looking at the loving side Bj suits Lydia On the sexual side, Dolores, what do you think?
Hhm 🤔. I think we haven't seen Lydia in that context yet to know for sure. Betelgeuse definitely favors Lydia above any other woman, presently. It doesn't matter whether he checks out other sexy ladies, Lydia is clearly special to him. As a matter of fact, he respects her in a way he doesn't respect any other female (insta-pregnancy/Beetlebaby scene aside, I don't think I've seen Betelgeuse grope or force himself on Lydia ever, not even in the first movie where he was arguably wilder, especially in a sexual sense).
He might suit her on the sexual side as much as he suits Delores, though, we just don't know how Lydia is in that context.
As for Lydia, I'd say that she might actually suit him better than Delores in both a romantic and sexual way, considering that he truly does love her. When there's love involved, a wild fun time in bed gains a whole new level of intimacy and meaning that wouldn't be present in a time spent with someone who doesn't truly love you. Lust is not love. Delores would have sucked out his soul (pun intended lol) and left him dry. She might have given him a fun and wild time, but she was giving him her body without giving him her heart. I want to believe that if Betelgeuse and Lydia get to the point of actually marrying and being intimate, that they both will be in love with each other and therefore, whether Lydia is gentler than Delores in bed or not, being intimate with her will feel worlds better than being with Delores ever felt for Betelgeuse.
And I think that, because he loves Lydia and respects her, Betelgeuse will meet Lydia where she's at in her intimacy and he will be who she needs, both physically and lovingly/romantically.
I have this headcanon, though, that Lydia will match Betelgeuse's freak in bed lol. She might even surprise him, as he will surprise her. I headcanon that Lydia's never had it as good as she'll have it with Betelgeuse. Fingers crossed for a scene like that between them in movie three 🤭. Highly doubt it though, but a girl can hope. Don't be a coward, Tim. Anyway, I wrote a bit more about them in this context here, if you want to read more. 👀















