Okay. I’m deleting my psa from last night, because I thought about it more and I want to make it clear: this is nothing wrong with what anyone does to approach me, it’s on me because I can’t balance things. I just want to know what conversations I’m getting into, so I can parse my attention accordingly.
SO
I’m going to own up to what I can do, and start utilizing discord statuses the way they’re meant to be used. I started floating on invisible when I wanted, but got into conversations anyway and it just sort of stayed there.
So my only psa is to please respect what status my discord is set to:
Green/Online - Fully online and available, high social energy. We can talk about whatever you want, including checking in with chit chat.
Idle - Online, but working on something, OR mobile, doing irl things but can still chat. You can poke me with fandom/character stuff or ooc, but I might wait until a good stopping point with what I’m doing to respond.
Invisible - Probably shifting between things, starting to wind down, maybe around but low energy, maybe starting to get into multiple conversations and want to focus on those. I think I’ll use this one for sleeping, too. You can poke me, but you may or may not get a response, or may have to wait for awhile.
Do not disturb - Offline, or really focusing on something. Please wait until the status changes to send messages.
I’ll update my rules with this later too.
I hope that makes it more comfortable for everyone. orz















