Uneducated Stupi-DID (Stupidity)

A blog dedicated to sharing stories about people being ignorant about DID || We don't really talk about polymind or sysplex here just CDD shit || I can come off as an ass sometimes, better to ask and clarify than assume it's on purpose

[stupi-did]

Yello! Welcome to Stupi-DID

(Uneducated Stupidity)

Here you can submit asks talking about people being stupid in the sense of being uneducated and/or misinformed on DID.

This can include:

☆ Believing Misinformation Unwaveringly

☆ Fakeclaiming Actual Symptoms

☆ Not Believing Genuine Factual Info (ex. DSM)

☆ Obvious Faking (We Prefer You Not Send This Unless It Is Proven They Were Faking! Careful When Assuming!) [In Depth Explanation]

☆ Discord Servers Being Ridiculous About System Rules (This Is Vague To Allow Any Fucked Up Server Rules Against Systems)

☆ And More! If It Involves DID And Is Stupid In Terms Of Uneducated Nonsense, SLAP IT HERE

Feel free to attach media or just tell a story, we don't care lol

We Are Anti Non-Traumagenic, like CRITICALLY, HOWEVER, the internet will internet so as long as you're like- on anon we don't really care... Shit we barely look at likes and reblogs if you want to do that just keep pro/endo stuff out for now

Mascot: Their name is Scragle

Notice:

This does not mean anti non-traumagenic asks can't be sent. I don't want to hear shit from pro/non-traumagenics. We don't care if you're here, but if you shit on our views, then that's your choice to harass us. We just ask that if you would like to view this blog for the funny situations, that you limit interaction, but don't care if you like/reblog relatable shit. Sorry, we will not prevent posts based on our views, but we are not shunning you here, entirely, unless you give us reason. This is as close as we will get to being "endo safe" and I think it's rather fair.

Thanks for reading, and have fun submitting asks 😔

[stupi-did]

I struggle so much to find a professional who treats my alters (we are a pdid system) like seperate individuals. Every professional I meet is like "Those are sides of you" or "Internal family" or smth. Just because I don't have much amnesia doesn't mean those are all "sides of me". I know so much about my alters, my simplyplural is filling everyday. And I feel and act so different (or see myself acting, when it's a possessive switch) that it's just blatantly false to call my alters "different modi" or something. It feels so disrespectful!? As if, when at a party, someone introduced you as "Steve's girlfriend". I'm not "Anons angry modus". I have a name! And age, hobbies and pronouns, if you even care :(

I get the sentiment and rhat sucks royally because people are idiots

but possessive switches as a PDID system has me lost (as a PDID sys) maybe I'm mistaking smth

[wearequantum]

[stupi-did]

early in discovery we started to open up to our then-therapist about our system and she flat out told us "you're not traumatized enough to have DID"

.......we had (to my knowledge) never had a conversation about our trauma, and if we had, that conversation was a very shallow explanation of things. but also, like?? what the fuck do you mean "not traumatized enough"????

I wouldn't been like "have I fucking told you anything about my trauma? What's "enough" trauma to you? As far as I'm aware I just needed to think I was about to DIE as a FUCKIJG CHILD"

[pocket-trinkets]

Every now and then I'm tempted to make a "syscourse" blog that is entirely dedicated to reducing hostility in the system community, especially the hostility that's directed towards pro endos (saying this as someone who is anti endogenic). I think it's important to have an understanding of those who have opposing beliefs to your own without it being centered solely on frustration, because that frustration and anger can so easily turn into hatred.

[stupi-did]

As a probably hostile blog

Go for it

[stupi-did]

My fucking god can we stop with the 9/11 jokes over system tracking apps. I know we are all devastated by the loss of accessibility aids in such a short time, but I swear people need to actually read about what actually happened on 9/11 if you are going to make that comparison. Though, frankly I don't think they'd care. 9/11 jokes are so normalized. This comparison of losing system tracker apps to a literal tragedy is fucking disgusting. Love how desensitized the internet is (sarcasm, obviously) and I can't even fully physically feel anything about it; I just have the logical understanding that you don't joke about something that resulted in mass deaths. People died, nearly 3,000 collectively over the event, if I recall correctly, and as far as I can tell, nobody died over losing system tracker apps.

Grow up and find another resource to use or wait for another app you like. YOU WILL BE OKAY.

AND STOP FUCKING HARASSING DEVELOPERS OH MY GOD STOP.

YOU WANT ACCESSIBILITY AIDS?

BE NICE TO PEOPLE WHO ARE PROBABLY IN THE SAME DAMN SITUATION AS YOU BUT ARE TAKING THE TIME AND MAKING THE EFFORT TO GIVE YOUR UNGREATFUL ASS SOMETHING TO HELP YOU LIVE

I shouldn't have to say this shit

[kagurabells-coinings]

In light of recent events (announcement of SP discontinuation) we have been scrambling for solutions. We are a system of 1000+ so neither Octocon or Ampersand can handle our system purely on headcount alone, and other projects like Concordia do not seem serious and are only in very infancy and we cannot gamble on them working before SP shuts down entirely. We also happen to have a lovely girlfriend, who is also a system. She is a much smaller system than us and does not suffer nearly as much from the news as we do, but she saw our struggle and had desire to help us. She is a software engineer by trade and she made an alternative app for us. But we are not the only system who struggles, the whole community is in this struggle together. This is why both of us decided to share this app and to give back to the community: Ourcana is a offline-first website and app (currently cannot download from appstores but APKs exist). It being offline means that Ourcana does not actually have a server to store the data on. When an user imports information, they import information into the browser cache instead of server and can edit information from there, which makes Ourcana completely local.

There are several options when it comes to making a system on Ourcana: Making a system from scratch, using PK token, using PK export, using SP token (before the shutdown), using SP export. Keep in mind that while using SP token the switch and pfp information might not display, and it's determined to be an issue with Simply Plural itself. Using SP export should at least fix switch logs. An user can also use both PK and SP tokens at the same time (with special settings on where PK should take priority). An user can also create the app-specific export as a backup and also can clear all data from browser cache, making them to provide tokens/exports on reload again. Current functionality: Switches - An user can set (override previous switch) or add a fronter by long press. Switches have two categories: lone front and co-fronts (2+ alters). These switches can be backdated and have a visualiser that somewhat resembles the way how SP did it (FLOW tab). The switches can be given a custom status.

Tags (TAGS tab) - Something between PK groups and SP groups. If importing from Simply Plural, the groups will import as tags. On both PK and SP import, tags for every member will also be created. Tags can be created on their own, (mass-)deleted and nested.

Tags can be added to a member from their profile:

Editing alter information: Currently there is functionality to create a new profile (+ NEW), but not to delete an existing one. Information that can be edited:

Markdown capabilities are matched with Simply Plural, which means that you can embed images and tables into descriptions, but you cannot use discord's "-#" markdown.

In-built documentation capabilities: Journaling is supported and can be accessed through LORE tab. One can use this feature to document important information, some alter behaviours or personal memories or as a way to document headspace landmarks.

One can also sync front and description edits to pluralkit LIVE if using PK token after enabling a setting (gear icon)

[stupi-did]

in light of octocon’s latest announcement, we’ve seen some bullshit along the lines of "there’s an anti-endo secret society taking over pro-endo system resources and shutting them all down!1!"

the disabled people… are taking our resources… back from the ableists… to destroy them? are we fr?

make it make sense

Literally would be hurting ourselves by doing that wtf

[stupi-did]

Oh great a blog I thought redeemed itself is saying some weird shit and probably thinks it's okay because it isn't 100% what I called them out for

Unfollowed shrug

I don't want to watch you lie to me

Let's hope I'm not back here making yet another post about it

[stupi-did]

I just saw a blog saying normalize threatening

Was that the whole post? No

Do you need context?

No.

Do not threaten people

I do not fucking care

DO NOT THREATEN PEOPLE

IT SOLVES NOTHING

Do not "get even"

Do not "give them what they deserve"

Be. Better. Than. Them.

Leave my fucking blog if you believe this.

Do. Better.

[antiendoette]

i feel like ragebaiting neck beards should I post myself on r/syscringe

[stupi-did]

Absolutely not

It just adds to the problem of nobody on r/systemscringe taking systems seriously

[stupi-did]

Is it stupi-did that my psychiatrist heard that i have memory blackouts most of the time (mainly having little fragments of memories + if I'm lucky the whole current day) and . various other cdd symptoms. just to be told "oh that's just anxiety" . because i did react like ??????? Because IN WHAT WORLD. in what world does "just anxiety" cause amnesia like that??

What the fuck?????

Fucking fired immediately find a new therapist naaaaah

[dic--e]

people would benefit from knowing the word "code-switching" because a lot of endos say they feel like different people in the sense like "oh when i'm with person A i act like this but with perosn B i act like this" that is a normal human experience, i fear.

[pocket-trinkets]

I genuinely love seeing so much of the system community (the anti endo community especially) coming together to create alternative apps after the discontinuation announcement from Simply Plural. It's so wonderful to see everyone creating their own projects to help the community. I've already seen four different apps in development and honestly—the more the merrier. Simply Plural announcing it is essentially going to be lost is opening the CDD community up to a whole new era of accessibility efforts, and I think that's beautiful.

I'm compiling a list here for easy access. So far, we've seen:

@asterism-app

@innersightcddapp

@pocket-plurality

@systemality-app

And I genuinely cannot wait to see them progress, and figure out which one works best for us later down the line. Thank you to everyone working on these projects! :D

[stupi-did]

Threat warning and suicide talk ? <- just incase its nothing serious

Stupi-did is being fakeclaimed by someone who apparently “had been diagnosed with OSDD 1b since 2017,” because we have “CDD diagnosed” in our bio instead of saying which one we have so we must be implying we have all of them

Not to mention them not knowing what CDD meant and saying that people with CDDS must be miserable all the time because they’ve tried to kill themselves so that means everyone with CDDS is miserable and can never recover

Plus they continuously told us to kill ourselves because we are “faking” and wouldnt let us get a word in even though they came up to us asking about our bio

Okay what the fuck

The BIGGEST issue with sys spaces is oversharing

Yes! It is!

It isnt just endos (shocker I know) but its definitely endo heavy in oversharing and normalizing oversharing of your system type and info

It was not their fucking business

Its nobody's business

Sorry that happened

[stupi-did]

Stupi-did is telling another system about missing a sourcemate and they tell me to just "split them" ... Yes, as if that's something I can control 🙄 I'll just go put myself in a stressful state and hope that guy introjects and nothing goes wrong. /Sarc

What.

Sobs

The idea that you can try to influence a split is like technically a thing? but not the way endos think at all...

Trying to influence a split could be like exposing yourself to comfort media while in a real shitty mental state and gambling if your brain latches on

But that's about it honestly

You have to account for things like your brains potentially inconsistent and unreliable sense of what is a good reason to split and a good person to split

Like you have to take the chance your brain

Introjecting anyone at all in the first place and instead splitting a brainmade

Introjects the character you were missing and not a different one

The introjecting is entirely/mostly 1 to 1 and not different

Your brain entirely ignores the exposed media and goes off old media you found comfort in because maybe trying to force an introject made that media you are using too stressful to your brain to use

And oh yeah

INTROJECTS AREN'T THEIR SOURCE

I'd like to see how tf endos try to influence splits bc I'll tell you now its not needed tbh nor easy if you actually attempted to

Your brain will do what it needs to do

I fear a lot of systems are scared to admit times they accidentally influenced a split

BECAUSE YOU CAN TECHNICALLY

It's just really iffy

It depends on your media exposure!!!! Your introjects will depend on whay media you see! That is the extent of controlling your introjects

[stupi-did]

Thoughts on sys tracking apps in the future having social features

I want social features entirely (friending + privacy buckets, proxy chat, ect)

Semi social (just friending + privacy buckets)

Low social (friending only shows front and basic alter info)

On&off (ability to private yourself entirely from friending ect optionally)

I want no social features, period.

Voting ended onMar 19