Rumze2 and I picked up our suits yesterday on the way back from New Glasgow. We had them altered to fit because we expect to be wearing them soon.
My sister in law is in the last stages of palliative care. As Ive mentioned sometime before, she was diagnosed with bladder cancer and then on removal of that, they found a cancer of unknown primary origin. They spent 2 years looking for it and then last winter, the surgeons went in to try to remove the lymph nodes they knew were cancerous. They never did because on going in, the cancer was found to present as a thin film pretty much all around the abdomen.
Since then, my sister in law has been on palliative care and her condition has been deteriorating. Everything we do now is the last time. Its really heartbreaking for everyone. Its even harder for my father in law because my mother in law has alzheimers and he cant talk to her about it. We have told her and kept her abreast of all the developments and she takes it hard and cries but she forgets quickly which is a blessing in disguise for her.
So rumze2 and I make the trip up to new Glasgow every time we can to help him cope with it and also to spend as much time with my sister in law as we can when she wants company as well. And sometimes he goes up alone because my father in law sometimes only opens up when he is there alone in a way he cant open up to his other children.
The reason Im saying this is that if I seem scatterbrained or forget stuff is because I have stuff on my mind and so folks have some context. I tend to be very private for the most part aside from silly stories and what not.
