𝐒𝐄𝐗, 𝐆𝐄𝐍𝐃𝐄𝐑 & 𝐋𝐎𝐕𝐄 𝐇𝐄𝐀𝐃𝐂𝐀𝐍𝐎𝐍𝐒
bold what does apply to your muse , italicize what applies sometimes , strike through what never applies .
ㅤ♡ㅤSEXUAL IDENTITY: queer / gay / lesbian / bisexual (*allegedly) / pansexual / omnisexual / asexual / androsexual / demisexual / fluid / non-labelled / graysexual / gynesexual / homosexual / monosexual / polysexual / heterosexual
♡ㅤROMANTIC IDENTITY: queer / gay / lesbian / biromantic (*we aren't accepting that yet) / panromantic / omniromantic / aromantic / androromantic / demiromantic / fluid / non-labelled / grayromantic / gyneromantic / homoromantic / monoromantic / polyromantic / heteroromantic
♡ㅤGENDER IDENTITY: cisgender / intersex / gender-nonconforming / trans masc / trans fem / trans man / trans woman / nonbinary / androgynous / gender-fluid / genderqueer / agender / demi-girl / demi-boy / bigender / pangender / omnigender / two-spirit.
♡ㅤ BODY & APPEARANCE: under 5" height / 5"-5'4" height / 5'5"-5'8" height / 5'9"-5'11" height / 6"-6'4" height / 6'5"+ height / small build / medium build / athletic build / muscular build / curvy build / wears boxers / wears briefs / wears lingerie / goes commando / shaves / waxes / manscapes / doesn’t shave or wax / cupsize A-B / cupsize C-D / cupsize DD/F-DDD/G / cupsize H+ / length 1’-3’ / length 4’-5’ / length 6’-8’ / length 9’-11’ ( 10’ ) / length 12’+ / thin girth / average girth / thick girth
♡ㅤPHYSICAL PREFERENCES IN PARTNERS: no preference / mild preferences / strict preferences / under 5" height / 5"-5'4" height / 5'5"-5'8" height / 5'9"-5'11" height / 6"-6'4" height / 6'5"+ height / small build / medium build / athletic build / muscular build / curvy build / wears boxers / wears briefs / wears lingerie / goes commando / shaves / waxes / manscapes / doesn’t shave or wax / cupsize A-B / cupsize C-D / cupsize DD/F-DDD/G / cupsize H+ / length 1’-3’ / length 4’-5’ / length 6’-8’ / length 9’-11’ / length 12’+ / thin girth / average girth / thick girth
♡ㅤDATING PREFERENCES: monogamous / ethically nonmonogamous / monogamish / relationship anarchy / open relationships / polyamorous / doesn’t date / dates casually / dates with intent to form relationships
♡ㅤSEXUAL INCLINATIONS: sex favourable / sex adverse / sex indifferent / hypersexual / sex-repulsed / bottom / top / versatile / vers bottom / vers top / service top / power bottom / stone top / pillow princess / submissive / dominant / switch / brat / baby girl or baby boy / soft dom / pleasure dom / caregiver / affectionate or emotionally intimate during the act / emotionally detached during the act / playful / serious / likes to touch their partner during the act / limited touching outside of the act itself / spits / swallows / uses protection / doesn’t use protection / messy / prefers cleanliness / prefers to finish on the body / prefers to finish inside partner / prefers partner to finish inside them
♡ㅤATTACHMENT STYLE: secure / anxious-preoccupied / dismissive-avoidant / fearful-avoidant / disorganized
♡ㅤLOVE LANGUAGES / STYLES: words of affirmation / quality time / acts of service (giving) / receiving gifts / physical touch / activity / appreciation / emotional / financial / intellectual / physical / practical
♡ㅤSOUNDS: is silent or makes little to no sounds / is very quiet / is very loud / grows in volume over time / bites hand / bites partner / bites pillow to muffle themselves / calls out partner’s name / curses / growls / happy cries / fakes or exaggerates / goes nonverbal / prefers a quiet partner / prefers a loud partner / prefers a responsive partner / is turned on by dirty talk / is turned off by dirty talk
♡ PHYSICAL ACTS OF INTIMACY: holding hands / kissing / cuddling / massages / bathing together / washing partner’s hair / skin on skin contact / forehead kisses / playing under the table (e.g. hand on thigh, footsy etc) / playing with partner’s hair / playful tickling / seeking them out in bed to hold / eye contact / reading and/or singing to your partner / being read to / napping together / couch cuddles while doing separate activities (head in lap etc)
♡ㅤKINKS & TURN ONS: having hands pinned / pinning partner’s hands / having hair pulled / pulling partner’s hair / being watched / watching their partner / voyeurism / receiving oral sex / giving oral sex / receiving penetration / giving penetration / praise kink / biting / being bitten / marking up your partner / being marked up / impact play / edge play / teasing / being teased / overstimulation / using toys on partner / having toys used on them / choking / being choked / being restrained / restraining their partner / shibari / breeding kink / piss kink / worshipping their partner / being worshipped / humiliating / being humiliated / degrading / being degraded / pegging / being pegged / frotting / face sitting / dom/sub dynamics / DDLG dynamics / aftercare / anal / bdsm / light bondage / outdoor sex / public sex / risky sex / sensory deprivation / roleplay / gentle sex / rough sex / threesomes / wax play / sensory play (eg. pinwheels etc) / knife play / blood play / caging / cbt / sounding / collars / exhibitionism / rimming / pet play / clothed or partially clothed / dressing up for partner / partner dressing up for them / size difference / daddy kink / mommy kink /