Would Shawn Mendes “Treat You Better?”
In Shawn Mendes' latest, he does bring to light a serious topic and gives valuable information at the end of his video, but...we are going to pick on his lyrics a bit. He recognizes that this young lady is in an unhealthy relationship, which is great, but instead of offering her help and building her up, he just says to dump the guy and start going out with him because he would treat her better. He then puts all the pressure on her and does a little victim blaming when he says, "And anytime you want it to stop...Tell me why are we wasting time, On all your wasted crime, When you should be with me instead." Woah, back off a little there buddy, just how is this better? Is this what a gentleman would say? If you notice someone in an abusive relationship, offer support, help, and refer to a domestic violence shelter. They don't need a replacement partner, they need understanding, patience, a listening ear, a supportive friend. They may need safety because leaving is the most dangerous time for someone. Yes, she deserves better, no one deserves to be hurt emotionally, verbally, or physically. But slow down and think of their needs, not your own. Let them heal before pouncing.
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