harry & louis are perfect for each other
astro.com has a ‘love, flirtation, and sex’ feature where it shows how the different placements in your natal chart affect your approach to love. and uhhhhh... harry and louis have a hell of a lot of compatibilities. the things that could be issues with some people are the things they each need, which is beautiful.
so this isn’t a synastry, but you can see how their needs work together.
[edited for harry’s 2:30pm birth time - which gives them more of the same house placements]
LOUIS
(cap sun)
he’s a very steady and reliable partner
doesn’t commit hastily, but when he makes a commitment he sticks to it
he will give completely of himself, and wants his partner to live up to his expectations
for long-term happiness, he’d do well with a partner who continually injects freshness and originality into the relationship; he would be a stabilising factor/emotional home base for them
he tends to hold in feelings he would like to communicate, so he needs a fluid and sensitive partner who can explore the depths of his personality without treading on sensitive areas before he’s ready to share
(sun in 8th)
physically sexual; tangible intimacy is very important to him
he’s intuitive and may have considerable subliminal power over others, controlling them without their knowledge
a psychic animal magnetism
may be drawn to power games; a lover who is considerably older or younger; situations where one is a good deal more experienced/teaches the other
no matter what, his key word is intensity
(leo moon)
very open and mellow towards his partner
a very enthusiastic and outgoing partner
his partner should enjoy social gatherings, because he feels unfulfilled if he goes a long time without being social
generally he’s an optimist
physically and emotionally, he could enjoy the presence and love of many different people, but he will lock his truly heartfelt loyalty and love to one person only
(moon in 4th)
his ideal relationship is one that provides an emotional defense for time of trouble or distress
he is happiest with a partner who is absolutely true to him, who is always there when needed
he’s drawn to live-in relationships because it provides the greatest opportunities for warmth and expression of his love; both he and his partner will find it most satisfying to live together 24/7
ideally his partner should cherish the wealth of care and thoughtfulness he provides
(scorpio venus)
he has a very deep, gut-level style in love
when he sets his sights on someone, he doesn’t give up until he gets what he wants
not good with moderation
he prefers sexuality to have tremendous power; sex should be an uncontrollable flood in which he and his partner are caught up in
in everyday life, he has to take care to let control return to both partners equally so that the power dynamics don’t rule their lives
(venus in 6th)
he appreciates well-crafted lovemaking
his partner should like working at improving their relationship and refining the gentle art of love
although he wants to be equal with his partner in the relationship, equality is not ideal in sex; he prefers to be served or to serve
(sag mars)
he tends to approach any sexual/romantic involvement with gusto, jumping right in
he has a talent for bringing an overly thoughtful or melancholy lover out of the dumps and into a gleeful love session by his own open and positive approach
his sexual style borders on the athletic, very energetic; possibly his favourite way to exercise
he needs a partner who fits into the spaces of his own fantasies/kinks and helps fulfil them
(mars in 7th)
he may gravitate towards rather intense, strenuous relationships where both parties emit and demand a great deal of energy
he needs to take care to define respective roles within a relationship
he’s best off with a regular partner who he spends a lot of time with
he derives a great deal of his energy, drive and inspiration from his partner
(gemini rising)
he has a talent for variety in his personal relationships, and therefore could enjoy many kinds of lovers, or a lover who was different themselves
he would find a partner who liked the same thing every time boring
he’s an inventive lover, and needs a sensitive partner who can respond to his delicate touch and lively imagination
imagination is another key word for his style
HARRY
(aqua sun)
he is a very understanding lover, with a special ability to be helpful when his partner is having emotional difficulties
he can enjoy a wide variety of sexual experiences; if he limits himself to one partner, that person would enjoy lovemaking as an affectionate but continuously changing adventure
his partner must respect his freedom
he prefers close contact with open communication
quite capable of carrying on a love affair without any sex at all
(sun in 8th) (same as louis)
physically sexual; tangible intimacy is very important to him
he’s intuitive and may have considerable subliminal power over others, controlling them without their knowledge
a psychic animal magnetism
may be drawn to power games; a lover who is considerably older or younger; situations where one is a good deal more experienced/teaches the other
no matter what, his key word is intensity
(libra moon)
he is a problem-solver; he may continuously try to improve his relationship
he creates beauty and balance in both his physical environment and socially
he needs a partner as willing as he is to confront truth and deal with it directly and clearly
(moon in 4th) (same as louis)
his ideal relationship is one that provides an emotional defense for time of trouble or distress
he is happiest with a partner who is absolutely true to him, who is always there when needed
he’s drawn to live-in relationships because it provides the greatest opportunities for warmth and expression of his love; both he and his partner will find it most satisfying to live together 24/7
ideally his partner should cherish the wealth of care and thoughtfulness he provides
(aqua venus)
he seeks special styles and unusual varieties of love, and partners who have similar interests to his
he needs a lot of action in order to be mentally stimulated in a relationship, so his relationships can become complicated/multi-faceted
interested in unusual relationships; may be tempted to get involved in several relationships at once, which can be stimulating but likely unfulfilling for him (due to: libra moon, cancer rising, scorpio juno, all his 8h/7h placements which require more depth and make him possessive)
(venus in 8th) (counterpart to louis’s scorpio venus)
strives for relationships that are very intense and therefore quite involved
may be drawn toward people who seem mysterious or challenging in some way
requires plenty of physical attention within a relationship; is happiest with a demonstrative lover who pays attention to his physical as well as his emotional needs
the more he can lose himself in a relationship, particularly in its sexual aspects, the more satisfying it will be. he has to try not to let his life outside of the relationship become unbalanced by it.
(aqua mars)
his style of expression is multi-faceted; he is wide-ranging, combining variety with truly satisfying intimacy
he goes out of his way to discover and fulfil all his partner’s fantasies
he must feel free to express his personality, and may not handle a jealous partner (again, his aqua placements being in 8h affects this)
(mars in 8th)
he likes to maintain a certain air of mystery concerning his style and motivations in sexuality, which can add both power and attraction to his image as others see it
in order to stay in control of his sometimes complex and subterranean inner forces, he must make a particular effort to explore them and reach an effective level of self-understanding.
sexual activity has a very invigorating effect on his constitution
he is rather good at unraveling the tangled skeins of others' personal lives. in a relationship, he can pursue seemingly well-hidden motives that reveal his lover's special needs and then satisfy them.
(cancer rising)
probably the most important aspects of a relationship for him are integrity and security. he will persevere through many trials in order to make a relationship work out, as long as he feels that his partner is equally committed.
if there is any problem with this position, it is oversensitivity, a tendency to take remarks made in jest too seriously.
this position makes him a very faithful lover, and an incident of unfaithfulness will be very traumatic for him
he has to try to avoid being overly possessive in the physical sense and remember that faithfulness belongs more to the heart than to the body.
ALSO, i think it’s important to keep their juno/venus connection in mind when discussing compatibility. their venuses are basically interchangeable when it comes to each other 🤷♀️
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