Honey’s Date Night Rules of Engagement Prepare. It IS a Bonafide, REAL date. The night before clean up the dining room and set the table. Clean your relaxation space, add a candle, an ice bucket if you are having chilled wine. Make a playlist to cook to, dine to, and canoodle to. Setting the stage puts you in the mindset. Table all Domestic & Work talking points. This is a DATE. Children’s issues, the jerk at work, traffic, bills, in-laws, politics off the table. From an hour before the date and during. Tonight, is Date Night. A domestic truce for the sake of reconnection, to build deeper intimacy and tenderness. This also applies if this is a House Mates night or platonic evening. Keep it focused on each other. Talk about Art, fantasy vacations, talk about the food, gardening, say something sweet to each other, compliment or mention a kindness they blessed you with, flirt with each other. Relax. I know this seems odd for me to make it a rule, but trust me and be obedient. I am serious about you enjoying this night. This is FUN. This night is designed to delight you AND restore you. This world of ours is at a really intense place. You NEED tonight. Date Night is recess. No stress, Boo just one of your favorite humans, you are swimming in a uniquely curated bubble, and the food is delicious. Take it all in. Chill, laugh, let your guard down. Just Vibe. It’s all good. 4.Finish Strong. Now that we are at the end of a beautiful moment, close hard. It is time for a little box of truffles. A gorgeous. A little poem. A flower. A coffee gift card. A little drawing. Something you cut out of the newspaper. A handkerchief. A token of your affection or esteem that they can remember you by. 📸:: Small World Documentaries #honeychildscreole #abchobart #datenight #anightin #tamarvalleytruffles #sparklingwine #effortissexy #adultrecess #detailsmatter https://www.instagram.com/p/ChrtNvZrfOa/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=
