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"trans men can't use tranny, that's a slur for trans women!" "trans men can't use t4t because it was originally meant for trans lesbians!" you sound like a chronically online 14 year old 'queer activist' tiktoker who thinks that bigotry always stays on target and that queerness can be neatly put into boxes

radfems / terfs get blocked on sight. i'm not going to argue with you or try to explain things you don't care to try to understand.

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very interesting how i reblog a post about transmisogyny written by a transfem / trans woman and immediately after i reblog it, i'm blocked by op.

i thought you wanted other gender diverse people to listen to you about transmisogyny and uplift your voices...?

or is this not about that? is this about the fact that i'm a transmasc that talks about the oppression and transphobia that gender diverse people that aren't transfems and trans women? does it bother you that other people experience very similar oppression to you? does it bother you that people talk about that? does it bother you that you're not at the top of the podium in the oppression olympics, because we aren't playing them? does it bother you to be reminded of that? is that what it is?

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you cannot be meaningfully pro-trans if you are anti-men and anti-masculinity.

yes, even if you're trans yourself.

transness often has ties to masculinity on top of femininity. whether it's because someone is a trans man or transmasc, or if they used to be a boy or a man, or if they were forced to be a boy/man.

trans women and transfems who can't, or don't want to, transition or pass exist. nonbinary people aren't strictly androgynous or Woman Lite(TM). trans men and transmascs who are virtually indistinguishable from cis men are still trans and belong in trans spaces.

masculinity is part of transness, no matter if it's beneficial or detrimental to an individual.

by being anti-men and anti-masculinity, you are being unsafe for your non-cis siblings.

you cannot be meaningfully pro-trans if you are anti-men and anti-masculinity.

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transgynephobia 🤝 transandrophobia

terms that are accused of "copying" discussions of bigotry based in transness/gender nonconformity & that people who use them are accused of "inserting themselves into conversations that don't involve them"

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if you see a post of trans men talking about things they have been told and feel the need to go "this is a terf psyop because i don't know any trans woman who would say these things" despite trans women not being mentioned anywhere in the post, you are malgendering trans women! you are assuming that trans women are the sole perpetrators of anti-transmasculinity! you are being transmisogynistic! stop that!

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i think that if you think trans men are uniquely capable of perpetuating transmisogyny or 'regular' misogyny, you might just hate trans men and/or fell for the anti-transmasculine rhetoric of trfs 🤷