like you think they’re true.

6. Remember that your feelings are not the same as facts. Don’t live based on your feelings … as that will keep you trapped.

7. Hang out with those who see, and who appreciate, your worth. And take their words to heart, and let them help to build you up.

[vybewitme]

I don’t even mean to be lowkey, thats just my nature.

[speedl00ver]

Noi- Dorohedoro

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[llovelymoonn]

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[perfectquote]

“You become what you surround yourself with. Energies are contagious. Choose carefully. Your environment will become you.”

— Unknown

[waitingforthesunrise]

Just realized that the reason I love making friends on tumblr is because it’s exactly how you make friends on the playground as a six year old. No, I don’t know their name but they love mermaids too and built this awesome sand castle. No, I don’t know their age but their imaginary cheetah is friends with mine. You like this show? You like this character?? You can sing the theme song really loud??? Here is a flower crown. Here is a juice box. You can share my time and I might never see you again but part of you stays in my soul forever. In my mind we’re still on the swing set and the sky is blue and nothing will ever be wrong again.

[brucebocchi]

[spacelazarwolf]

[efteris]

I never considered labels to be like a strict ID of my sexuality or my gender identity.

I used labels to find people and experiences that were similar to mine. I still do.

I don't wanna get in a box, I don't care about the box. The point was to get out of the box I was put in by others.

That's why I like queer. For me it stands for ''out of the box'' and that's all I need.

[perfectquote]

“We’re all more than the person we show to everyone else. At least I hope so. Because I feel like there’s more to me than that. I just haven’t had the chance yet to show it.”

— Jessi Kirby, Golden

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

“Please don’t expect me to always be good and kind and loving. There are times when I will be cold and thoughtless and hard to understand.”

— Sylvia Plath

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

How to be More Thick skinned

1. Don’t take criticism personally. Instead, realize that criticism says more about them than it does about you.

2. Distinguish between facts and subjectivity. Most criticisms are just personal opinions. They are not objective and they don’t reflect the truth.

3. Look at the beliefs you hold about yourself. Do you feel defensive and under attacked because you don’t believe in yourself?

4. Learn what you can from any comments that are made – and discard the rest as being useless information.

5. Decide not to ruminate on barbs or criticisms - as that will reinforce the message in your brain.

6. Choose to spend more time with people who’re affirming – and minimise the time you spend with those who put you down.

7. Look for a role model who can handle criticism – and try to copy them, so you become more thick skinned, too.

[slightly-different]

It's not easy trying to do that when your parents do it to before others. I feel wrong, a failure and not good enough but I have achieved everything they wanted.

[thoughtkick]

“How strange it is. We have these deep terrible lingering fears about ourselves and the people we love. Yet we walk around, talk to people, eat and drink. We manage to function. The feelings are deep and real. Shouldn’t they paralyze us? How is it we can survive them, at least for a little while? We drive a car, we teach a class. How is it no one sees how deeply afraid we were, last night, this morning? Is it something we all hide from each other, by mutual consent? Or do we share the same secret without knowing it? Wear the same disguise?”

— Don DeLillo

[slightly-different]

Was surprised to find that my mates get anxious too

[remanence-of-love]

[thoughtkick]

“Until we have seen someone’s darkness, we don’t really know who they are. Until we have forgiven someone’s darkness, we don’t really know what love is.”

— Marianne Williamson