#arymind

[lagenas]

stop sending fawn anon hate for fucks sake fuck off scumbags

I don't even know what this person is talking about like seriously.... I haven't even posted anything bad to my knowledge?

so I don't know what their issue is

[magiks]

arymind replied to your post: “why do so many artists on tumblr draw in the exact same way ”:

Whispers I'm sorry

nah you aren't under that umbrella there's like this very particular tumblr style that i see a lot

it isn't really a bad thing but idk if everyone is inspired by each other or if it's coincidental somehow ??

[copesetic]

sorry if I'm bothering you or anything about this, Just wanted to be one of those people that actually don't hide behind anon

Not a bother at all!!!! Matter in fact I'm very pleased that you addressed me without an anon. I can understand that yes things are rough when you have social anxiety, I said before that I've dealt with people who have it and personally have a touch of it myself. I'm more than aware that medication and therapy isn't available to everyone, it certainly wasn't for me. I've had to struggle to get over many of my issues in life and that's why I urge others to do so as well. Its doable, but you need the motivation. You seem like you're working your way thru it, and that's fantastic! I said what I said a little more meaner than I should have said it, but I could have been just cruelly blunt and simply said: People who allow themselves to become this crippled by their anxiety aren't looking to make themselves better. They rather complain and garner sympathy for their problems than work on over coming them. But we all know this isn't the case with many people! And that statement itself would have left a harder impact and I certainly would be an asshole for saying such.

I guess to open a window into my logic I'll have to say that I was raised to work hard for what I want. Things weren't handed to me, and personal issues weren't solved. I had to fix them myself. If I wanted something or wanted to be someone I had to do double the work to even be recognized for what I would achieve. Sometimes I wish things were as easy as people make them out to be, but its not. However that won't stop me. I want to make my place in life and I'm going to make it there with the path that I paved myself. I don't have room for pity parties. I have too much I'm striving for. I worked for what I have, and I'll be damned if I let someone tell me my opinions and experience is bumpkus because someone else doesn't know how to work for it yet.

But that aside. I would very much like to thank you for addressing me without anon and not calling me names or swearing! I'm happy you chose to communicate with me! I wish you luck in life and hope you continue to grow in learning to handle your anxiety!

[copesetic]

but once I do call the place at least 2-3 times I do get better, but I do however still get nervous when ordering. That's just apart of my anxiety I guess. What you said may have offended people with how blunt it was, and yea it did sort of offend me too. like we understand that you got better by doing it yourself but that isn't the case for everyone. I'm sorry if I'm coming off rude or if what I'm saying makes no sense, I'm terrible at english

[copesetic]

ok yea I'm actually going to not be on anon like everyone else and say my part of this, a lot of people don't really have the option to go to therapy or get meds for money reasons, since I live in england it was pretty much free. Therapy and meds did not help my social anxiety. I still get anxious to call people, I get anxious going outside (I do go outside, just get anxious when I'm on my bike mostly) I have trouble calling for food sometimes (take aways that you can't order online) (continue)

[magiks]

arymind replied to your post:arymind replied to your post:i’m probably never...

Like I would love to go to concerts that’s like a dream I want to do but then too many people andyea

yeah, i get you. i can only deal with a lot of people in one place if i'm -really- determined to enjoy whatever it is that i'm there for. otherwise i get anxious and terrible usually

[magiks]

arymind replied to your post:i’m probably never going to get to see any of the...

I can’t even go to concerts because of my phobia la u ghs

agh that really sucks i'm sorry