Hey jen, im the anon whos parents are separating, my dads now living out of his van and my mum is an emotional mess, she seems to think im siding with my dad and choosing him over her and wont listen to me at all, she said shes really close to kicking me out as she feels betrayed, im really scared, i have my brother who i could stay with but i have important exams basically next week and really dont need any more stress or change what am i suppose to do???
Your mom is acting like a child. IF she is willing to kick your father out and you, she is unstable and unsafe. It might be best if you can move to your brothers. At least there you would be out of the firing line of her anger and unpredicability.
She is dealing with some mental health issues ( or more like not dealing with them).
Even if you go there to stay while you are taking exams it might give your mom time to cool off and get her head together. Don’t wait until she explodes and kicks you out, take control and do what want you can to keep yourself safe.
Any chance your dad and you can get a small apartment or even stay with other relatives? That can wait until you get through exams... for now do what you can to get as much drama away from you as you can. It is not fair you are in this spot.. but you can protect yourself and don’t feel bad about doing it.
