Anon, I just wrote you a massive reply of about ten thousand words (maybe not quite, but close) - but I’m holding onto it until I’m a little more chill about the subject, because you hit a very sore spot and it knocked the cap off my soda and it SPEWED. I’ll post it later when I’m not feeling quite so arsony. But you asked a good question and even though it’s been addressed a thousand times, it needs it again.
Just please come to my DM if you’re feeling really down, okay? I’m not ignoring your Ask, I’m going to post it later. If you want to chat/vent/curse in the meantime, come on over. I feel the exact same way and I will defend your right to be upset about this until the sorry screaming end. Use a sideblog if you don’t want to tell me who you are, or go anon to my inbox again. We’ll talk.
