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Introduction

This blog is to share things on my bucket list of sorts, as well as share fond memories of past escapades. I’ve struggled with how to do this without sounding pathetic or seem like I’m seeking sympathy. This is definitely not the purpose. I was diagnosed with a rare progressive disease, basically a form of muscular dystrophy.  In the form I have, it doesn’t present any symptoms until adulthood.  In my case at age 39 yo. To clarify, this bucket list is things I want to do before this disease affects me physically.  I do have a real bucket list of things before I die, but I will have many more years of life to accomplish those, just may not be in the best physical condition.  However, it will begin weakening my muscles and I have no idea how soon.  It could be a couple of months, or a year. I hate to generalize all guys, but I accept that once the disease becomes apparent, it’s going to be really hard to attract guys to play.  (I’m definitely holding out hope of meeting my Mr. Right, but as long as I’m single, I want to enjoy life) So in the time I have before that, I want to do some of these things and finally experiment and explore the inner kink I’ve always ignored.   I’m a quiet/shy guy at first and kinda reserved, so it’s difficult for me to go out and meet guys.  Not to mention I’m in the Midwest US so not many outlets besides a bar or two.  I’m average build, masculine, and good looking. So I would welcome any advice or suggestions on how to actually accomplish any of these.  I’m completely open to travel in the US (hopefully, Europe in 2017).

[doitwhileican]

My Sex Bucket List

Not necessarily in any order

1. fucked in a sling - simple enough but never had the chance and not sure where to go that has a sling (and decent guys)

2. fucked by guy with a piercing (PA) - actually did this once back in my college days, but dying to do it again

3. be the middle of a fuck sandwich - did this once in college years and would love to do it again a time or two or more

4. bottom for 3 or more masculine top-only guys (mini gang bang (?)) - always been a fantasy as someone on the submissive side in sex, to have a few guys take turns fucking me for their pleasure and to the point they cum

5. be in an orgy where tops outnumber the bottoms (my own experience, it’s really difficult to find guys that top)

6. REALLY want to try taking a double penetration, preferably a couple of hot guys, but even one open-minded guy and dildo would be fun

7. never thought I would, but recently found myself wanting to experiment with fisting (as bottom). I just don’t know how to find a trusting, experienced top.

8. along with #7 would be to go to a fisting party

9. suck off several guys in a row through a gloryhole - preferably in an adult bookstore arcade in a college town (just like in my college days)

10. be able to suck cock through one gloryhole and get fucked through another on the opposite wall at the same time

11.I definitely have a gloryhole fetish, but there’s none to be found anywhere near where I live. Biggest turn-on to me is fucking through a gloryhole given the tops game or initiates it.  (Hate when guys are sucking you and then next thing you know your dick is in their ass. Guys should have a choice if they want to fuck you and not just do it before they can react)

12. get fucked by a true straight guy

13. fucked by and/or flip flop with a young jock type guys (<24yo)

may have another one or two to add later

Any help or advice in accomplishing any of these is appreciated.  I would love to find a group that gets together for NSA, no guilt, discrete sex that would welcome a newbie.  More than happy to apply or provide pics if that’s what’s required.  With the right guys and at the right place, I could knock off several of these items in one setting. 

Absolutely not into pain,  blood, piss, scat. Not really into SM or leather, but starting to find leather to be a turn-on. Love SM play space and toys, just not sure I can get into SM role, but hell, I’m willing to try.

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DP vs. Fist

I’ve always bee curious, and I realize sizes would be a major factor, but for the bottom, how much more does it take to get fisted versus taking two average thick cocks in a dp?  I kind of played with measurements of my dick time two and then widest part of my hand if I was going to trying fisting someone and it didn’t appear to be much difference.  It seems like there’s a stigma associated to fisting, yet double penetration seems to be the new thing on many of the porn sites with younger, college aged guys (CF in particular).  I’ve never done either, but want to try both.  With the exception that I once was really close to self fist and did once get two dildos in for just a second. But to those experienced, would it really take one of those college guys that just had two above average cocks in his ass much more effort to have a hand worked into his hole?

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Interesting question .....

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