my experience with ollie / iuriis
So the only reason I came back on here is so I can put in my two cents. After speaking to someone who finally doesn’t call me a liar, I have finally felt encouraged to step out about this and give people yet another warning. There is countless of callout posts out there regarding this guy and all of them are usually in the same fashion, but this might be going a little different. Specifically, because I have known him in real life and providing evidence of everything I claim now will be extremely difficult. Because it is easy to take a screenshot or to fake some conversation via text. But this is all in real life.
Now because I am still not over some things he did, I really can not afford to go into detail with my descriptions of certain things, lest it cause me discomfort.
When I met Ollie, I honestly didn’t think there was someone nicer than him and I sometimes feel guilt even now for what’s happened. Basically, I was 14 when I met him, and thus I was very naive and impressionable, as most children my age are. I didn’t go to the same school as him but we lived in the same country and town and so we saw each other. No one really ever told me oh stay away from him, he’s bad news, because so many people like him even today and not just in real life but online. But anyways, I became very close friends with him and he treated me the way I wanted to be treated.
Fast forward a month later we are dating. And I didn’t think it could get better than this until another month later when he started to ignore me every day. When I tried to talk to him he would get angry or just look annoyed, and when I try to make things better it gets worse. He also thought it was pretty disrespectful that I would talk to some people he didn’t like, so to make an excuse, I guess he tried to seem like he would start communicating with me normally if I threw my friends out of my life. Which stupid young me did do and it only got better a teeny tiny bit. I really regretted making that choice, but when you love someone so blindly there’s little you can do. Some of these people don’t talk to me anymore, some do and are a good support to me. But this is literally not the worst of it.
As this progressed, he honestly didn’t get any better, he went back to ignoring me and I went back to being depressed. No doubt, of course, my depression annoyed him. What happened next was that he encouraged me to start cutting, saying it would help me, and if any of you wonder why he and his fans have self harm images that they have sent to people, there is your answer. And you know, he genuinely didn’t care about it. All he cared about was what leads me to my next point.
Does it ever cross your people’s minds why he is so good at and why he role plays so much abuse and rape? No? Well hey sit down. What should be known is that to this day I am being told it was dub-con and some people claim it to be non-con and in my mind I still have a part of me that feels like it is my fault. Because I was dumb enough to be tricked into God knows how many things. If he has ever bragged to you about having sex, this is exactly why. Because he doesn’t care what you think or want, if he wants to have sex with you he will. I said no to him once and he told me I was boring, then went on to tell me other hurtful things just to get under my skin and fool me into consenting. And yeah you’re thinking, well… He’s only 17, how can he do that? I think you underestimate how many people are younger and do the same.
This man has a girlfriend. Two? And I am left here stressing whether the same will happen to her as it did to me. I can not go on this fucking website and have a normal life again without seeing him on my dashboard, because so many people are dense enough to be given evidence and still think: yes, I want to be friends with him.
Please, for the love of God, don’t let yourself get hurt.
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