Are you glad you did a big bash wedding? Or if you could take it all back would do you something smaller?
Eh, I don't have major regrets or anything...but it was a lot of work and money for very little personal fulfillment. As anyone who's ever thrown a wedding knows, it was really a party for everyone but us (or me, really, since Micah found time to get wasted drunk while I tended to everyone and everything and barely downed a flute of champagne). Also, as someone who doesn't really "do" feelings in public, the ceremony was mortifying. I cried like an asshole in front of 100 people and I was mad uncomfortable. No one really ever talks about how weird an experience that is.
On the superficial side, I really wanted to get super gussied up, and I got to do that and it was awesome. Except now that I'm stuck with a ritzy dress that no one will buy. Buy my dress, someone? Anyone. Make it go away. I've got photos, I've made my peace with it.
Given a mulligan I would go to city hall, rent out a restaurant for 50 or fewer of our closest, least hated people, and buy a god damned HOUSE with what wasn't spent on stupid wedding "must-haves."