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Hey, long time no see on this blog :)

I know I haven't really posted much for a while, I sort of fell off the habit of updating this quite a bit, so there's been quite a lull in activity. But I still love this blog / the idea of it, and my fos :)

I've actually been doing a lot of therapy work and real tangible healing for myself and my issues, trauma etc. So that's been really good. Maybe in a way that's why I haven't gone back to this blog as much, as I feel like it doesn't serve me as much as it once did. Like I don't need it to support me anymore! Which I think is...really good. That's a good sign anyway.

I have this issue where I just don't really know what to write for posts for this blog. My goal has always been to make posts that don't feel "basic" and stuff everyone has probably already imagined with their f/os before, and I struggle to come up with ideas a lot of the time. The most I would probably do is just...poetry or writing about my relationship with my own f/os, which to be honest I'm not sure how much people would care about. So sorry there's not much to see in way of recent original posts lol

I still do wanna continue to update this blog and will still reblog stuff I find for it, but I guess otherwise I am unsure where to take it! I am also not as active in the selfship community as I once was. I would love to use this blog in some kinda way to bring people more healing or bring people together, though I'm unsure how I would do that. Requires some thought I suppose.

I hope you are all doing well :) I love you and care for you, stay safe and remember that your f/o is there. I hope that you continue to find healing, and I will still be here to hopefully aid in that journey 💙

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That F/O that makes touch exciting, giggly and safe instead of scary. That one that introduces you to new forms of affection, or old things you thought you could never feel comfortable with. Now you crave those things, and love those things, with them 💙

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Finding a new F/O who makes you feel completely comfortable is such a blessing. F/Os who there is no question would be kind, understanding, supportive, to a fault. Feeling safe with them, feeling like romance and closeness could be easy. One who makes physical touch not scary. The tenderness and intimacy that just opens up to you with it. It's a whole different kind of comfort. Therapy is expensive but this characters love is free.

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(!) Message from your F/O:

"I know it hurts. I know. I'm here.

It's all gonna be okay."

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(!) Message from your F/O:

"You haven't slept, have you? No, come on, I know that face. You need your rest, you know. What's kept you up so late? Ah.....I see. No wonder. I'm sorry, it can't be easy. Do you want me to- yes, of course. I'm right here. You're safe with me, I promise. I won't go anywhere until you're feeling better.

Now, let's try to get some sleep."

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Laying in your F/Os lap, with your head against their chest, or maybe rested on their knees. Their fingers brushing gently and repeatedly through your hair, in calming motions, easing you to sleep. "Hush now then. It's alright, sweet thing, I know..."