Aro-spec allos, what is your orientation? (minors dni)
Lesbian
Gay
Bi/Pan/Omni
Hetero
other label(s)
unlabeled
questioning

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Aro-spec allos, what is your orientation? (minors dni)
Lesbian
Gay
Bi/Pan/Omni
Hetero
other label(s)
unlabeled
questioning
Aros and aces, are you interested in romantic/sexual relations? * **
asexual and interested in sexually relations
asexual and not interested in sexual relations
asexual and complicated/varies often
aromantic and interested in romantic relations
aromantic and not interested in romantic relations
aromantic and complicated/varies often
aroace/acearo and interest in sexual and romantic relations
aroace/acearo and interest in sexual but not romantic relations
aroace/acearo and interest in romantic but not sexual relations
aroace/acearo and not interest in sexual or romantic relations
aroace/acearo and complicated/varies often
* Aromantic includes arospec, asexual includes acespec, and aroace/acearo includes aroacespec/acearospec and other unit terms that may be used instead of aroace/acearo (ex: ay, spadillic, ...)
** Romantic/Sexual relations include literally any relationship that has romantic/sexual aspects (ex: hookups, long term/serious romantic/sexual relationships, flings, some QPRs, ...)
Love song aro btw. Not actually alloplatonic, just like. Easier to say friends? What would they be called if im aplatonic?
acquaintances, folks/people you know, or things more specific - ie, in your submission, you could maybe say "folks you love" (if that feels accurate) or others.
we're just trying to tag uses of aro culture with friendship with alloplatonic or friending due to the many apl aro folks who've expressed feeling left out of the aro community due to friendship as a focus. the goal is more to create a filterable tag for folks. we could potentially try "friend aro culture" if that is more comfortable?
possibly:
aplatonic(-spec) aro(-spec) folks only: which tag would you prefer when friends are mentioned, but no specific ID is mentioned? (ie, "aro culture is loving your friends")
keep "friending aro culture"
keep "alloplatonic aro culture"
keep both
change: friend aro culture
change: another tag, please reply with it in the comments
don't tag this
something else? (reply in comments or tags)
button for non apl aro folks if needed
fellow aro-specs, pick an aro-spec experience
I dated and hated
never dated, and never wanted to
why the fuck is movie romance so weird??? It just looks like lust??
I need to date bc that's what people do!! right?? :')
crush pros and cons list
"I want to date i think!" (I actually want to be really good friends)
always giving people dating advice because you're "the sensible one" (break up)
Thinking you just have extraordinarily high standards
I just want to see the results
other option (put in tags)
please reblog if you answer!! i would love to get a large sample size
These are based on my own personal experiences, so this is obviously not an extensive list! please add any others in tags
arospec people, do you have a white aro ring?
yes
no
aro ring?????
reblog for sample size!!!
ARO/ACES AND AROACES OF TUMBLR!!!
Were you dating someone when you found out about your sexuality? If so, what happened to that relationship?
Yes, I broke up with them
Yes, they broke up with me
Yes, We decided to part ways
Yes, We broke up but we're still friends!
Yes, We still date, just platonically!
Yes, We adjusted the rules of our relationship (in some other way)!
No, I didn't need a partner to realize that
I'm aroaceing so hard, you don't even know (some other, nuanced answer, in tags)
which emoji is more aro?
👽
🤖
💚
🫀
🐍
🐸
🦠
🌱
❎️
🐢
Which is better for this (platonic) scene.
Pink!🩷
Yellow!💛
Blue!🩵
Secret fourth option!
IDK/results
Edited to add the secret fourth option and to update with the "fully-rendered" version of Zack